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Q&A: Planning my maternity leave?

I'm totally overwhelmed trying to plan my maternity leave. What exactly do I need to do?

Re: I'm totally overwhelmed trying to plan my maternity leave. What exactly do I need to do?

The Bump Expert

First, relax. You're not the first working woman to have a baby, and it's definitely not as complicated as it seems. Second, use this guide to put together a plan.

[ ] Know your rights
Read up on your company’s policies regarding pregnancy rights and maternity leave, as well as your rights under the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA).

[ ] Ask an expert
If possible, confer with a (trustworthy) colleague who’s been in the same situation. Ask about how her news was received, how was she treated during her pregnancy and any other info that may be helpful to you.

[ ] Devise a plan
Determine how much time you want to take off, approximately when you want your leave to start, how accessible you plan to be once you’re out, how much you plan to work during your first weeks back on the job, whether you plan on working a part-time or flexible schedule or telecommute, and who will handle your responsibilities in your absence.

[ ] Set up a meeting
Don’t break your big news as you pass your boss in the hall. Instead, make an appointment to sit down together so you’ll have plenty of time and privacy to discuss the situation and your plans. Then, formalize the arrangements you agree upon in writing (and send a copy to your human resources department) so there are no misunderstandings later on.

[ ] Be ready for surprises
Even if you think you’ve got everything planned perfectly, stuff happens. Baby could come early or late, or you could have unexpected complications. Keep this in mind as you consider when your leave will start and end.

[ ] Train your replacement
Don’t assume anyone can do your job as well as you can. Make sure to go over how to handle your clients, reports, subordinates, and any other responsibilities. Leave detailed step-by-step instructions as well as your contact info.

[ ] Set boundaries
If you don’t want to be completely out of the loop while you’re on leave, request a daily or weekly email that outlines what’s happening at work. But if you want to be contacted only in case of emergency, say so (nicely).

The Bump Editors | May 01 , 2009 1:54 PM

re: Q: Maternity Leave Logistics?

I'm thinking on not coming back, but I'm not sure how should I handle this?

degg | April 10 , 2007 5:41 PM

re: Q: Maternity Leave Logistics?

I am in the same boat...I am not planning on coming back but don't know when I should tell my boss......

LaGambagGIRL | May 04 , 2008 7:28 AM

re: Q: Maternity leave logistics?

I'm planning on sticking around for 3 months and then leaving. I've been asking for a promotion for nearly 1 year and have been left hanging. Now, I realize that it's not worth it and going back to school. That's how I'm telling my boss.

tqsbride | May 21 , 2008 11:25 PM

re: Q: Maternity leave logistics?

I talked to our HR dept last week and he said if I am planning on not coming back to not say anything to him because he'll have to notify the insurance company. I've also read that if you take paid short term disability you have to return to work for at least 30 days or you could be penalized for the time you took short term and have to pay all or some of it back.

youngmomma | October 28 , 2008 2:45 PM

re: Q: Maternity leave logistics?

I have recently learned that I do not qualify for FMLA and so my entire maternity will be unpaid. My company (school district) also does not offer short term disability. Finally, any time that I take unpaid is going to effect my seniority making me very susceptible for lay off at the end of the school year...ahhh

radebczak | December 03 , 2008 5:23 PM

re: Q: Maternity leave logistics?

I am quitting, too. I plan to quit July 31 (due date is Aug 22). I think I'm going to tell my boss this Tuesday... I know it's a lot of heads up time, but I want them to find someone that I can train for them before I go...

ShinyHappyMe | June 06 , 2009 12:47 PM

Q&A: Planning my maternity leave?

I have let my boss know as it is the right thing to do that I plan to leave following any rules I must play by so as not to loose out with my company. I have sent off paperwork to my doctor to begin my leave at 36 weeks and to return 6-8 weeks after baby is born. After that I plan to work 2weeks - 1 month before hitting it!

WildHorseFeathers | August 18 , 2009 3:01 PM

Q&A: Planning my maternity leave?

I also plan on not coming back but i don't know how to mention it to my Boss. I think he may have a clue. I'm not a permanent employee and i don't have benefits so even if i did come back i don't think i'll qualify for disability anyways.

CyndiM | September 08 , 2009 6:47 PM

Q&A: Planning my maternity leave?

Talk to your human resource representative at work and they will give you a packet information on everything you need to do including the steps to take before and after maternity leave!

lilcutie0529 | September 23 , 2009 8:43 PM

Q&A: Planning my maternity leave?

I am struggling with this too... I am envious of my friends that get to take 12 weeks off PAID by their company. My maternity leave policy only gives you 6 weeks paid, and the rest is up to your personal/vacation time. I don't know what I am going to do yet. Day Care scares me... and so does getting a babysitter I can trust. I may just wait and see how I feel when baby gets here...

Jennypreggers | July 05 , 2010 12:54 PM

Q&A: Planning my maternity leave?

After I had my first daughter, I returned to work when she was 10 weeks old (I had taken 2 weeks prior to her birth off as well), and made it all of 3 weeks on a full time schedule before cutting my hours to 24/week (one day is Saturday which my DH has off.) That was she away from us for 2 days a week. After I have my next daughter- I'm considering leaving completely as day care costs for those two days may be a bit excessive with my two year old and the new baby.

sthomas1184 | July 23 , 2010 8:46 PM

Q&A: Planning my maternity leave?

I'm staying at work. I haven't decided when I'm leaving for maternity yet. I've been feeling really well so far, and so I'm planning on leaving at my due date. I get 6 weeks paid, 6 weeks unpaid off. My husband makes triple what I make, and he can pick up an OT shift to make up for me not getting paid (Which makes me sick by the way lol). Then when I come back, my dad has retired and volunteered to watch the baby, and my sister-in-law wants to watch the baby once or twice a week. Looks good on paper, we'll see how it goes in the real life senario!

bari516 | May 05 , 2011 3:04 PM

Q&A: Planning my maternity leave?

I'm going back. Mine is only a part-time job, and the pay isn't that great, but my benefits are fantastic. Plus, I'll have my insurance kick in 9 months from now, and I can get baby insured in 16 months; my husband is self employed, does what he loves, works part time, and makes great money, but NO benefits. Great thing is, hubby will be home during the 4.5 hrs that I'll be at work (I'll be back well before he goes to work), so we'll have no daycare expenses! =D So I've got a decent little set up here:)

irisheyednut | October 18 , 2011 8:40 PM

Q&A: Planning my maternity leave?

i am at a small doctors office (there are only 4 of us) my boss already told me that my job would be waiting on me when i got back but im not sure if i want to go back. i'm only 11 weeks so i have time to plan it but its my first child and i dont want to miss anything like my parents or my husbands parents did with us. i really want to be there but i really do love my job. but my hours arent easy to work with when it comes to daycare either (both of us work 11am-9pm) i really just would like some advice... im not sure what to do.

AEHall51411 | October 31 , 2011 11:26 AM

Q&A: Planning my maternity leave?

I'm planning on taking 8 weeks I haven't decided when I'm actually going out im due February 20th so I may go out on or before my due date. My boyfriends step mom is retired so she has offered to watch the baby plus my sister lives with me and has also offered! I work in HR so I have a meeting with my benefits. Department this week we will see....

AllyKatt29 | December 26 , 2011 7:49 PM

Q&A: Planning my maternity leave?

I went back to work when my daughter was 10 weeks old and I put her in daycare. With my second child, I'll be doing the same thing. While I truly enjoy spending time with my daughter, adult interaction is very important to me. I've already told my boss my long term plans and I douibt that they will change. I'll take no more than 10 weeks off (I'm going to schedule an induction so that I can have everything planned out) and will return full time. I have some help if I need it, but I prefer for my child to be in daycare so that he/she can learn how to socialze. My oldest daughter will start public Pre-K and will no longer be attending daycare.

JStatler | January 31 , 2012 12:00 PM

Q&A: Planning my maternity leave?

I have been at my workplace since august, and I just got a promotion last month. My husband and I think its best for me to leave altogether. How am I supposed to tell them since I just got a promotion and finished training and then found out I'm pregnant? I feel horrible because they just trained me and I'm going to quit. I am scared to tell them because I don't know how I will be treated.

smrhodes91 | February 16 , 2012 3:36 PM

Q&A: Planning my maternity leave?

I'm an HR professional and have just told my VP about my pregnancy and that I'll be returning part-time (currently I'm Full-TIme), however, we've had many women choose not to come back to work. Every business handles this differently and every insurance plan has different parameters. If you have an HR office available to you, I'd suggest talking to them first. You can let them know that you have benefit questions related to your pregnancy and would like them to keep the conversation confidential. Assuming you have a trustworthy HR department, you can ask them how different scenarios would impact different pieces of your leave and benefits just to help you plan as you move forward. This way, when you approach your manager you are speaking from an informaed position. Additionally, keep in mind that a lot may change while you're on leave. While you're planning not to return to work, it's possible that your partner may lose their source of income (or have a decrease in income) during that timeframe; in which case you may actually want/need to return to work. Just food for thought as you consider whether to leave the door to return to work open in case your circumstances change.

jessikw1981 | May 01 , 2012 4:16 PM