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Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm finally back in the mood for sex... but things feel a little different down there. What's going on?

Re: I'm finally back in the mood for sex... but things feel a little different down there. What's going on?

The Bump Expert

Ahh, the second trimester... Thanks to raging hormones and (hopefully) decreasing fatigue and nausea, your libido is rebounding nicely from the first trimester fade. In fact, some women find these middle months bring the best sex not just of their pregnancy, but of their lives. Keep in mind, though, that the changes in your body certainly don't skip your private parts.

Blood flow to your vagina's muscles and lining is increased, which can make it feel fuller. Some women find this pleasurable; others, uncomfortable. Lubrication and vaginal secretion will naturally increase, which again can be either nice or a nuisance. Try not to panic if you experience bleeding or spotting after sex. The increased blood flow to your cervix can result in broken blood vessels at its tip. Avoid deep penetration to lessen this disturbing (but harmless) occurrence, and don't hesitate to call the doc if you're especially concerned.

It’s also important to keep your husband abreast of the changes you’re experiencing. Your boobs and genitals are increasingly sensitive, and a touch to the same spot might feel extremely pleasurable one day and incredibly uncomfortable the next. Don't hesitate to give him careful instructions -- he can't know what feels good unless you tell him.

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Paula Kashtan

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I for sure feel a difference down there when it comes to sex!! My husband...needless to say...is enjoying it thoroughly haha!! My breast are much more sensitive...I have to tell him to not suck or bite them because they are VERY sensitive. Other than that I'm enjoying myself!!

deidre831 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm not back in the mood at all, sex is painful and i'm not enjoying it at all, infact i feel repulsed!!! not good on the love life at all but just not in the mood ever!!!

laurendb |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

Sex should be fine...once I get over the urge to burst into tears and be held. I'm so emotional! I feel like a basket-case. I actually cried at the movie "13 Going on 30" the other night. Forget having sex...all I want to do is be held and cuddled.

HamNCheeze |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

i'm 20 wks.We tried to do it a couple of weeks ago... and it totally hurt!!! he actually had to stop. Sometimes I really do feel in the mood, but after trying a few times- I just can't get into it and get over the pain. My poor hubby! when will it get better?????

gonnabeamom1 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm at 5 weeks and I went from LOVING sex and always wanting more to not wanting it ever. I cant wait to want it again. My husband is enjoying the vacation, I miss it! I'm at the point where I don't mind sex, but I sure don't enjoy it like I used to!

RachelGrayinAK |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I think it is different for everyone and every pregnancy. When I was pregnant with my daughter, I had very little or no libido, and whenever we did have sex it was uncomfortable (not painful, ,just uncomfortable) Even my husband said it felt "different" and not in a good way. I am now 14 weeks pregnant with my second baby and wow, what a difference! I have increased libido and sex feels better than ever. I wish it felt like this when I wasn't pregnant!

kmswan427 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I am 9 weeks pregnant and finally feeling some desire for intimacy. I feel so full and my husband can feel it too. I am varying between feeling phenomenal to feeling very painful. I also am feeling not as sexy because of my belly bulge...I've always had a flat stomach so I am slightly self conscious.

Team Starr Cress |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm 19 weeks, and the past 2 weeks I've been all over my husband, not that he's complaining!

creed612 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

My sex drive has definitely risen, and my husband seems to enjoy that, but even since I hit month 4 we have yet to get through an encounter successfully. I can't seem to be comfortable any way that we try it and it's very frustrating for the both of us.

shian12 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm 17 weeks and my desire to be intimate is just beginning to return but I've found that things are increasingly uncomfortable and its hard to find a position where my belly and boobs are not in the way! Definitely feeling frustrated!

kenni&bran05 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

After going through IVF and having some bleeding early on in my pregnancy (thus subsequently not being to have sex for nearly 3 MONTHS!) I must say things are looking up! I have finally gotten over the fear that sex would cause more bleeding and be potentially harmful. I am officially 12 weeks and sex has never been this good before!

Cale |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

The only thing that got in the way with my husband and I enjoying each other was the constant throwing up and nausea. I am finally at 13 weeks and over the "all day" sickness. Now, my hubby and I are back to our "active" lifestyle. He has mentioned that it feels different, warmer, and wetter, but kind of sticky.

TeachVicky |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I just hit 12 weeks on Tuesday and I still don't have any desire to have sex. If and when my husband does persuade me it hurts so bad I just want it over with quickly. I feel really bad for him.

Katybug24 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm 12 and 1/2 weeks and I have not wanted to have sex for awhile now and still don't. It's not that I can't get in the mood, but once we do it, it totally hurts! It sucks. I feel so bad for my husband, I can tell he's frustrated. Hopefully this will change...

susie985 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

The trouble is, I just don't feel like a sexual being right now. I feel awkward, and fat, and tired. My husband married this hot, sexy thin girl, and 4months later he's got this old, boring fat wife. He seems to looove the roundness of everything. He's all over me, but I just wanna watch rom-coms and eat junk food.

armacoonsum |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

Most positions feel really great, just that much better than normal. But some of the more exotic positions we do hurt, when they didn't use to. Of course, I've been too sick to do them lately :9

kokomokola |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I always had been confident will having sex with my partner, but even now being 17 weeks pregnant and having all these body changes sex for me and my husband has been very enjoyable.My husband loves to see how my body has been changing during pregnancy that excist him alot. I had been more sensitive now on some body parts and sometimes have to tell my husband what to tuch and what to not tuch but the rest is great and we are also experincing other position is very funfull!!!

ISAACANDSHALIN |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

From weeks 5-9 for me sex was ok, but I would hurt so bad after. I had really bad cramping when I first got pregnant and sex only made that worse. Now I don't get in to mood as easily as when we first became intimate, but once we get going, it's the most amazing sex ever. He seems to be loving it.

katiepicaso |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I have to say I feel sorry for the ones who are saying that sex has been painful even in the 2nd trimester. I am just over 12 weeks and I will say in the 1st trimester early on I didn't want it sue to morning /all day sickness and being tired all the time. Now that I have entered my 2nd trimester it's a completely different story!!! It's like I have this whole new attraction to my husband and the sex is better than ever! I hope it stays like this forever and I am sure he would agree!

aaronsamour |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

It seems to me that there are different strokes for different folks. I'm 10 weeks and the last two weeks have been great. I want to have lots of sex. I'm told I'm a little early for that since I am still in my first trimester; nevertheless my husband and I are enjoying it.

mbloomnobblen |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm 29 weeks and STILL have no desires at all to have sex. Even my boyfriend of 7 years feels weird about it..all we can think about is the baby and that makes it weird! I think my body changes make me feel very self conscious. I can't wait for things to get back to how they were before..weve had an awesome sex life for the past 7 years. Now its a ghost town down there!!

sspliffany |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm 9 weeks and sex with my husband has been better than ever!!!! I just want to be with him all the time!!

glendal |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I will be 9 weeks tomorrow, and my Husband and I have been intimate more now that we are pregnant than we were when we were ttc. The sex is great, however certain positions hurt. I am a Passion Parties Independant Consultant so we have lots of literature on different positions to help with it not hurting. and they also have an amazing lubricant that helps for those feeling dry moments and it also help when you are ttc cause it does not inhibit the sperm meeting the egg as most do. My suggestion is to get a book and try the different positions to help feel what is right for you, and use lube if you feel dry to help get the intimacy back to your relationship!!

mommy110711 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

Oddly enough, I didn't lose my sex drive at all. My husband was the hesitant one. Once I convinced him that the "waters were fine" and he wouldn't hurt me, he commented on how I feel tighter and warmer. Makes sense. I'm enjoying the change for sure.

LMScherr |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

As usual, everybody's input has made me feel sooo much better! Thank, guys! I am at 12 weeks, and for me, that means 12 weeks of lackluster sex drive. There have been a few, random, super-horny occasions, but for the most part I have had an aversion to sex. When I do get the urge, I'd usually rather take care of my own needs rather than deal with the exertion and mess of sex. Poor DH!! He does not share my reserve, but he's sure trying to be understanding. Crossing my fingers that conditions will soon improve!!!

wifeon61309 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

my sex caving has actually increased and even my husband said he needs a break from sex. Im 19w and 5days and my poor hubby jokes with his friends that as soon as he steps in the door from work i pretty much attack him. LOL hes kind of enjoys my increase in sex. it doesn't feel any different really its really enjoyable now...

lil=one |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I am at almost 10 weeks and now that my all day sickness is starting to get better my sex drive has skyrocketed. I feel a little guilty that I want it this much ALL of the time now.

pipergirlz |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm with the last writer! I'm at 12 weeks and I want it all the time. Unfortuantely my husband does not :( The frustration is hard but I'm finding myself pleasuring myself way more than usual.

rmclaren |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I agree with most of you - i just entered my 12 th week and The sex is different and very very good !!!!!!!!! It was good before - but it is REALLY GOOD now !! WOW !! My Husband is enjoying as well !!!!! I feel bad for those of you who hurt and not having a desire ! You should experience this !!!!!!! WOW ! This is my first pregnancy, now I know why couples end up with 7 and 8 kids !!!! It feels great when you are pregnant !!!!!

GrazMommy |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I have been much more amorous the past week. All day. My breasts, however, are a no zone. They are tender and in pain all the time.

aknoll33 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I don't like it at all. I feel bloated and crappy and uncomfortable. I am so sensitive to every touch! I hope this ends soon.

alexismlnj@aol.com |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

after we first found out i was pregnant, my sex drive increased big time. but after a while i never ever wanted to have sex. If my partner tried, i would just get mad and swat him away. I am almost 13 wks now and I am noticing my sex drive making an appearance again. Hopefully soon I will be all over him again!!

KariNeilson |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I was on pelvic rest for the first 20 weeks. Once I was released from it, we were both pumped to get back into the action. Unfortunately, as others are saying, it feels horrible now. my walls feel rough and its not pleasurable whatsoever. if i'm in the mood it can lasts for 15 minutes but the man needs more time making it frustrating for both of us :( Now he doesn't even want to attempt it knowing the likelihood that he won't finish. ha, we both determined that Valentine's Day will be around the time we can get back to business!

Curlybur4 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

My libido dropped during the first trimester. Now that I'm in the second, it seems like its starting to come back around, but I've only gotten to the big O once since being pregnant. THAT is the frustrating part. My husband and I have definitely found that lubricants help big time with some of the uncomfortable-ness, as it seems like ever since I got pregnant, I've dried up like a raisin down there.

nse712 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm 21 weeks pregnant and the actual act of sex feels good but i can feel my stomach harden with the baby moving to the front of my belly which makes me feel really uncomfortable. I can see why people feel like having sex affects the baby because it totally feels like she's being jabbed up to the front. I have noticed that after orgasm the baby "wakes up" and kicks more.

Tini0211 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm 12 weeks now and I guess I'm the weird one because my sex drive was always active from the beginning of my pregnancy. Instead of penetration, we find things to do to enjoy each other in pleasurable ways so that I wouldn't experience any discomfort. To keep things fun, just find new things to do to bring enjoyment before "baby" comes.

klreese2 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I am 12 weeks and we have not had sex at all since we got pregnant because I spot when we do and I had a miscarriage right before we got pregnant with this one. I have not had ANY sex drive. Now that we are past the 12 week mark he is excited to try and do it, but I'm not interested in it. The fact that he wants it so bad turns me off even more (weird I know) so I guess I'll let him get it over with so I can get back to sleeping.

Mia11 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I still feel the same desire wise, but I have a weird sensation that I have to pee once we have been having sex for about 15 minutes. But wen I stop and go to the restroom and try to come right back im all dry so it kind of hurts. does this happen to anyone else. . .? just wondering

Laydnblu |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I am curious for all who have not been interested in doing the deed are you pregnant with a girl or boy?Just wondering!

tynsonya |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I feel bad for everyone who still doesn't have their sex drive back... my husband and i have always had a great sex life (especially after our first son!).. so this time around i felt so awful for him because i had no desire for it at all from like 5-10 weeks, poor guy was dying! haha. now that i've hit 12 weeks i want it ALL the time! he's definitely a happy camper now & the sex is AMAZING! definitely different, but literlly the best EVER! hope you all get to experience this!!!!

TnT428 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm about 11 1/2 weeks and just recently, sex has been the BEST I have ever had!!!!! It's been totally different!! We have always had a very sexy marriage, but over the last month or so, we still have been intimate, but I havent felt very good...But the nausea is going away and sex is amazing!!!! Hope it gets even better!!! Pregnancy isn't all that bad anymore!!! :D

joshandbrittney |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

well I've turned into a sex freak tee hee my husband tries to sneak away and i caught him get your butt back in bed i told him so funny it was the other way around poor man is to tired to go to work i just don"t know what happened to me it is more painful but ounce we get going the juice is loose i think its so beautiful he is very gentle me on the other hand sex monster i dream about it every night hope i calm down a little bit tho.....

boobookitty73 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I agree that sex definitely feels different than it used to. Not painful, uncomfortable like some previous posts mentioned. My breasts are still pretty sore and the last thing I want is him touching them. They are no man's land! I am almost 12 weeks and don't really have much of a desire to do it but try to muster up the energy and willingness for hubby's sake at least once a week. He seems alright with waiting once in a while but you know some men...complain, complain, complain! LOL. And he can forget about oral, not with this gag reflex lately! I certainly hope that it gets better FOR ME over the next few months so I can get some enjoyment as well! ;-) Carry on sisters!

ASUgal1980 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

So I am in my 12th week, and up until the last week, my sex drive has been very low. I was just too tired. And when I would get "in the mood," it'd be at weird times...like in the car, in Walmart, when hubby was at work, or after hubby had fallen asleep and had to be at work early. And I had vivid sex dreams. But when he was in the mood, forget it! He'd try his best, but nothing would work. I mean it did sometimes. Now, my libido has picked up, and it is AMAZING! Although, I have to use a vibrator to help warm things up. But hubby is ok with it :) Some positions hurt or are uncomfortable, but its fun finding the ones that work. And I always cramp afterwards, but I pee and lay on my left side and its gone within 10 mins.

ksbrrd |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

im 12 weeks and sex feels amazing than ever before. my husband is ejoying the new natrual lubrication. but i gotta tell him to hold off on my nipples though, because they get uber sensitive

missmarisa86 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

It's not only the uncomfortable feeling that can be frustrating, but is the irratablility that sours the mood. I don't know why but while we're getting intimate, he'll lay his head the wrong way or just move differently and i'll just want to punch him. It's the strangest thing because i'm normally and very patient and easy going person and yet here I am wanting to stop everything just because of a different movement. Damn the hormones!

lindsayship |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

i have no desire for it but today is my 12 weeks so I'm very excited for a change and to get back to the old me...

sacaribbean |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm 12 weeks and I never really had too many days that I didn't want to have sex, in fact I wanted it and enjoyed more than normal from the beginning and that hasn't changed going into the end of this first trimester. If it gets better (or worse lol) hubby is going to hire a pitch hitter (that's a joke).

nickijohnsonlittle |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

The first weeks after conception I was so tired I'd growl at my fiancee to "leave me alone". Now I'm entering my 2nd trimester and the last 2-3 weeks have been great. Things down there feel fuller, and I don't hear any complaining from him. My orgasms have been the best of my life and it's a good thing too, because I can't bend over safely in my own house without my fiancee insisting we head to the bedroom. :)

MommySept13 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I am 12 weeks and loving my sex drive and so is my husband. He barely gets in the door from work and I am mauling him. :)

sanchezplus1 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

Girls with problems finding the right positions, me and my hubby found a loop hole!!!!!!!!! inflatable position pillows (they can hold up to 300lbs!) we bough one doe to awkward positions and it feeling funny. well lets just say hubby is fully enjoying the pillow, and it makes some of his favourite positions more comfortable for me so i plan on using it even after the baby is born. it really is a life savor. there is other kinds to google "liberator ramps" and you can find the full line of stuff (there isnt inflatable a fair bit more expensive but there is more options for a pregnant belly to get comfy in with them.)

nettster |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

i'm 12 weeks pregnant and still don't want sex at all! i feel terrible for my fiance but i don't know what to do..i tried to talk to him he kinda understands but still feel awful that i can't give it to him...and it's weird because i had a dream last night that i was calling him so we can do it..but reality i don't wanna do it...so weird =/

dorothyandjason |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I will be 14wks on Wednesday and I got my libido back about 2 wks ago. I'm still concerned with having sex with my boyfriend. He was excited as soon as I got pregnant and loves looking and touching my body changes. I feel awful because I was dead inside (sexually) for the last 3 months. I'm worried if I tell him he will be all over me all the time like before I got pregnant and I'm not ready for that. So I've been taking care of myself. I wish after being all day sick and in bed for months I had the same story to share about our sex life, but maybe some day soon I will try again soon. I have heard from nearly every pregnant friend how wonderful sex is, which is truly what we both need right now :) wish me luck.

Oats17 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I am 12 weeks today and since I was about 3 weeks along sex has been unbelievably amazing! But on the other hand I have been so sick, nauseated and sleepy that we havnt been able to have as much fun as either one of us would like. Definatly differen from my first pregnancy! The first one I was never sick but sex hurt and I would hold back the tears so my husband wasn't high and dry for whole duration! So maybe I will have a boy! It would be interesting to know if people are having boys or girls when they say their symptoms to see if it says anything about sex feeling better or hurting!

ajreiter86 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I am feeling VERY different with sex. I`m more than in the mood but my body is overly sensitive to every little thing. My fiancee loves it but it drives me insane, at the very least.

LovelyGurl88 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm 11 weeks and I never really lost my sex drive but with the all day sickness now dissipating sex is better, although I'm so emotional I find myself crying over everything I actually started crying when me and my Fiancee were having sex. He couldn't believe that I started to cry and I felt like such an idiot.

Asheehan1609 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I am 12 weeks and Sex has been amazing! I already had a healthy Sex drive but as of late, the feelings and Emotions have been at an all time high. Im just counting the days until my hubby returns from Iraq, I hope this new libido lasts through out my pregnancy!!!

svaughn4 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I've been very sick, with all day sickness for all of May. We are just about 12 weeks along and we had a miscarriage in January. I just got my drive back around week 10. It was a little uncomfortable but we worked through it. This will be my second, and last baby- I'm 36 and we have 4 teen boys between us :)

heatherjh |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I love pregnant sex. It doesn't take either of us as long to orgasm and my orgasms are more intense. I asked my partner if it felt any different having sex now (I'm 12 weeks) and he said it feels great, more juicier - lol. We've always had an active sex drive, it slowed down the last 6 weeks because of morning sickness and migraines, but when we do have it, we love it.

havingakitten |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

i have always really enjoyed sex, befor i got pregnate my husband had a hard time keeping up and NOW im like i crazy woman!! i want it all the time and for twice as long as i ever have! i am about 9years younger then my husband and i almost feel bad for the guy but i cant help it i just want it all the time!

mbell771 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I am been pretty "good to go" in the first trimester, so I hope my husband is taking his multivitamin for the second trimester...lol. I have been pretty lucky so far, no vomiting, mild to no nausea. Just the super fatigue....but that's almost over ..I hope! (12weeks today!)

reneecaines |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

We would love to have sex BUT my husband says it feels weird down there. It feels diffrerent which makes sex not exciting.

ncheuveret |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

Sex has been F'n fabulous for us.

SAGsoon2bSAJ |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

The first trimester ruined my sex life, so hopefully we'll get something in the second trimester like they say! I never am in the mood to have sex, all I ever want to do is cuddle. My Fiance doesn't understand why I don't ever want to have sex. I try to make him understand its not him, its ME ;; with all the hormones, the nausea, the fatigue, I just don't ever want to do anything.

rcart538 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I nnever lost the want for sex unfortuantly my husband did. Even after talking to doctor he still thinks it hurts baby and I have to pretty much beg when I do get it. It preferred feels different. I feel like we use more lubricant..

MegRun11 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm 11 weeks and sex during the past few weeks has resulted in some of the most MONUMENTAL orgasms I've ever had the pleasure of experiencing. WOW! What a plus :) My breasts are extremely tender but once I explain and give cues as to how to treat them..they are just a further pathway to pleasure! In fact, I'm horny again just writing this.

miamigirl1969 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

Since we've found out, sex has not been the same for me. Not only is my sex drive non-existent, but it is very painful. So painful that I can't make it more than 2 minutes and we have to stop. Prior to pregnancy, my sex life was incredible. Now? Well, let's just say that I was crying on the bathroom floor yesterday after trying to make love. I read all of these articles that say how my libido is supposed to be through the roof. I am feel the exact opposite and just hope that this is because I'm pregnant and not because something has happened and I am no longer a sexual diva like I was prior to my pregnancy.

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Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

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Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

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SelenaGG |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

We'll in the beginning at about 6 weeks I had no desire to have sex, at 12 weeks it has gotten better. I feel like I am more interested in having sex now.

mpmitchell2012 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I am 12 weeks today and I can just start to sence my sex drive comming back. I feel bad for my husband we have had sex maybe three times in the last 6 weeks or so. It was so painful it was like loosing my virginity again. I am hoping that now I am ending my first trimester things will get better.

PastryMom53 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm also 12 weeks and starting to feel the sexual drive again. However, hubby is scared something will happen to the baby, so he's nowhere near the mood yet :(

laetana |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

Ii am 17 weeks and i can not enougj sex the more i gey the more iwent i enevn give oral sex

carolyntrac |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

During this first trimester sex has not had much to do with me. I finally got back to where i want it about 4weeks ago. to me it comes and goes bc of my raging hormones. I'm finally where all i want to do is have sex with my hubby. i'm currently 12weeks.

chelseacapps |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

For the first trimester sex was not on my mind at all. The urge finally came back though and both of us were extremely happy. It wasn't painful or uncomfortable at all. Once i hit 20 weeks however every time we had sex it felt like it was my first time all over again. The pain was unbearable and our sex life started to decrease. Sadly it is still happening but it will hopefully pass. I am 21weeks now.

rochelleandrus |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I am 12 weeks about now, but my sex drive never left during any of my pregnancy. Never hurt, never felt uncomfortable, my boobs are really sensitive though haha. I guess I'm one of the lucky ones!

Comicrelief22 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I haven't felt like having sex much but that is a bit normal for busy me but due to the growth of my breasts by husband can't keep his hands of me (not that he could before pregnancy anyway). We have had sex once to twice a week from week 6-12. However, it has only been comfortable from behind. Missionary feels just too deep and painful. In weeks 10-12 we have discovered a position that feels great for me! Sorry if this is too much information but it may help some of you: When my husband is kneeling behind me, I put my knees together and feet inside his legs... wow! Sex in general is ultra-sensitive but we have found one way that I enjoy it currently...(that is when I can get my mind away from thinking we are going to give the baby a bounce house experience). Looking forward to the weeks ahead.

artzindy |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I definitely haven't been the one to initiate sex since pregnancy... like others have mentioned I am just plain tired. No nausea or headaches, yet. Feeling self conscious of my body as well. The curves are fun but I have been breaking out on my back and wonder if that grosses my husband out (although I am sure it's all in my head). Twice a week has been normal but it's usually all during the weekends when I haven't had to work and have time to relax. I do agree that there are different, more heightened, sensations that are sort of neat.

christineschmalz |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

So what is it then if I'm in the mood all the time but my husband seems like he's repulsed by my big belly, he doesn't even want to hold me when we go to bed. Doesn't help in my self esteem/image area, I feel like a fat cow and the way he DOESN'T touch me anymore justifies that feeling...

sinnee |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I am 12wks and 1 day, sex is def different and way more pleasurable I about had a orgasm by him just touching my boobs lol. That and its more pleasurable than normal for me.

mommy2133 |

Q&A: Sex feels different while pregnant?

I'm 21 weeks and while the sex is the best it has ever been for me, my husband doesn't like it. He says my vagina has changed to much and is to different.

engelbrj |