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How Can I Help My Partner Feel Baby Kick?

My partner hasn't felt the baby kick. How can I help him feel it?


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My partner hasn't felt the baby kick. How can I help him feel it?


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Like just about everything else related to pregnancy, this varies from woman to woman. You probably started feeling baby move around week 20, but that tapping or fluttering sensation takes a little bit longer—anywhere from 23 to 30 weeks—to be felt from the outside. If you’re dying to share this new development with your partner, remember that it’s all about timing, so pay attention to when baby is particularly active. “Many babies move more in the evenings or at night, so this is when he should spend some time with his hand on your tummy,” says Mary Hirschi, certified nurse midwife at Texas Children’s Pavilion for Women in Houston. During the day, baby can be lulled to sleep by all the movement of your daily routine, which is why when you settle in for the night she’s often first perking up. You may also just be more aware of her movements when you’re no longer focused on your busy schedule.

Hirschi suggests light massage, music or drinking ice water to help wake baby up and trigger some kicks. But don’t get discouraged if your partner keeps missing out on the movement; getting it down right away is almost an art, and it requires a lot of patience. “Sooner or later, the movements will also become visible to others from the outside, and baby will provide you both with some entertaining moments,” Hirschi says.

Once you feel baby squirming on a regular basis, it’s also a good time to start recording kick counts. “Fetal movements are a great indication of fetal health, so doing a daily kick count after 28 weeks can be a reassuring sign baby is healthy,” Hirschi explains. Pick a time each day to track how long it takes to feel 10 movements—the baby should move 10 times or more in under two hours. If you notice any major deviations, give your OB a ring and let them know.


Plus, more from The Bump:

How to Do Kick Counts

How Often Should Baby Kick?

Fetal Kick Count Tracker

Anisa Arsenault

How Can I Help My Partner Feel Baby Kick?

Im 26 weeks now and I myself have been able to feel the baby move and kick since about 18 weeks. Once I noticed that the kicks were strong enough that I can actually see my stomach move and he actually has developed a quite regular routine. Basically his movements are done around the same times each day its been easier to allow others to be able to feel him. I just wait until he's really kicking alot and let them feel. Also I've noticed that if I wish on my tummy just a little bit he'll push or kick back lol.

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