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Baby Registry 411

Free baby loot—it’s like your wedding all over again! Here are some key registry do’s and don’ts:

Do feel free to tell the host of your shower where you are registered so she can spread the word. It’s totally acceptable to have registry websites listed on your invitation.

Don’t feel pressured to divulge details you’d planned to keep secret, like the baby’s name, just because people insist on monogramming a blanket. Tell them that it’s important to you to keep things a surprise.

Do register for the basics, from newborn diapers to pacifiers to an infant bathtub. You’ll need these essentials and will wind up buying them anyway.

Don’t get sucked into registering for cute toys or outfits that your baby won’t be able to use until he or she is a year old. You have plenty of time to drop hints to friends and family at holiday and birthday time.

Do register at more than one store, especially if you have family members buying you gifts from all over the country.

Don’t expect everyone to buy your gifts online. While it’s convenient for you, Aunt Suzy may still not feel comfortable on the computer. Make sure one of the places you register has an actual store with your registry on file.

Do ask the stores you’re registering with if they offer a one-time discount for closing out your registry (basically buying everything you didn’t get at your shower).

Don’t get upset if guests don’t buy from your registry. Yes, that pink velour baby tracksuit is heinous (especially because you’re having a boy), but suck it up and smile.

What to Buy for Baby

Use our handy checklist to make sure you have everything you'll need once baby arrives.

Here's everything you'll need when baby comes... for the first few weeks. Find real mom reviews at lila guide. (Items with an asterisk are must-haves.)

Layette

[  ] 4-8 bodysuits or onesies (wide head openings and loose legs)

[  ] 4-8 undershirts or vests (snaps at neck or wide head openings, snaps under crotch)*

[  ] 4-8 one-piece pajamas*

[  ] 2 blanket sleepers for winter baby

[  ] 1-3 sweaters or jackets (front buttoned)

[  ] 1-3 rompers or other dress-up outfits*

[  ] 4-7 socks or booties (shoes are unnecessary until baby walks)*

[  ] 1-3 hats (broad-brimmed for summer baby, soft cap that covers ears for winter baby)*

[  ] No-scratch mittens

[  ] Bunting bag or fleece suit for winter baby

[  ] Swimsuit for summer baby

[  ] Gentle laundry detergent

Nursery

[  ] Crib, cradle or bassinet*
• Slats no more than 2 3/8 inches apart
• Corner posts no more than 1/16 of an inch above frame
• No cutouts in headboard or footboard
• Top rails at least 26 inches above mattress

[  ] Firm, flat mattress fit snugly in crib (less than two fingers should fit between mattress and crib)*

[  ] 1-3 washable crib mattress pads

[  ] Bumper pads covering inside perimeter (secured by at least six ties or snaps, with all extra length removed -- we suggest breathable bumpers)

[  ] 2-4 fitted crib sheets*

[  ] 4-6 soft, light receiving blankets*

[  ] 1-2 heavier blankets (for colder climates)

[  ] Rocking or arm chair

[  ] Music box, sound machine or CD player

[  ] Crib mobile with black and white images (remove when baby can support self on hands and knees)

[  ] Baby monitor

[  ] Nightlight

[  ] Dresser

[  ] Toy basket

[  ] Swing or bouncy chair

Changing

[  ] Changing table or cushioned changing pad for low dresser or bureau, with safety strap or railing*

[  ] Changing table pad*

[  ] Changing table pad cover

[  ] Diaper pail

[  ] Diaper pail liners

[  ] Diaper cream*

[  ] Unscented baby wipes (causes less irritation)*

[  ] Soft washcloths*

[  ] Tissues (for you)

[  ] 6-10 dozen cloth diapers and 6-8 diaper covers, or 2-3 large boxes of disposable newborn-size diapers*

Bath

[  ] Baby bathtub

[  ] Baby soap*

[  ] Baby shampoo

[  ] 2-4 soft towels or hooded baby towels

[  ] Baby hairbrush

[  ] Soft washcloths (use a different color or pattern than your diaper washcloths!)

Feeding

[  ] 10-16 bottles and nipples, both four and eight ounce (if fed strictly by the bottle, baby will go through about ten in the four ounce size per day)*

[  ] Liners, for disposable bottles

[  ] Bottle warmer (cuts down on nighttime trips to and from the kitchen)

[  ] Bottle sterilizer (if your dishwasher doesn’t have one)

[  ] Bottle brush

[  ] Dishwasher basket for small items

[  ] 4-8 bibs

[  ] Burp cloths (or cloth diapers)*

[  ] High chair

[  ] 2-4 pacifiers

[  ] Formula (if not nursing)*

For nursing moms:

[  ] 1-3 nursing bras (Breasts swell following birth, so start with one size larger than your maternity bra. Wait until size settles down -- about two weeks after birth -- to purchase additional bras.)

[  ] Nursing pads

[  ] Nipple cream

[  ] Nursing pillow

[  ] Pump (even if you plan only to nurse, a pump will allow you to leave milk for baby if you want or need to separate)*

[  ] Milk storage bags*

Medicine Cabinet

[  ] Baby nail clippers or blunt scissors*

[  ] Cotton balls (don’t use swabs to clean baby’s nose or ears)

[  ] Baby thermometer*

[  ] Bulb syringe/nasal aspirator

[  ] Medicine dropper or spoon with measurements

[  ] Petroleum jelly and sterile gauze (for circumcision care)*

[  ] Infant acetaminophen (Tylenol)

[  ] Antibiotic cream

[  ] Saline nasal drops

[  ] Baby gas drops

[  ] Disinfecting hand soap (for you)

Travel

[  ] Infant or convertible car seat*

[  ] Stroller (reclining to almost flat for infants)

[  ] Diaper bag

[  ] Changing pad

[  ] Baby carrier/sling

For Mom

[  ] Ice packs (in case of tearing during birth or swelling after)

[  ] 2-3 week supply of ultra absorbent sanitary pads

[  ] Panty liners

[  ] Hemorrhoid wipes and cream (can become necessary after labor, even if pregnancy was free of problems…sorry)

-- The Bump Editors

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Bumpers should be changed to breathable bumpers, to reduce SIDS risk

by babymugg

I'm pretty sure we are not suppose to be giving our babies (or todders and perhaps even preschoolers) infant decongestants or cold medicine.

by jay.otter

when is a good time to register?

by gmp79

What is the difference between onesies and undershirts or vest that have snaps under the crotch?

by posniv95