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Q&A: When's my due date?

I'm very confused about my due date. I found out I was pregnant a week ago. I saw a nurse practitioner and she told me that I would have an ultrasound in two weeks to see how far along I am. My husband came home from deployment on July 1st. [Today's date: July 25.]

Re: I'm very confused about my due date. I found out I was pregnant a week ago. I saw a nurse practitioner and she told me that I would have an ultrasound in two weeks to see how far along I am. My husband came home from deployment on July 1st. [Today's date: July 25.]

The Bump Expert

I know it can be very confusing, but there is a simple explanation for the difference between your calculated weeks of pregnancy and how far along you are in your pregnancy according to conception date. The best way to explain this is with some basic info about the menstrual cycle.

Pregnancy is calculated based on the average menstrual cycle, which lasts 28 days. The first day of menstrual bleeding marks the first day of the menstrual cycle. This is called your LMP, or last menstrual period.During the first few days of the cycle, menstrual bleeding (your period) occurs as the uterus sloughs the lining that developed in the previous cycle. Afterwards, uterine lining (endometrium) grows again in preparation for possible conception.

Approximately two weeks into this cycle, ovulation occurs. The few days before and after this event is when you are most fertile. If during this time you have intercourse and sperm is released, fertilization(and thus, pregnancy) can occur. After fertilization and throughout pregnancy, the endometrium does not slough (meaning no menstrual bleeding) because it is now supporting the developing baby. If fertilization does not occur, the endometrium disintegrates and menstrual bleeding follows, signaling the beginning of a new cycle.

When calculating the weeks of pregnancy, we include those two weeks from the first day of the LMP to the approximate date of ovulation and conception. Because the first day of your LMP is the easiest part of the cycle to notice and record, that is where the beginning of the menstrual cycle and your pregnancy is measured from. It is about halfway through the average woman’s menstrual cycle that she ovulates and therefore conceives. So, just as your ovulation calculator indicates,your date of conception should coincide with right about the time your husband came home from deployment.

Whew…no need to worry there! So your little embryo may be only four weeks old, but you are six weeks pregnant. It sounds a little silly, but you aren’t really pregnant for about the first two weeks of your pregnancy. Finally, your estimated due date (EDC or EDD) is then calculated as 40 weeks from your LMP... And yes, this does mean that baby is actually only 38 weeks old when born.

Denise Gershwin, CNM | May 21 , 2009 3:39 PM

Q: When's my due date?

Please help me understand...I conceived on 10/9/08 but my last cycle started on 9/10/08. So, my next one was supposed to start around 10/10/08 and I did not have one. I took 2 tests and I am pregnant and very excited. But, very confused about how far along I am. Can you clarify for me? Thank you!!

Genna29 | October 21 , 2008 7:51 AM

re: Q: When's my due date?

Ok, so I still don't fully understand why two weeks are added on. I mean, obstetricians can tell the exact day of conception.... Well, anyway, when I go to see my obstetrician, do I tell them how far along I am with or without the extra two weeks added on??

francescaraul | May 27 , 2009 1:46 PM

re: Q: When's my due date?

I understand now! the extra 2 weeks come from the normal 14 days inbetween your "period starting" and your ovul. if your like me I conceived on 4/23/2009 but my "first day of my last period" was 4/9/2009 or 14 days so I'm 7 1/2 weeks preg. but the baby is only 5 1/2 weeks old. I got a home journal and made the book read to the age of the baby (in my case 5 1/2 weeks) that way I can realy track the growth of the baby true to day. I guess this only works if you know your conception date, but lets home I'm doing this right!

csamano22 | June 25 , 2009 11:22 AM

Q&A: When's my due date?

I know exactly what you mean. I am so confused by the due date. Since I know exactly when I ovulate I know how far along I really am. My dr. did schedule my 9 wk appt at 9 weeks based on my ovulation date rather than my lmp. I'm hoping they make my due date based on my ovulation date too. It's frustrating when you want to read up on where your baby is based on weeks and you know you're not really that far. I'm right there with ya!

sharonke4 | July 29 , 2009 1:19 PM

Q&A: When's my due date?

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jodibenn | January 26 , 2010 11:25 AM