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Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

Why do miscarriages happen? Is there anything I can do to avoid it? How do I know if I'm at risk?

Re: Why do miscarriages happen? Is there anything I can do to avoid it? How do I know if I'm at risk?

The Bump Expert

Unfortunately, there really is no way to prevent a first trimester miscarriage, and it is the most frustrating thing about obstetrics. But, after ultrasound confirms your baby’s heartbeat at eight weeks, the risk of miscarriage is only about 3%. The risk falls even lower (1%) after a normal ultrasound at 16 weeks. (Overall, from conception, about 10 to 15% of pregnancies end in miscarriage.)  Most pregnancy losses are diagnosed in the first trimester when a patient experiences bleeding or cramping.  Many women may have no symptoms that the pregnancy has stopped progressing until a routine ultrasound examination indicates no heartbeat.

Most miscarriages are caused by chromosomal abnormalities in the pregnancy resulting from an error during fertilization. Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do to avoid this. If you have experienced a single miscarriage, you are not at increased risk for miscarriage in a subsequent pregnancy. However, if you have experienced two or more consecutive miscarriages in the first trimester or one second trimester miscarriage, you are at higher risk for a miscarriage in the next pregnancy and should be evaluated for an underlying cause. Certain blood clotting disorders (otherwise known as thrombophilias), thyroid disease, lupus, or diabetes can increase your risk of having a miscarriage. An abnormality in the way your uterus has formed can also be associated with recurrent pregnancy loss, particularly after the first trimester. If you are concerned that you may be at high risk for recurrent miscarriages, you should discuss your concerns with your obstetrician.

Dr. Ashley Roman | May 19 , 2009 4:27 PM

re: Q: Risk of Miscarriage?

I am 7 1/2 weeks pregnant and haven't had an ultrasound yet. I'm not due for my first one until 11 weeks...should I see if the doctor can get me in sooner to put my mind at ease or is it pretty safe to start telling everyone?

Mein Herzgrund | January 04 , 2008 3:03 PM

re: Q: Risk of miscarriage?

I just started miscarrying yesterday and was 7 weeks along. I really kind of wish I hadn't told people we were expecting. Now it's a whole other world of heartache telling people they shouldn't expect us to welcome a child into this world when we were planning on it.But generally people are very compassionate when you do tell them you are no longer pregnant.

DEBBIE33CASEY | May 31 , 2008 2:59 PM

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I recently miscarried. When we first found out I was pregnant they ordered a sono right away because we werent sure how far along I was. The dr. was unable to find the fetus but assured us it probably meant we were only a week or two along. Two weeks later, on April 10, I was scheduled for a full ultrasound. On the way to the hospital I started cramping and bleeding. While at the hospital I miscarried. The dr. told us that I was actually about 2 1/2 months along at the point, but that I had started to miscarry before I even knew i was pregnant. They told us this was what they called the completion. I did not realize that was possible. The miscarriage began in February, when I thought I was just menstruating, and from that time until the completion I had no indications that there were any problems. Fortunately we had chosen not to tell anyone except very close family and friends until we had the full ultrasound. This made things a bit easier as we didnt have to face telling everyone what had happend.

kak5478 | June 03 , 2008 12:14 PM

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My husband and I miscarried @ 6 1/2 weeks. It was our first pregnancy. I always thought that people who waited until the 12 week mark to tell family and friends were crazy but now I understand. It's been 6 months since we lost our baby and now we are trying again. I am still very scared about our next pregnancy and what it will entail. It's going to be harder now because I have PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome) due to the hormone changes from the miscarriage. Hopefully we will have success soon.

soontobemrsjarrell | June 12 , 2008 9:13 PM

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My husband and I lost our first baby in April @ 13 weeks. The pregancy was ectopic and had not been caught during our first ultrasound. I was rushed into surgry and after a month of bed rest I returned to work. The doctor said we could try again after a month and we did. I became pregnant again in June and miscarried baby #2 in July. Just yesterday I had a positive pregnancy test and will begin blood work next week. I have never been more scared. All I do is worry. It has been so nice to have this website during the past six months. Every comment and story has helped me realize that it will get better and eventually everything will be okay. Thank you to everyone that has shared their stories.

rstuesser | August 07 , 2008 6:47 PM

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my husband and I finally got pregnant with our 2nd child after ttc for over a year and a half. I found out a few months ago that I have PCOS and were going threw the fertility treatment. On Aug 7th, i got a positive pregnancy test back. Went threw the blood work my last one was friday aug 15th. on the 16 went to the er due to bleeding, found out Monday that my hormones levels had dropped by friday and I had miscarried my baby. go in to talk to the doctor on monday about options and taking a break for a while.

mommyjanie | August 20 , 2008 8:08 AM

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my husband and are expecting a child in march, this would be my third his 1st. we are both very excited! although i am very scared, i had 1 miscarriage 15 years ago in between my two other children, then one last year. i am so stressed out aboutthis i can not sleep i want to have this baby so much. i am so scared that i am too old (i'm 36), that it just will not happen. i am now 12 weeks when can start to look forward to this and stop worring.:(

Melissa/Jorge | August 28 , 2008 6:49 PM

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My husband and I where expecting our first. We had our first sonogram at 7 weeks and heard the heartbeat. We went back on 9/19 11 weeks 3 days and the heartbeat couldn't be found. They re-measured the baby and it was still measuring at 7 weeks. I'm scheduled for a D&C 9/22.

Saunders3 | September 21 , 2008 9:36 PM

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I'm so sorry for everyone's loss. We went through a miscarriage a couple of months ago and were heartbroken. Now having been pregnant we are that much more anxious to get pregnant again. Hopefully it will happen quickly. However, if this experience has taught us anything...it's that things just have to be right. We tell ourselves that this baby wasn't healthy and ultimately it was for the best. We are confident that our next pregnancy will be successful.

sunngrrrl | October 22 , 2008 8:22 PM

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We lost our baby when I was 14 1/2 weeks, beginning of my second trimester. I look back and realize that things weren't progressing the way I thought they should be, and there was just something off about the pregnancy. It turns out that the baby had several defects and they were surprised the pregnancy progressed as far as it did. We are trying again soon, but we will never look at being pregnant the same way again. I know the next one will be great!

amber_tynan | October 24 , 2008 11:29 AM

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After two m/c's - the second one yesterday - I wish there was a way to be sure I won't miscarry again. I guess we'll start various testing, I'll lose weight, and we'll both try live as healthy as possible (including my husband's cutting down on the occasional heavy drinking). I really want to be pg again by my 40th birthday so hopefully 2009 will be our year of pg-to-term success! GOOD LUCK and BEST WISHES to all women who have gone through this pain. Nobody knows what it's like until it happens to you...

PlumCrazyBride | November 29 , 2008 11:29 AM

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I found out on Friday that I was only 5 weeks preg. It was a rough weekend as I was bledding and hurting bad on Saturday, I went back to the doctor yesterday (Monday) and all of my hormone levels are dropping. I go back on Thursday to see if they continue to drop...just as I was getting excited about the preg. I miscarried...I wish like everyone else there was some way to tell if you are going to have one or not. I don't think we are going to try again right away.

SeeLaLa | December 09 , 2008 1:12 PM

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I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks, horrible experiance, today i started my period and this is the month we can start ttc again, it brought a tear to my eye, can't wait to start again!

marc12 | December 10 , 2008 3:03 PM

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October 7,2008 is when my husband & I found out we were expecting baby! We were so excited we were telling everyone... 3 days later on October 10 i started bleeding...So i immediately went to the doctor. Of course they did a pregnancy test to be sure it was positive and of course it was. So they did a vaginal sonogram. We saw the sac, but i had 3 large blood pockets in my uterus, so the doc did blood work to check my blood level and see how pregnant i was... Next day i get the devestating phone call that my HCG level was at a 21 and for a normal pregnancy it is supposed to be in the thousands... Which we figuered i was already miscarring because of how bad i was cramping and bleeding...He just confirmed what we already knew... And since i had passed everything on my own he said wait at least after one cycle and we could start trying again...soooooo... WE ARE BACK AT THE DRAWING BOARD!!! WISH US LUCK!!!

jtquick | December 12 , 2008 10:16 PM

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We had a miscarriage in Dec 08. I was 9w and the baby only measured 6w. We are now pregnant again and are waiting for our first ultrasound in a couple weeks to confirm the pregnancy. I am very nervous, but am trying to keep positive and enjoy it while I can. I don't want to have a miserable first trimester because I am worrying about something I have no control over. So for now, I am pregnant, and I love my baby!

BensWife | February 07 , 2009 3:26 PM

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We had a miscarriage in Nov and are pregnant again. We were 8.5 weeks. I too am terrified and do not want to spend my 1st trimester worrying. We too are pregnant, awaiting the first ultrasound and loving the baby.

lhulbert | March 01 , 2009 7:57 PM

Molar Pregnancy

I recently had a miscarriage at around 7 weeks. After my D&C they found out that I had a molar pregnancy. I needed to get blood work taken twice a week for about 6 weeks to make sure my hcg levels went back down to 0. My doctor put me back on the pill immediately after I started my period and have to be on them for 6 mths. I guess molar pregnancies are extremely rare, but abnormal cells grow and can become cancerous. Has anyone experienced a molar pregnancy and has had any luck getting pregnant and carrying to full term? Is there something I should do within these next 5 months to assure that this won't happen again. I'm extremely nervous that I have to go through this again.

eeise01 | March 04 , 2009 11:33 AM

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I miscarried around 7 weeks on December 23, 2009. The baby passed on it's own and I did not have to have a D&C. I and tested positive on 1/27/09 and am now 10 weeks pregnant. We have had two sonograms and heard the heartbeat. I am due October 11th, 2009. I was so surprised to get prego so quickly, but the Dr. has ensured me everthing looks great. I am having a lot of sickness, but other than that I can't complain. I am very nervous though because of what happened the first time around.

horak001 | March 13 , 2009 1:37 PM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

In response to the Molar Pregnancy. I am 8w's myself right now. My mom had my older sister, then a molar pregnancy and then my little sister and I. This was years ago when they let her pregnancy last a very long time and it ended on its own. They had no idea what it was until she miscarried... badly. But my little sister and I were very healthy, appropriate weights and full term! Good Luck!

Braidstar6 | July 18 , 2009 11:11 AM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

does anyone know if your mom/grandmother had miscarriages are you more likely to have one? good luck to everyone!

mrs.spears26 | July 29 , 2009 3:23 PM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

I too had a miscarriage last Novemeber and found out about a week ago that we are pregnant again. After the first OB visit he said that all looks okay now, but of course being just after first missed period, not a lot he can see or tell except that we are pregnant and that we can do US in the first week of Sept. I am terrified. My husband was amazing during the M/C and is just as amazing now during this pregnancy, but I can't help being so scared but I don't want to no give this experience the excitement it deserves. During the M/C my brain couldn't understand how this could happen because my heart hurt so much. This time, my heart can't relax because my brain is so nervous and the memories of our loss seem so fresh again. Any advice?

mandy25km | August 13 , 2009 9:22 AM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

I have a bete level of 5040 and had my 1st ultra sound and the Dr could not find the baby and told me to stop taking the progesterone and let it miss carry? She gave me no other answers. Could it be that I am just too early and the baby can't be seen on the ultrasound?

crbarnes0427 | September 05 , 2009 8:21 AM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

With my 1st pregnancy I miscarried at 5 weeks and was so heartbroken. When I got pregnant again (unfortunately a year later...they think I was having ovulation issues), I was so nervous the whole time. However, when I went in at 8 weeks a nurse suggested a blood test to be sure my hormone levels were going up which was a good sign for the health of the pregnancy. I got the results back a few days later and all looked good. It was such a relief and I could finally take a deep breath. We ended up with a beautiful son. My heart goes out to all of you who have gone or are currently going through a miscarriage. Know that you have friends out here who you will never meet but are thinking about you and praying for your healthy pregnancies.

SarahRick0906 | September 13 , 2009 12:49 PM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

I miscarried in 4/09, at 6 weeks, terrible experience bc it being our 1st pregnancy and we had told everyone! Now I'm pregnant again, 8 weeks, US was fine and everything is looking good. But ever since we found out, (i was 4 weeks 1 day), we've been paranoid. Everytime I go to the bathroom I'm scared to death I'm going to see blood. It's gotten a little better, but still so scared. I can't even be super excited because I'm just waiting for this 1st trimester to come and go, then I'll be much better. Sorry to everyone that has gone through this...

sibi436 | September 18 , 2009 8:25 PM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

I'm 37 have 2 kids 12 and 14 ~ both healthy pregnancies.. My husband and I have recently been trying 4 months ago I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks , baby stopped growing at 9 weeks.. Had a D & C it was the hardest thing we had to go through , also feeling badly for husband because with his previous marriage they had 4 unsuccesful pregnancies ~ she had bad endometriosis. Now I'm pregnant again ~ 7 weeks , had my bloodwork done and my next appt. isn't until 4 more weeks ~ and first sono not until 4 months.... Every ache , pain , twinge I have is like nothing but anxiety , having trouble relaxing... Just really want to get through the first trimester. I want to be excited but it is so difficult not knowing the outcome,

mshelly2329 | September 24 , 2009 7:34 AM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

I miscarried during the 11th week of my first pregnancy (a year ago). We just found out a few days ago that we are pregnant after a few months of trying. Of course I'm thrilled, but like many others I am very worried - paranoid that every symptom (or lack of symptom) means the worse. Our first OB and US are in two weeks. I know worrying about it isn't going to change anything (and I should probably be focusing on reducing stress, not increasing it), but it is very difficult. Since we have decided to wait at least until the 12th week to tell anyone this time, it's very nice to have a place to express my concerns and know that a lot of others are in the same boat.

Pepe2010 | November 05 , 2009 7:23 PM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

I'm 11 weeks today. It's my first pregnancy I have no real risk factors that I know of and everything is smooth so far. The baby measured 10 weeks 4 days when I was supposed to only be 10 weeks 2 days. But I'm still paranoid... Even when my boyfriend talks about how we will have such a pretty perfect baby and we talk about names or anything then I feel so nervous that something bad could still happen. I saw a friend of mine go through a miscarriage recently and I think that is why i can't relax.

ShelbyAllyse | November 21 , 2009 8:43 PM

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I wish I could tell everyone of you don't worry it will be fine! I guess we know it doesn't always work that way, but just remember early mc is usually for a good reason even if there is no reason good enough to sooth a broken heart. I had an early mc one month before my dd was conceived, all went well, but I was much more anxious than I was with my first pregnancy. (((HUGS))) to you all to get the baby of your dreams.

LCoastMom | December 02 , 2009 11:52 PM

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I'm on my 4th pregnancy, but have never given birth. I have miscarried the first three pregancies. I am still amazed that when you call to set up an initial appointment, explaining that you have huge history of miscarriages, they still want to wait to see you after 8 weeks. I am about 6 weeks in, and have some spotting and signs of yet another miscarriage. It is so hard for me to undestand how the medical world can do nothing for me. I would do anything a doctor could tell me to see this baby come to the world. Is there anyone out there with a history like mine, who has had better advice on how to avoid another miscarriage??

buffielarocca | January 09 , 2010 2:04 PM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

I also had told several people including our parents that we were pregnant at about 5 weeks. Four days later had a miscarriage. Now I'm 4 weeks agian and scared/nervous ALL the time. Wish I could just be excited about it.

tamela_0308@hotmail.com | January 14 , 2010 12:24 PM

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I was both happy and sad to see women who have experienced similar issues during their first pregnancy. I am about 7 weeks pregnant, but at my most recent ultrasound there was still only a sac measuring about 5 weeks. Although there's a chance I may be able to still continue the pregnancy because my hormone levels are going up, there is also the strong possibility of miscarriage. My doc doesn't want to intervene at all yet, but I'm really struggling between hope and grief. Anyone ever have a similar experience? What was your outcome?

kdittmar | February 11 , 2010 6:25 PM

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I just found out yesterday that I miscarried at 7 and a half weeks. I went into my first ultra sound at seven weeks and we saw a flutter of a heart beat. It is our first baby, and we were so excited, as everyone is! I thought that I was supposed to be 10 weeks this week, and was reading how much my baby was growing each week. Just as anyone does in the first trimester, I was counting the days and weeks. My two sister-in-laws are also expecting, so we were all so excited to have babies the same age. I started feeling sick this week, and began spotting brown. My sister-in-law told me that she spotted brown at ten weeks, and that there was nothing to worry about because she had a healthy baby in the third trimester. I just knew something was wrong, though. I saw some tissue or something coming out, and I went into the doctor. They then told me that my little baby had passed away. I think the hardest part is that I have to go from thinking I was pregnant, being excited, and being prepared for my little baby to be here in December. I will no longer get the pregnancy bump that I was expecting, and I will not longer hold my baby in my arms in December. I have also told everyone because it was our first and we were so thrilled. I know that I cannot question God, but I do wonder why. I did not realize that it was such a loss. Going from being tired and feeling pregnant, to feeling normal again... well, I can't describe it. I miss the pregnancy symptoms even though they were not wonderful, because I knew that meant our baby was healthy. I just hope our next baby is healthy. I don't think we can go through this again!

emdesign | May 21 , 2010 7:31 AM

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emdesign, If you happen back hear, just watn you to know I am praying for you. I miscarried and would have been due in December also. I understand. You can question God. He is big enough to handle the questions and the frustration. But He unfortunately doesn't send out e-mails detailing reasons. But know that it is okay to vent to God. May HE hold you close as He is also holding me. Hugs, y2k

y2kxmaskids | June 15 , 2010 3:18 PM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

My fiance' and I miscarried back in April. We were 8 weeks. Getting pregnant for me was a miracle in and of itself because I was told that I couldn't get pregnant. Losing our first was extremely difficult. We're now pregnant again, about 7 weeks along and it's June :) We're taking everything slowly and haven't told anyone yet. We want to make sure we're past the 8 week point so in our minds we're safe. It's never easy. I can't imagine going through it more than once. My heart goes out to those of you who have. But there is hope. :D

RavensBelle | June 28 , 2010 7:10 PM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

I am in the same situation. I have 3 beautiful girls that are 15,8, and 2 and in Early May I found out I was pregnant . I ended up having a full miscarriage on May 28th. I didnt have to have a DNC. It was very difficult and my husband and I planed on trying again as soon as I had my first period. Well I found out on the 3rd of July that I am pregnant again..... I did not expect that. I am SO happy but in the same breath I am scared of going through that again. I am SO SORRY for everyone of you on here that have had to deal with a miscarriage. I know that God does what needs to be done and it is in his hands but it is still so hard to go through. I will pray for everyone of you and that God will give you the comfort you so need. Also can some of you who did get pregnant right away update how your new pregnancy is going?

mmbga93 | July 15 , 2010 11:16 PM