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Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

Why do miscarriages happen? Is there anything I can do to avoid it? How do I know if I'm at risk?

Re: Why do miscarriages happen? Is there anything I can do to avoid it? How do I know if I'm at risk?

The Bump Expert

Unfortunately, there really is no way to prevent a first trimester miscarriage, and it is the most frustrating thing about obstetrics. But, after ultrasound confirms your baby’s heartbeat at eight weeks, the risk of miscarriage is only about 3%. The risk falls even lower (1%) after a normal ultrasound at 16 weeks. (Overall, from conception, about 10 to 15% of pregnancies end in miscarriage.)  Most pregnancy losses are diagnosed in the first trimester when a patient experiences bleeding or cramping.  Many women may have no symptoms that the pregnancy has stopped progressing until a routine ultrasound examination indicates no heartbeat.

Most miscarriages are caused by chromosomal abnormalities in the pregnancy resulting from an error during fertilization. Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do to avoid this. If you have experienced a single miscarriage, you are not at increased risk for miscarriage in a subsequent pregnancy. However, if you have experienced two or more consecutive miscarriages in the first trimester or one second trimester miscarriage, you are at higher risk for a miscarriage in the next pregnancy and should be evaluated for an underlying cause. Certain blood clotting disorders (otherwise known as thrombophilias), thyroid disease, lupus, or diabetes can increase your risk of having a miscarriage. An abnormality in the way your uterus has formed can also be associated with recurrent pregnancy loss, particularly after the first trimester. If you are concerned that you may be at high risk for recurrent miscarriages, you should discuss your concerns with your obstetrician.

Dr. Ashley Roman | May 19 , 2009 4:27 PM

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I am 7 1/2 weeks pregnant and haven't had an ultrasound yet. I'm not due for my first one until 11 weeks...should I see if the doctor can get me in sooner to put my mind at ease or is it pretty safe to start telling everyone?

Mein Herzgrund | January 04 , 2008 3:03 PM

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I just started miscarrying yesterday and was 7 weeks along. I really kind of wish I hadn't told people we were expecting. Now it's a whole other world of heartache telling people they shouldn't expect us to welcome a child into this world when we were planning on it.But generally people are very compassionate when you do tell them you are no longer pregnant.

DEBBIE33CASEY | May 31 , 2008 2:59 PM

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I recently miscarried. When we first found out I was pregnant they ordered a sono right away because we werent sure how far along I was. The dr. was unable to find the fetus but assured us it probably meant we were only a week or two along. Two weeks later, on April 10, I was scheduled for a full ultrasound. On the way to the hospital I started cramping and bleeding. While at the hospital I miscarried. The dr. told us that I was actually about 2 1/2 months along at the point, but that I had started to miscarry before I even knew i was pregnant. They told us this was what they called the completion. I did not realize that was possible. The miscarriage began in February, when I thought I was just menstruating, and from that time until the completion I had no indications that there were any problems. Fortunately we had chosen not to tell anyone except very close family and friends until we had the full ultrasound. This made things a bit easier as we didnt have to face telling everyone what had happend.

kak5478 | June 03 , 2008 12:14 PM

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My husband and I miscarried @ 6 1/2 weeks. It was our first pregnancy. I always thought that people who waited until the 12 week mark to tell family and friends were crazy but now I understand. It's been 6 months since we lost our baby and now we are trying again. I am still very scared about our next pregnancy and what it will entail. It's going to be harder now because I have PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome) due to the hormone changes from the miscarriage. Hopefully we will have success soon.

soontobemrsjarrell | June 12 , 2008 9:13 PM

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My husband and I lost our first baby in April @ 13 weeks. The pregancy was ectopic and had not been caught during our first ultrasound. I was rushed into surgry and after a month of bed rest I returned to work. The doctor said we could try again after a month and we did. I became pregnant again in June and miscarried baby #2 in July. Just yesterday I had a positive pregnancy test and will begin blood work next week. I have never been more scared. All I do is worry. It has been so nice to have this website during the past six months. Every comment and story has helped me realize that it will get better and eventually everything will be okay. Thank you to everyone that has shared their stories.

rstuesser | August 07 , 2008 6:47 PM

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my husband and I finally got pregnant with our 2nd child after ttc for over a year and a half. I found out a few months ago that I have PCOS and were going threw the fertility treatment. On Aug 7th, i got a positive pregnancy test back. Went threw the blood work my last one was friday aug 15th. on the 16 went to the er due to bleeding, found out Monday that my hormones levels had dropped by friday and I had miscarried my baby. go in to talk to the doctor on monday about options and taking a break for a while.

mommyjanie | August 20 , 2008 8:08 AM

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my husband and are expecting a child in march, this would be my third his 1st. we are both very excited! although i am very scared, i had 1 miscarriage 15 years ago in between my two other children, then one last year. i am so stressed out aboutthis i can not sleep i want to have this baby so much. i am so scared that i am too old (i'm 36), that it just will not happen. i am now 12 weeks when can start to look forward to this and stop worring.:(

Melissa/Jorge | August 28 , 2008 6:49 PM

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My husband and I where expecting our first. We had our first sonogram at 7 weeks and heard the heartbeat. We went back on 9/19 11 weeks 3 days and the heartbeat couldn't be found. They re-measured the baby and it was still measuring at 7 weeks. I'm scheduled for a D&C 9/22.

Saunders3 | September 21 , 2008 9:36 PM

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I'm so sorry for everyone's loss. We went through a miscarriage a couple of months ago and were heartbroken. Now having been pregnant we are that much more anxious to get pregnant again. Hopefully it will happen quickly. However, if this experience has taught us anything...it's that things just have to be right. We tell ourselves that this baby wasn't healthy and ultimately it was for the best. We are confident that our next pregnancy will be successful.

sunngrrrl | October 22 , 2008 8:22 PM

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We lost our baby when I was 14 1/2 weeks, beginning of my second trimester. I look back and realize that things weren't progressing the way I thought they should be, and there was just something off about the pregnancy. It turns out that the baby had several defects and they were surprised the pregnancy progressed as far as it did. We are trying again soon, but we will never look at being pregnant the same way again. I know the next one will be great!

amber_tynan | October 24 , 2008 11:29 AM

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After two m/c's - the second one yesterday - I wish there was a way to be sure I won't miscarry again. I guess we'll start various testing, I'll lose weight, and we'll both try live as healthy as possible (including my husband's cutting down on the occasional heavy drinking). I really want to be pg again by my 40th birthday so hopefully 2009 will be our year of pg-to-term success! GOOD LUCK and BEST WISHES to all women who have gone through this pain. Nobody knows what it's like until it happens to you...

PlumCrazyBride | November 29 , 2008 11:29 AM

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I found out on Friday that I was only 5 weeks preg. It was a rough weekend as I was bledding and hurting bad on Saturday, I went back to the doctor yesterday (Monday) and all of my hormone levels are dropping. I go back on Thursday to see if they continue to drop...just as I was getting excited about the preg. I miscarried...I wish like everyone else there was some way to tell if you are going to have one or not. I don't think we are going to try again right away.

SeeLaLa | December 09 , 2008 1:12 PM

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I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks, horrible experiance, today i started my period and this is the month we can start ttc again, it brought a tear to my eye, can't wait to start again!

marc12 | December 10 , 2008 3:03 PM

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October 7,2008 is when my husband & I found out we were expecting baby! We were so excited we were telling everyone... 3 days later on October 10 i started bleeding...So i immediately went to the doctor. Of course they did a pregnancy test to be sure it was positive and of course it was. So they did a vaginal sonogram. We saw the sac, but i had 3 large blood pockets in my uterus, so the doc did blood work to check my blood level and see how pregnant i was... Next day i get the devestating phone call that my HCG level was at a 21 and for a normal pregnancy it is supposed to be in the thousands... Which we figuered i was already miscarring because of how bad i was cramping and bleeding...He just confirmed what we already knew... And since i had passed everything on my own he said wait at least after one cycle and we could start trying again...soooooo... WE ARE BACK AT THE DRAWING BOARD!!! WISH US LUCK!!!

jtquick | December 12 , 2008 10:16 PM

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We had a miscarriage in Dec 08. I was 9w and the baby only measured 6w. We are now pregnant again and are waiting for our first ultrasound in a couple weeks to confirm the pregnancy. I am very nervous, but am trying to keep positive and enjoy it while I can. I don't want to have a miserable first trimester because I am worrying about something I have no control over. So for now, I am pregnant, and I love my baby!

BensWife | February 07 , 2009 3:26 PM

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We had a miscarriage in Nov and are pregnant again. We were 8.5 weeks. I too am terrified and do not want to spend my 1st trimester worrying. We too are pregnant, awaiting the first ultrasound and loving the baby.

lhulbert | March 01 , 2009 7:57 PM

Molar Pregnancy

I recently had a miscarriage at around 7 weeks. After my D&C they found out that I had a molar pregnancy. I needed to get blood work taken twice a week for about 6 weeks to make sure my hcg levels went back down to 0. My doctor put me back on the pill immediately after I started my period and have to be on them for 6 mths. I guess molar pregnancies are extremely rare, but abnormal cells grow and can become cancerous. Has anyone experienced a molar pregnancy and has had any luck getting pregnant and carrying to full term? Is there something I should do within these next 5 months to assure that this won't happen again. I'm extremely nervous that I have to go through this again.

eeise01 | March 04 , 2009 11:33 AM

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I miscarried around 7 weeks on December 23, 2009. The baby passed on it's own and I did not have to have a D&C. I and tested positive on 1/27/09 and am now 10 weeks pregnant. We have had two sonograms and heard the heartbeat. I am due October 11th, 2009. I was so surprised to get prego so quickly, but the Dr. has ensured me everthing looks great. I am having a lot of sickness, but other than that I can't complain. I am very nervous though because of what happened the first time around.

horak001 | March 13 , 2009 1:37 PM

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In response to the Molar Pregnancy. I am 8w's myself right now. My mom had my older sister, then a molar pregnancy and then my little sister and I. This was years ago when they let her pregnancy last a very long time and it ended on its own. They had no idea what it was until she miscarried... badly. But my little sister and I were very healthy, appropriate weights and full term! Good Luck!

Braidstar6 | July 18 , 2009 11:11 AM

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does anyone know if your mom/grandmother had miscarriages are you more likely to have one? good luck to everyone!

mrs.spears26 | July 29 , 2009 3:23 PM

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I too had a miscarriage last Novemeber and found out about a week ago that we are pregnant again. After the first OB visit he said that all looks okay now, but of course being just after first missed period, not a lot he can see or tell except that we are pregnant and that we can do US in the first week of Sept. I am terrified. My husband was amazing during the M/C and is just as amazing now during this pregnancy, but I can't help being so scared but I don't want to no give this experience the excitement it deserves. During the M/C my brain couldn't understand how this could happen because my heart hurt so much. This time, my heart can't relax because my brain is so nervous and the memories of our loss seem so fresh again. Any advice?

mandy25km | August 13 , 2009 9:22 AM

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I have a bete level of 5040 and had my 1st ultra sound and the Dr could not find the baby and told me to stop taking the progesterone and let it miss carry? She gave me no other answers. Could it be that I am just too early and the baby can't be seen on the ultrasound?

crbarnes0427 | September 05 , 2009 8:21 AM

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With my 1st pregnancy I miscarried at 5 weeks and was so heartbroken. When I got pregnant again (unfortunately a year later...they think I was having ovulation issues), I was so nervous the whole time. However, when I went in at 8 weeks a nurse suggested a blood test to be sure my hormone levels were going up which was a good sign for the health of the pregnancy. I got the results back a few days later and all looked good. It was such a relief and I could finally take a deep breath. We ended up with a beautiful son. My heart goes out to all of you who have gone or are currently going through a miscarriage. Know that you have friends out here who you will never meet but are thinking about you and praying for your healthy pregnancies.

SarahRick0906 | September 13 , 2009 12:49 PM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

I miscarried in 4/09, at 6 weeks, terrible experience bc it being our 1st pregnancy and we had told everyone! Now I'm pregnant again, 8 weeks, US was fine and everything is looking good. But ever since we found out, (i was 4 weeks 1 day), we've been paranoid. Everytime I go to the bathroom I'm scared to death I'm going to see blood. It's gotten a little better, but still so scared. I can't even be super excited because I'm just waiting for this 1st trimester to come and go, then I'll be much better. Sorry to everyone that has gone through this...

sibi436 | September 18 , 2009 8:25 PM

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I'm 37 have 2 kids 12 and 14 ~ both healthy pregnancies.. My husband and I have recently been trying 4 months ago I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks , baby stopped growing at 9 weeks.. Had a D & C it was the hardest thing we had to go through , also feeling badly for husband because with his previous marriage they had 4 unsuccesful pregnancies ~ she had bad endometriosis. Now I'm pregnant again ~ 7 weeks , had my bloodwork done and my next appt. isn't until 4 more weeks ~ and first sono not until 4 months.... Every ache , pain , twinge I have is like nothing but anxiety , having trouble relaxing... Just really want to get through the first trimester. I want to be excited but it is so difficult not knowing the outcome,

mshelly2329 | September 24 , 2009 7:34 AM

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I miscarried during the 11th week of my first pregnancy (a year ago). We just found out a few days ago that we are pregnant after a few months of trying. Of course I'm thrilled, but like many others I am very worried - paranoid that every symptom (or lack of symptom) means the worse. Our first OB and US are in two weeks. I know worrying about it isn't going to change anything (and I should probably be focusing on reducing stress, not increasing it), but it is very difficult. Since we have decided to wait at least until the 12th week to tell anyone this time, it's very nice to have a place to express my concerns and know that a lot of others are in the same boat.

Pepe2010 | November 05 , 2009 7:23 PM

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I'm 11 weeks today. It's my first pregnancy I have no real risk factors that I know of and everything is smooth so far. The baby measured 10 weeks 4 days when I was supposed to only be 10 weeks 2 days. But I'm still paranoid... Even when my boyfriend talks about how we will have such a pretty perfect baby and we talk about names or anything then I feel so nervous that something bad could still happen. I saw a friend of mine go through a miscarriage recently and I think that is why i can't relax.

ShelbyAllyse | November 21 , 2009 8:43 PM

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I wish I could tell everyone of you don't worry it will be fine! I guess we know it doesn't always work that way, but just remember early mc is usually for a good reason even if there is no reason good enough to sooth a broken heart. I had an early mc one month before my dd was conceived, all went well, but I was much more anxious than I was with my first pregnancy. (((HUGS))) to you all to get the baby of your dreams.

LCoastMom | December 02 , 2009 11:52 PM

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I'm on my 4th pregnancy, but have never given birth. I have miscarried the first three pregancies. I am still amazed that when you call to set up an initial appointment, explaining that you have huge history of miscarriages, they still want to wait to see you after 8 weeks. I am about 6 weeks in, and have some spotting and signs of yet another miscarriage. It is so hard for me to undestand how the medical world can do nothing for me. I would do anything a doctor could tell me to see this baby come to the world. Is there anyone out there with a history like mine, who has had better advice on how to avoid another miscarriage??

buffielarocca | January 09 , 2010 2:04 PM

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I also had told several people including our parents that we were pregnant at about 5 weeks. Four days later had a miscarriage. Now I'm 4 weeks agian and scared/nervous ALL the time. Wish I could just be excited about it.

tamela_0308@hotmail.com | January 14 , 2010 12:24 PM

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I was both happy and sad to see women who have experienced similar issues during their first pregnancy. I am about 7 weeks pregnant, but at my most recent ultrasound there was still only a sac measuring about 5 weeks. Although there's a chance I may be able to still continue the pregnancy because my hormone levels are going up, there is also the strong possibility of miscarriage. My doc doesn't want to intervene at all yet, but I'm really struggling between hope and grief. Anyone ever have a similar experience? What was your outcome?

kdittmar | February 11 , 2010 6:25 PM

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I just found out yesterday that I miscarried at 7 and a half weeks. I went into my first ultra sound at seven weeks and we saw a flutter of a heart beat. It is our first baby, and we were so excited, as everyone is! I thought that I was supposed to be 10 weeks this week, and was reading how much my baby was growing each week. Just as anyone does in the first trimester, I was counting the days and weeks. My two sister-in-laws are also expecting, so we were all so excited to have babies the same age. I started feeling sick this week, and began spotting brown. My sister-in-law told me that she spotted brown at ten weeks, and that there was nothing to worry about because she had a healthy baby in the third trimester. I just knew something was wrong, though. I saw some tissue or something coming out, and I went into the doctor. They then told me that my little baby had passed away. I think the hardest part is that I have to go from thinking I was pregnant, being excited, and being prepared for my little baby to be here in December. I will no longer get the pregnancy bump that I was expecting, and I will not longer hold my baby in my arms in December. I have also told everyone because it was our first and we were so thrilled. I know that I cannot question God, but I do wonder why. I did not realize that it was such a loss. Going from being tired and feeling pregnant, to feeling normal again... well, I can't describe it. I miss the pregnancy symptoms even though they were not wonderful, because I knew that meant our baby was healthy. I just hope our next baby is healthy. I don't think we can go through this again!

emdesign | May 21 , 2010 7:31 AM

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emdesign, If you happen back hear, just watn you to know I am praying for you. I miscarried and would have been due in December also. I understand. You can question God. He is big enough to handle the questions and the frustration. But He unfortunately doesn't send out e-mails detailing reasons. But know that it is okay to vent to God. May HE hold you close as He is also holding me. Hugs, y2k

y2kxmaskids | June 15 , 2010 3:18 PM

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My fiance' and I miscarried back in April. We were 8 weeks. Getting pregnant for me was a miracle in and of itself because I was told that I couldn't get pregnant. Losing our first was extremely difficult. We're now pregnant again, about 7 weeks along and it's June :) We're taking everything slowly and haven't told anyone yet. We want to make sure we're past the 8 week point so in our minds we're safe. It's never easy. I can't imagine going through it more than once. My heart goes out to those of you who have. But there is hope. :D

RavensBelle | June 28 , 2010 7:10 PM

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I am in the same situation. I have 3 beautiful girls that are 15,8, and 2 and in Early May I found out I was pregnant . I ended up having a full miscarriage on May 28th. I didnt have to have a DNC. It was very difficult and my husband and I planed on trying again as soon as I had my first period. Well I found out on the 3rd of July that I am pregnant again..... I did not expect that. I am SO happy but in the same breath I am scared of going through that again. I am SO SORRY for everyone of you on here that have had to deal with a miscarriage. I know that God does what needs to be done and it is in his hands but it is still so hard to go through. I will pray for everyone of you and that God will give you the comfort you so need. Also can some of you who did get pregnant right away update how your new pregnancy is going?

mmbga93 | July 15 , 2010 11:16 PM

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i have been so sacred of this. Im about 6 weeks now, and my friend who was a month ahead of me miscarried. It terrifies me. Especially since my doc. said it would be tought for us to get pg, since I was having ovulation issues and it only took us one month of ttc. I just dont want it to be too good to be true. I think that getting to see my baby will help me alot, but I still dont get to go until Sept 22!

KelJoSmith | August 29 , 2010 12:18 AM

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My husband and I will be ttc next month and I'm really nervous. I had just finished a long process dealing with endo. I had surgery and then had to receive 6 months of Lupron shots. I heard that women who had endo had a difficult time conceiving and often experience miscarriages. I'm trying to not worry too much, but it's hard.

kate2275 | August 31 , 2010 2:42 PM

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I have one daughter from a previous marriage. When I remarried we decided to have children. I thought it would be as smooth as the first time. I was pregnant in 2008 and started bleeding at 12 weeks. Baby stopped developing at 8 weeks. I was shocked but knew this could happen so I took it much better than my husband. In 2009 exactly one year later we conceived again and we were thrilled. I once again started bleeding arund 8 weeks and baby had stopped developing at 6 weeks. Once again I'm pregnant for the third time. We have gotten pregnant in the month of June 3 years in a row. I have been a nervous wreck. I bleed heavily at 9 weeks but found out it was a subchorionic hematoma. I have seen baby 4 times through vaginal US and last week at 12 weeks we heard the hb through dopplar. I know I should feel reassured and things seem on track but I'm still scared to death of miscarrying. I'm 13 weeks and keep waiting to see blood everytime I wipe...I feel for all of you women experiencing miscarriage. It is heartbreaking, but at 13 weeks if I make it know that there is hope for anyone.

istherehope | September 07 , 2010 9:32 AM

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i'm 6 weeks pregnant and i just started bleedin,and the doctors says my cervix is still closed..so i haven't miscarried yet..but im scared..i'm having twins..and i keep bleedin..and this morning i passed a bigger blood clot and i'm not in any pain or anything..i was wonderin if someone knew what was goin on!!!!

nicloecara | September 30 , 2010 1:50 PM

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I had a miscarriage when I was almost 6 weeks. I will be 6 weeks on monday. I am totally freaking out cause I want this baby more than anything.. I go into the doctor also on monday. Is there anyway they can make sure everything is going okay?

jlu2210 | November 06 , 2010 3:07 PM

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I'm not sure there is any way to know. I misscarried in Oct. 2009, We think we were about 6 to 7 weeks along. We had not done an ultrasound because doctors usually schedule you 8weeks on ur first appt. I'm preggers again and this time my doctor wanted to see me immediately. My hormones were 200, so I may be about 3 to 4 weeks pregnant. I will be seend every other week and get blood draws to see if my levels continue to grow. This time we only told our mothers and will wait closer to 3 months to tell everyone. It was hard to have to tell everyone we had miscarried and very sad...we were so excited...our first for both of us and we are in our late 30's so we are ready financially and emotionally to be parents. I was very heart broken. I am praying that this pregnancy results in a child.....God Bless all of us....

abcmyrta1 | February 03 , 2011 11:30 AM

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I was misscarried in Oct 2006, I didnt knew I was pregnant same time I took by pill.. next day I feel so sick so I took preg test... come back postive... I was shocked iI dont kno if baby is okay so keep postive till 2 weeks later started bleeding.. I never take U/S on my first preg bec it was start appt by nov 2006 but misscarried in Oct 29th..... so Now I am pregnant again... 9 weeks pregnant and so scare I dont wanna to lose it again... I wanna this baby so badly but I did saw my baby by U/S.. my baby is fine and heartbeat! but inside my feel still anxiety...

sexiimama15 | March 23 , 2011 1:29 PM

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I had a miscarriage 13 years ago at 27 weeks. The baby rapidly lost amniotic fluid, and they did not have a cause. She was a stillborn. I went on to have two healthy baby boys after that, my boys are 16 months apart. After my second son was born, I got pregnant again with another girl. I lost her at 21 weeks due to an umbilical cord strangulation. That we thought would be the end of our time having children, it was all too painful. Last July after 10 years, we were surprised with being pregnant. At 21 weeks, I lost my third girl. This time I had type2 diabetes, thyroid disease, high blood pressure and was overweight. Complete devastation. That was Nov. of 2010. Well, this is going to be our last try. I am again pregnant. As of today, April 6th, 2011, I am 11.5 weeks along. I am worried sick about this pregnancy now. I reached my 35th birthday in February, so that puts me in a new high risk category, not to mention the things I said I have already, Type 2 diabetes, thyroid disease and high blood pressure and weight issues. I hope that this baby makes it. I am trying to be relaxed about it, but with my history, I have a had time being calm. Has anyone had this many losses in a row and then successfully carried to full term and had a healthy baby? Has anyone had the health disorders I have and successfully delivered? I also have PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome) which means it is harder for me to conceive, but also a lot of complications can arise in the pregnancy from that alone. ~A nervous wreck in Maryland~

vixen224 | April 06 , 2011 8:03 AM

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I miscarried in October at 10 weeks, just after we had told our families - turns out we had an empty gestational sac developing. Now we are 9 weeks pregnant again. The last 10 days or so have been so difficult, even though we've had an ultrasound and heard the heartbeat. I'm so paranoid all the time that something is going to go wrong, even though this pregnancy feels completely different from last time. Lots of luck to everyone!

anet1223 | April 22 , 2011 11:27 AM

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Was eight weeks pregnant this week. Monday night I found light pink blood when I wiped after going to the bathroom. Then same thing a couple more times before I went to bed. Went on internet and read where women said that it was normal, not to freak, and some said doc couldn't even find baby's heartbeat till 10 weeks. So Tuesday morning same thing. Called doc (was supposed to have 1st appt with him next Tuesday and my first ultrasound). Nurse called back and said since not bright red and not bleeding through pad, relax and put feet up and call if change. Hour later she calls back and says doc reviewed my case and wanted me to come in that afternoon for ultrasound and to check heartbeat. Nurse does ultrasound. I could see baby on screen and got all excited. Then nurse said she can't find a heartbeat. Doc comes in to review and says baby was only 6 weeks in size and there was no heartbeat. I was devastated. Then I told him how women online said sometimes didn't see heartbeat till 10 weeks. He said that's not going to happen and they have very good equipment. Suggested DNC but I refused. First of all, there's a chance they could damage my uterus. Secondly, what if there's a one in a billion chance the doc is wrong? They are human after all. They checked my cervix at the doc's office, and I wasn't dilated at all. Said I could have the miscarriage that night or in a week. Couldn't say. So, now I'm just waiting for the cramping and blood to start. I was the happiest I've ever been in my life, and now I'm just so very sad.

bengaluv | April 28 , 2011 11:29 AM

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It makes me feel much better to know I'm not alone in this. After I miscarried in early february after 11 weeks, both my boyfriend and I wer devestated. I asked myself, where do woman like myself go after this experience, who can we talk to and relate to? I'm so hurt that I lost my baby, it was a 2nd miscarriage also. Just a week before I miscarried, I saw he baby on the ultrasound and the doctor told me it was already moving, all 11 weeks and the heartbeat was good. But after being in and out of emergency for cramping and bleeding It was my worst fear to know that a miscarriage might happen again. On February 5 I miscarried in the hospital's bathroom. The worst feeling in the world is too see your baby come out of you, not alive, and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it!!! :,( Ladies keep your hopes up and always remember things happen for a reason and God is there with us each step of the way...<3>

ArenaSirena | May 06 , 2011 3:14 PM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

My husband and I recently found out we were 6 weeks pregnant, even though I was on birth control. I am on a very low dose of birth control, but was still shocked to find out it had not worked. While it was not in our plan to become pregnant at this time, we immediately became very excited since we wanted to have children someday. On May 19 I noticed some spotting. My doc had me get some labs done to see what my levels were. On May 22 I started cramping and bleeding. I called the doc on call who told me I was miscarrying and charged me $25 for the phone call! The doc office called yesterday to tell me my hormone levels were low, so I could expect to miscarry. They called again today to let me know my next set of lab work showed a decrease in hormone levels and is consistent with a miscarriage. Apparently there is no record of me having told them about my cramping and bleeding. I shouldn't have to keep telling them about it, especially considering how painful it is to talk about. While it is very common to them, it is not something that would EVER become routine to the patient, no matter how many times it may occur. I am going to change physicians asap. I want one who will tell me what to expect with a miscarriage, ask me about how I am doing and answer any questions. I keep telling myself that the baby would not have been healthy, and this was a natural selection of sorts. Even so, a pregnancy loss is devastating and heartbreaking regardless of how far along in pregnancy. At least I know I have the ability to become pregnant, which many women can not. We are staying optimistic that we will have a successful pregnancy in the future.

katiejoy74 | May 24 , 2011 1:25 PM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

We lost our first pregnancy just shy of 7 weeks and it was devastating. I was glad we'd told the people we did, though, because we needed all the support we could get during that time. We're now 7 weeks pregnant again and have seen a healthy embryo with a heartbeat on an early ultrasound. Still, we are scared. The book "Pregnancy After a Loss" by Carol Cirulli Lanham has been incredibly helpful (it's normal to have all these anxieties and mixed emotions!) and I would recommend it to anyone who finds herself in a similar situation. Best wishes to everyone!!

Erin011 | July 04 , 2011 6:33 AM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks, followed by a D & C. in Oct 2006., got pregnant with twins November 2006 and lost my daughter at 20 weeks but delivered my son who is almost 5 now and very healthy. 1st attempt with clomid in June 2001 got pregnant and now about 8 weeks. Terrified to go for my US on Friday, I just want to have 1 normal healthy pregnancy!!!

JMiligan | July 25 , 2011 9:02 PM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

My husband and I found out we were pregnant on 8-12-11 when we were going to speak to the GYN about fertility issues. That weekend after we found out my levels were rising but after the weekend I had some bleeding and cramping. My levels started dropping. I had to get Methotrexaite shots to end the pregnancy. They hurt very bad but it is a different option than a D&C. Our due date would have been 3 days before our Anniversary in April. Now Dr. said we can try again in November. I hope I never have to go thru a Miscarriage again, it is not fun at all and very upsetting and dissappointing.

2bwed409 | August 21 , 2011 9:38 PM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

My husband and I found out we were going to have a baby last Thursday morning, It would have been our honeymoon souvenir and we were over the moon! Even though it was not planned we had been together for years and were ready to be parents. Just 4 days after finding out about our little blessing and already being totally in love with it I started discharging brown blood, which I looked up and read that it was normal but it still did not feel right, with time it turned pink then red then I eventually passed the baby later that afternoon, naturally and at home. I was 5 weeks exactly. Sadness still consumes me and all I can think about it having another baby now but I am not sure exactly how long we need to wait to play it safe, I can't imagine going through this all again, My heart goes out to all of you who have lost a baby.

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Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

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watson012 | September 07 , 2011 1:45 AM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

I recently started bleeding after two days of just cramping. I thought that mild cramping meant implantation but it was very heavy and sharp. At work I ended up going to the bathroom and started spotting, so I went to the hospital right away to see if my baby was okay. I'm supposed to be 5 weeks today but the doctor had told me that my hormone level yesterday was 16 and that it should have been in the thousands... I didnt know what he meant by that until later. Im at high risk for a miscarriage but hope that my body is strong enough to fight it. :( its very hard right now im very worried. this would be my first child.

LilyFloresLloyd | September 27 , 2011 9:35 AM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

My husband and I miscarried at 10 weeks 5 days back in May...started with brown spotting around 9 weeks and at the 2nd internal u/s the heartbeat was gone. Had a D&C early June. We just got a positive pregnany test on Saturday and my 1st prenatal appt is Nov 3rd. This will be the longest 3 weeks ever. We'll be very relieved when we get to 12 weeks.

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Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

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PeterMark | November 17 , 2011 10:09 AM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

You can not control if your going to miscarry, just go to the doctor if you have a feeling. I just miscarried on the 27th and its the worse feeling in the world. Even though i was only 5 weeks pregnant would have been 6 on the 30 of november it feels like the baby was already here. its painful physically and emotionally. You will experience emotion that you never knew you had.If you have a feeling go to the dr and have them check up on the baby. I went to the ER bleeding and they did a pelvic exam which they are not suppose to do when your threathening a miscarriage. So I do blame the hospital for miscarrying so fast and not just telling me that i was because they also told me that its an early pregnancy and they would not be able to see anything in an ultrasound.

kaylamcrews | November 30 , 2011 9:16 AM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

In June of this year I miscarried our first child (now in heaven) at 10 weeks along. The baby had only grown to 6 weeks. I am now 7 weeks pregnant and a few days ago started bleeding and cramping. I'm trusting that God is in control. No matter how hard the grief and the possibility of losing anther child, I believe that He still cares and I pray that I can be strong through the process. We had already planned to visit my sister in the Dominican Republic in a few weeks, so I'm praying that if this baby does pass away that the tissue will come out before we leave. I'm hopeful though because a friend of mine had seven miscarriages and now has two beautiful boys. God will see me through.

LEliseStar | December 17 , 2011 1:54 PM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

My son was stillborn at christmas last year and i then had a miscarriage at 8 weeks. I am now 6 weeks pregnant and trying to take each day as it comes but as so petrified. i can't see to the end of this pregnancy and the thought of leaving hospital with a live baby seems impossible :(

sleeppeacefullybabyboy | January 07 , 2012 4:26 PM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

In September I found out I was pregnant and since my husband and I had been trying for months, I was thrilled. We told everyone. I knew people who had miscarriages, but I felt sort of immune to it. As things progressed, it just didn't feel right. In the back of my mind, the chance of miscarriage loomed. Sure enough, at 5 weeks and 5 days, the brown discoloration showed up after I wiped. I was at a restaurant with my family so I had to go back to my table and pretend that nothing was happening. I had full fledged bleeding by the next day. Heartbroken doesn't even describe how I felt...but I was hopeful. I figured that my miscarriage was due to the level of stress I had at work, so I went in search of a new job and we gave "trying" a break. Well, as it turns out, we had a little "accident". So here I am, pregnant again. And what's today? 5 weeks and 5 days. I'm terrified each time I go to the bathroom, but when I don't see that brownish color, I'm so thrilled. My symptoms of pregnancy are kicking my butt this time, which I've decided to take as a positive sign. I currently have zero stress in my life and I've cut out caffein (I drank it heavily the first time around). Each day is a milestone, but at the same time, I'm terrified. I want this baby so bad and I worry that a second miscarriage will change my situation from a fluke to a medical condition that will keep me from giving my husband the one thing he wants to badly. I wish all of you the best of luck! Everyone deserves the opportunity to have a child! My thoughts and prayers are with all of you!!!

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Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

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watson012 | January 30 , 2012 1:24 AM

Q&A: Miscarriage risks?

I found out I was pregnant in December of 2005 for the first time. It was two months after my husband and I married. Days later, exactly one week before Christmas I went to restroom at church praying the whole way there because jihads started having rather painful cramps. To my horror there was already blood in my underwear. My husband took me to the hospital where they confirmed pregnancy, did an u/s and told me baby was not there. Over the next several days of bleeding I hid in my room or the bathroom crying hysterically. My poor husband was there for me every moment and did his best to comfort me even though he was hurting so bad himself. The first time we had sex after we could I got pregnant with my son. The pregnancy was difficult and I never relaxed. Even after he was born I wouldn't sleep until my husband had the nurse drug me for my own good. Two years later after a much better pregnancy we had our youngest boy. That pregnancy was so much less stressful. Since then my older sister who had lost two other babies got pregnant. Around 9 weeks she had an u/s no heartbeat she had to have a d/c. She was devastated as anyone would be. In Nov I found out she was 3months pregnant and doing great. In Dec I found out I was pregnant. Having no insurance I had to go through the state and just a week ago got insurance and was finally able to make a doctor appt. I will be 13 wks the day of my appt. Also coincidentally the day after my sister's baby shower. I'm so scared. My doctor does not do u/s in office and schedules a separate appt at a radiologist office for one, usually around 15wks. I'm a nervous wreck fearing that by the time I get to the doctor it will be pointless or rather, painful as opposed to joyful. Not just because of what my sister went through but because of an antibody I developed in my last pregnancy that can be dangerous for this baby. Anyone else know anything about the Kelly antibody?

AmyLou976 | January 30 , 2012 6:57 PM