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Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

When and how can I find out what gender I’m having?

Re: When and how can I find out what gender I’m having?

The Bump Expert

During your second trimester ultrasound (between 18 and 22 weeks or so), your practitioner should be able to make out baby’s gender. An accurate reading is more likely if you have a good sonogram machine and an experienced sonographer,but it’s tough to get a 100% guarantee with ultrasound. Amniocentesis and CVS,first and second trimester procedures which look for birth defects, can predict gender with almost total accuracy, but these tests are typically given only to women at risk for genetic abnormalities.

Now, if you’re interested in the not quite so scientific (okay,mythical) approach, we’ve got a few more ideas. First, check out our Chinese Gender Chart. According to legend, it predicts with 90% accuracy.Then, hold a pendant or ring on a chain above your head. If it swings back and forth, it’s a boy; around in a circle, it’s a girl. Next, pick up a key. If you grabbed the thinner end, it’s a girl; the thick, round end, it’s a boy.Finally, take off your shirt and check out your chest. If the left boob is bigger, it’s a girl; if the right boob is bigger, it’s a boy.

Heard any other tricks for predicting gender? What worked -- or didn't -- for you?

The Bump Editors | May 19 , 2009 4:37 PM

re: Q: Boy or Girl?

I have 3 sisters and 6 girl couisns thats it. they all have at least 2 kids...well 2 boys only boys. i think im having boys.

KymmShi | January 22 , 2008 1:31 PM

re: Q: Boy or Girl?

I heard that if you take a needle on a thread and hold it a little above your wrist it will move in a circle and then either move hand to elbow (boy) or side to side (girl)

BennettFam07 | February 26 , 2008 8:05 PM

re: Q: Boy or Girl?

I am stuck! I tried the gender chart. This website says I'm having a girl, but when I look at the gender chart it suggest a boy. I guess I'll just have to wait until my second trimester. (11 wks)

SLBush35 | March 02 , 2008 12:22 PM

re: Q: Boy or Girl?

Gender chart was right for me! :)

MandyD1014 | May 14 , 2008 1:46 PM

re: Q: Boy or girl?

The Chinese Gender Chart have me stuck also. It ask for your age and month of conception. Well I conceived the day before my birthday, but I do not remember if it was before or after midnight and how much that would make a difference. At my age before midnight it says boy and after midnight (my birthday) it says girl. I guess I'll just have to wait for delivery day. DH and I didn't want to know before then anyway!

LilJG | May 23 , 2008 10:28 AM

re: Q: Boy or girl?

Does anyone know if the Chinese Gender chart goes by the time you actually get pregnant or does it go by the last period. I am wanting to try for a boy so I will start TTC in July. I will have an ovulation cycle at the beginning of July and the end. If I get pregnant at the beginning of July is that really considered June since my last period was in June?

bellyshelly | June 23 , 2008 1:15 PM

re: Q: Boy or girl?

I did the Chinese Gender chart and it tells me that it's a girl. I have done other things that tell me it's a girl. I guess i am just going to have to wait and see. (14 weeks)

Adelis92 | October 13 , 2008 9:09 PM

re: Q: Boy or girl?

I FInd out tomorrow! The chart says I'm having a boy....I'll let you know!

IM_TEVITAS_LIL_MAMA | October 15 , 2008 8:04 AM

re: Q: Boy or girl?

i hate the chinese gender chart, what if you were under 18 when you concieved? i'll be 18 when its born but i was only 17 when bub was concieved, its pretty unfair to under 18s if u think about it...

mandamoo91 | February 01 , 2009 6:00 AM

re: Q: Boy or girl?

chinese chart says i'm having a girl... everyone else says it's a boy... and we find out in the morning! (14 hours to go!)

nicole.c | March 24 , 2009 8:25 PM

re: Q: Boy or girl?

It doesn't matter how old the mom is. IT IS ALL THE FATHER"S FAULT. They decide if it's a boy or girl. That Chinese chart is a novelty, not truth.

kell6580 | April 08 , 2009 6:18 PM

re: Q: Boy or girl?

Intelligender from the drug store is a fun (if a littel onvercomplicated for first thing inthe morning test..). My sister in law did it - said a boy she had a boy, we did it it said a girl - we'll find out next week. it does claim >80% accuracy and it is a bit of a giggle.

jorobkenne | June 08 , 2009 3:17 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

gender chart here says i am having a boy but the same gender chart but on a different website says im having a girl. my fiance's mom says that im having a girl because well she has always been right when predicting baby genders in the family but her reason for it is because my bump looks different than my finace's sister (who is also pregnant) and she is having a boy.. she says thats how she has always been able to predict all the other family members because of the bump so if you all want to compare yours to another person who knows i guess that can be up to you.. ill let everyone know if she was right or not in like 12 more weeks hahahaha

lakersgirljj24 | September 09 , 2009 4:53 PM

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I did the intelligender as well and I was 12 weeks preggo. (it is a little pricey) Mine was a little inconclusive but it did point more to a girl. It is hard to read. All of the other myths pointed to girl and we found Labor Day weekend that we are having a little girl!

kimbyMD | September 09 , 2009 6:30 PM

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I thought i was having a boy. I cross-checked all my friends, relatives, and their children against the gender chart first- It was 14 out 15 accurate....Chart said I was having a boy, sonogram confirmed it!

Lyrical Faith | September 11 , 2009 1:31 AM

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Im like 18 weeks and i find out the gender on Oct. 28th. The gender chart says...boy....but i see in a few weeks.

mcoleman1 | October 12 , 2009 1:37 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

how do you do the chinese gender chart if you did ivf and you concieved from a fet??? do I use the date they became embies or do i use the date of the transfer??? so confused!!!

1StepAtATime | October 18 , 2009 9:19 AM

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lol I did the Chinese gender chart for my husbands age and our date of conception, and then my age and DOC and they both said we're having a girl. We don't find out til December.

knittychick | October 24 , 2009 1:38 PM

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I had someone tell me if my pulse was quicker in my right arm then my left I would have a girl, if my left was quicker I would have a boy. My left was quicker. The pendant and boob check also both pointed to boy. Next week we shall see.

Becky May | November 11 , 2009 6:32 PM

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I have my ultrasound appointment this Friday! We are so excited and can't wait to find out what we're having! I have no idea either....maybe a girl because I am not showing too much (20 weeks) but you never know, especially with your first pregnancy!

RosieL18 | November 15 , 2009 10:38 PM

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The chinese gender chart says I'm having a boy....And everyone thinks im having a boy but...I will find out on Wednesday, I'll let you know! (19 weeks)

asiareed223 | December 06 , 2009 10:40 PM

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Gender chart was right for me also- baby boy :)

mooncatblue@Hotmail.com | December 10 , 2009 7:00 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

the Chinese calender confuses me a little, because it goes by age, but My husband and I are different ages, if I go by mine, its a girl, if I go by my husbands its a boy. I want a boy >.> so I'm sticking with my husbands till we find out next month.

cstonier2305 | January 12 , 2010 11:04 AM

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I had tried the ring thing....i tried it on my aunts and friends.....it has never failed me! Now I try it on myself and it doesn't move anymore! I think it's because I probably have a tilted uterus lol! But the trick is to put the ring on in front of your belly because the ring detects the heartbeat. won't hurt to try! Have fun ladies! :)

alma_vargas | January 19 , 2010 5:29 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

I find out this tuesday the 26th. We are so excited to find out. We both think I am having a boy jus because I am carrying so low. Plus i also took the Chinese chart test and it said I was having a boy. If it is a boy, I hope it looks like his daddy!

kk1990 | January 20 , 2010 1:45 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

i took intelligender pee test from the drug store. it said i am having a girl. i checked the chinese gender calender, it says i'm having a boy. so i don't know. guess i'll have to wait til my next ultrasound on feb. 19.

MDTerpBride | January 23 , 2010 8:51 AM

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We just found out we are having a BOY! I'm 16 weeks & 4 days along. I wasn't sure I wanted to know but we had the chance I couldn't resist. I didn't have morning sickness, so that old wives tale was true. Can't wait to start decorating the baby's room & deciding on a name!

wilson2c | February 01 , 2010 8:59 AM

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Im 19 weeks and 2 days... I find out what the baby is tomorrow morning, the gender chart says its going to to be a boy and i kinda would like a boy but the proof will all come out tomorrow im totally excited. I will let you all know when i find out... YAY BABY!!!!

ladye107 | March 28 , 2010 10:05 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

The chart said I am having a girl, but sonogram confirmed it's a boy.....so much for accuracy.

number3herewecome | June 15 , 2010 8:47 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

Sonogram said girl, based on "bone shape". Chart said girl. But another chart said boy. I can't trust the early sonogram ( second daughter was confused for boy by bone shape until pre term labor scare and doc confirmed girl. ) So I am having another one in 2 weeks. Im hoping for a boy!

Mamita10 | July 07 , 2010 12:34 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

did several chinese charts (tired to find the first one to show husband but couldnt so did another one) they all say girl. we want a girl (or just a healthy baby) but wont find out til october, 12 weeks today!

trianalantz | August 20 , 2010 3:12 PM

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We did an entire blog post on IntelliGender and why it's fun but it is basically the crystal Drano test in an expensive package. We have the blog on http://www.handsoffmybellyguide.com/blog and we have an entire book written on pregnancy myths and superstitions including a chapter on gender prediction. "Hands Off My Belly! The Pregnant Woman's Survival Guide to Myths Mothers and Moods" is on Amazon, Barnes and Noble and most brick and mortar stores. I guess the test has a 50% chance huh.

DrTass | September 09 , 2010 10:11 PM

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I just had my second Dr. appt today at 12 weeks and the dr was able to tell us that we are having a boy already!! She said we would confirm at the next appt at 16 weeks but it was def. there on the screen plain as day at 12 weeks =] i also used the chinese gender predictor on the website and it said girl so we shall see!

mandijo05 | September 22 , 2010 8:28 PM

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I'm now 20 weeks...YAY! Went in for my first ultrasound at 17 weeks and doctor as well as Ultrasound Technicians confirmed that we're having a boy. 100% it's a boy they said. I have 5 ultrasound pictures showing his "goods" clear as day. I checked the Chinese Chart and it also pointed to boy. Boys run in my fiance's family so we got lucky with our daughter so I was hoping that we'd be the fluke family and had all girls =)

leona_bui | October 06 , 2010 5:23 AM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

I'm only 9 weeks and have 3 boys! I checked the chinese gender chart with all boys and ALL TIMES says i was having a GIRL! Says im having a girl this time too lmao so im assuming ill prolly have ANOTHER boy lol! I sure want a girl, so MAYBE it will be right this time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Michekke | October 28 , 2010 12:06 PM

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My coworker said that she knew she was having a boy because during her pregnancy she couldn't eat chocolate (it would make her feel sick) and she usually LOVES chocolate and can't get enough! I didn't really understand how that made her know that she was having a boy, but somehow she knew. Also, my boss said his wife couldn't eat popcorn while pregnant (which she usually loves to eat) and they had a boy as well.

dancer48501 | November 10 , 2010 8:16 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

I find out in 1 week - the doc is gonna try to see when we're 18 weeks along! i'm nervous they won't see anything cause we're so excited to find out since it's our first! the chinese gender chart says girl and i have heard if the heartbeat is higher than 140, that means girl too.... we'll see!! :)

eabell09 | December 19 , 2010 6:22 PM

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Im confused...... All the gender charts are saying boy but we have sonogram at 18 and 2days...... Tech was pretty sure it was a girl with her legs spread wide eagle is what she says..... I want a girl but now this is scaring me a little bit..........

ncranoull | February 25 , 2011 9:48 PM

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what are the signs of having a girl?

jean011 | March 13 , 2011 12:16 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

I always heard heartbeat below 140 is a boy, above is a girl. Im 12 weeks and heard the heartbeat for the first time at this weeks' appointment. 160 beats per minute!! Hoping for a girl but we have to wait until May to find out. I also tried gender chart which some said girl, some said boy..they were not very consistent!! We will see in May I wish we could find out sooner...I want to start shopping!!

Ambs1023 | March 16 , 2011 6:54 AM

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Chinese gender charts: 9/12 different charts said girl and ultrasound said GIRL! Baby #4 and other 3 are boys, so I am pumped to finally have a daughter!

jjones4444 | March 21 , 2011 12:41 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

The chinese chart said I was having a girl but my mother knew best, I am having a baby boy!

Kmonita15 | March 26 , 2011 10:05 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

I had my ultrasound when I was 20 wks pregnant they said it was a boy although they took the pic of genitals I feel they are wrong. I bought the intelligender test after that and it said I'm having a girl so the ring trick and other so I'm confused.

aileen encinas | March 29 , 2011 8:19 AM

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Chinese Chart said I was having a boy and I am!!!!

cathyblac | April 02 , 2011 7:04 PM

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Ive grown up to several things but one i didn't see mentioned here is the shape of the way you carry the baby. Like a more round out in front (ball shaped)belly means your having a boy. And a wider more horizontal (watermelon shaped)belly means your having a girl. I have yet to be shown that this doesn't work. My first pregnancy i was so round and so out ward that from behind you couldnt even tell i was pregnant. even at 9 Months. Of course i had a boy :) This time Im showing alot wider than i did before. with that and the Chinese calendar saying Im having a girl Im more than convinced. (but i never get my hopes up too badly, just in case)

rrnavarro | April 06 , 2011 9:47 AM

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Well" the Chinese chart said i am having a boy, so does the pendant/ring trick ~ it swing left and right...which mean a boy! But when i have my 17th weeks ultrasound they said its a girl... Anyhow we are just as happy....most important baby's healthy:))))

isboo | April 14 , 2011 4:31 PM

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Both the Chinese Gender Chart and the Intelligender Test said boy. At our u/s at 20 weeks yesterday, the tech said girl...go figure!!

ShellB0202 | April 27 , 2011 7:46 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

The Chinese Birth chart is fun, but that's it. I checked it with several births through my and my and husband's family. According to the chart I was meant to be a boy and he was meant to be a girl. Both our Mums were meant to be boys too :) As someone says below the male's sperm determines the gender. Anything other than finding out from the doctor is harmless entertainment.

GraceL2011 | May 11 , 2011 12:47 PM

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I"m a few days over 16 weeks and the gender chart was correct. I work as a registered sonographer and I was able to cheat and glance about a week or two ago to see that it was a girl! It was also correct with my son a few years ago.

dotto00 | June 06 , 2011 9:33 AM

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We had our 20 week ultrasound Monday, and the night before just for fun we did the needle/wedding ring test and everytime we did it it said girl. Baby's heart rate has been in the 160's as well which might indicate girl, so I've heard. Well....it was true in our case! We have a sweet little girl on the way. So who know's maybe just a fluke but fun anyway. :)

AprilH37 | June 08 , 2011 9:41 AM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

The Chinese Gender predictor is not accurate, it says i was having a girl but nope its a boy!!

dean15364 | June 09 , 2011 1:57 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

I did 3 Chinese gender charts...girl, girl, boy; The ring test...boy; Right boob is bigger...boy; watermelon shaped belly...girl; gender predictor quiz...53% girl and 47% boy; most family says...boy; I thought boy at first now I'm not sure. So, that's 4 girls, 4 boys, and 1 I'm-not-sure! So, we will see July 21st!

wnrobins86 | June 30 , 2011 2:24 PM

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A trick I learned was to pour draino into a cup of your urine (preferably a disposable cup), and if it turns blue it's a boy. If it turns pink, it's a girl. Mine turned purple with my first pregnancy. Imagine my surprise when I ended up having one of each!

SAzurdia | July 19 , 2011 2:07 PM

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some time between 18 and 20 weeks

kalie11a | August 08 , 2011 9:40 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

Chinese gender chart is right 50% of the time just like every other old wives tale its all for fun.

Simela | August 16 , 2011 10:34 PM

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Chinese predictor was WRONG!!!!!! And so was the heartbeat predictor and most of the other old wives tales...

voje22 | August 30 , 2011 12:41 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

The Chinese gender chart says boy. So do all of the old wives tales. EVERYTHING points to boy... Except what the ultrasound tech said when I went in for my anatomy U/S. She said she was pretty sure we're having a girl but the baby wasn't cooperating very well... Me and my boyfriend and both of our families all had the feeling it was a boy. We're going to get a 3D U/S done before the baby shower so we know for sure

CarpinelloCC | October 18 , 2011 9:29 AM

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Be prepared: baby may not be cooperative at all. I went in last Sat. for my 20 week u/s and she wouldn't open her legs no matter what we did. She was moving around, but those thighs were clamped shut. We FINALLY got a peek and the best the u/s tech could say is that it is "likely" a girl, as she looked at every angle and there is no "turtle head" peeking out anywhere. We're going to go with "girl," but we'll be keeping receipts just in case!

BGo | October 24 , 2011 6:06 AM

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i really can't wait

miguelluigi | October 30 , 2011 6:12 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

The gender chart was wrong for me.... but the sayings about the heart rate and no nausea were true. My baby's heart rate was around 150's-160's and I haven't been sick at all ---> and it's a BOY! :)

burtona2 | December 04 , 2011 8:48 AM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

We went to one of those 3D ultra sound places and found out the gender at 16 weeks.

Marissatee | December 14 , 2011 4:29 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

Well just did the baby gender chart and it said im having a girl but I haven't found what im having yet until Feb. 2nd but I hope the baby gender chart is right!

brimom91 | January 25 , 2012 8:59 PM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

I have 2 kids and have used the Chinese gender chart each time. It was CORRECT both times. I have a boy and a girl! Now I'm pregnant with my 3rd and it says girl! The chart hasn't failed me yet! I'll find out in a few weeks!

lulylovin1 | February 05 , 2012 12:20 AM

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This question is incorrect. You find out the baby's sex not gender. I found this posting disappointing in the mislabeling. "Sex" refers to the biological and physiological characteristics that define men and women. "Gender" refers to the socially constructed roles, behaviours, activities, and attributes that a given society considers appropriate for men and women.

lpbbunny | February 08 , 2012 5:17 PM

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An old tradition in my family to tell your babys sex invlolves INSTINCT hav your mom, partner or friend place 2 chairs beside each other , Place a pillow on top of each chair.Under each pillow ,on one chair hide a fork under the pillow and on the other chair hide a spoon(of course without you peeking!!) Go into the room where the chairs it and sit on a pillow.If you get a spoon you have a girl , and a Fork a boy !!! Has never failed !!!:0 :)

Jhristina3 | February 25 , 2012 5:12 AM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

I'm pregnant with my second child and I really enjoyed waiting untill my son was born to find out. So this time we are waiting again, it's fun to hear all this superstitions while I'm pregnant and to have everyone guessing and betting lol on the baby's sex. So I say wait till your baby is born and have a look :)

shan867 | February 25 , 2012 7:38 PM

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I'm 19 weeks today and have my U/S scheduled for tomorrow!

StephanieMarie95 | February 27 , 2012 11:58 AM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

now am pregnant and i want to check which baby am having

sekarhema | March 16 , 2012 3:35 AM

Q&A: How to find out baby's gender?

Since day 1 I felt like I was having a boy..only 3 more weeks until the 20th week ultrasound. So we will see. I would be surprised if I'm carrying a girl, they say mothers intuition knows best :)

NewmommySept2012 | April 07 , 2012 11:40 AM