Pregnancy Week by Week

Get a window on what’s happening in your pregnancy, week by week. From week four to week 42, your baby is experiencing a miraculous transformation from a clump of cells to a fully formed (and totally cute) newborn. Just imagine, as early as five weeks, your baby is already starting to form major organs (heart, stomach, liver, and kidneys) and systems (digestive, circulatory, nervous). By eight weeks, your raspberry-sized womb-mate is moving her arms and legs. At the beginning of your second trimester (week 14), your wee one is sucking his thumb. By week 28, the first week of the third trimester, baby (now as big as an eggplant) is prepping for breathing, developing his eyesight and packing on pounds in anticipation of life outside the womb. Each week is a new miracle. Less miraculous is how a mom-to-be may feel. Pregnancy Week-by-Week charts your baby’s development but also lets mom know what she might be feeling during each week of her pregnancy. Pregnancy week by Week includes everything mom needs to know to feel a sense of control over her pregnancy. Each week offers a complete guide to what you might feel, your must-do’s, your nice-to do’s, and answers and advice on everything pregnancy-related. Plus each week’s guide offers tips on maintaining a healthy and comfortable pregnancy from strategies on coping with pregnancy symptoms (morning sickness anyone?) to ideas for healthy eating, and pointers on talking to your OB. Let us guide you along your pregnancy, week by week.

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How do I choose a guardian for my baby?

I’m not really sure who to pick as a guardian for my child. What factors will help me make my decision? Does it have to be a family member, or can it be a friend? Do I need to discuss it with the potential guardian before doing the paperwork?

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I’m not really sure who to pick as a guardian for my child. What factors will help me make my decision? Does it have to be a family member, or can it be a friend? Do I need to discuss it with the potential guardian before doing the paperwork?

The Bump Expert

Of course, it’s important to choose your guardian carefully, but also keep in mind that you can change your decision as often as and whenever you’d like. When designating a guardian for your child, you can create a checks-and-balances system by choosing someone to support your children as their guardian, while designating a different person to manage their financial affairs.

When choosing a guardian, it’s advisable to choose someone who’s a trusted family member or friend. It doesn’t necessarily have to be a family member, but what matters is that the person you choose is not only willing to serve as your child’s guardian, but also is able to raise your child in the same way that you would.

To help you make the decision, sit down with a pen and paper and list your potential candidates and then answer the following questions about each one of them. If you’re deciding with your partner, answer the questions separately and then compare afterward:

1. What kind of relationship does my child have with this person, and vice versa? Do they get along?
2. Am I comfortable with this person’s lifestyle and values? Can my children get the same moral and religious upbringing that I would’ve provided?
3. Is this person able to care for my child? For example, do they have children of their own? If so, can they handle more children? If they don’t have children, would they be able to raise children?
4. Where does the person live? Would my child have to move to live with this person?
5. If I have more than one child, can this person take care of all of them, or would my children have to live separately?
6. Is the candidate willing to serve as my children’s guardian? The person you’re considering might not be willing to accept the responsibility. Therefore, it’s a good idea to find out ahead of time whether this person is willing to take on the task of being a guardian to your children.
7. How good is the health of the person? Are they physically and mentally able to accept the responsibility?
8. Does the person have time to raise my children? Are they a dual working family, or does one parent stay home? Would they need to place my child in day care? If so, am I comfortable with my child being placed in day care?
9. What are the candidate’s views on education? Do I want my child to be homeschooled or privately educated?
10. Is the candidate financially secure? Although you don’t want money to be the ultimate determining factor in who raises your children, it’s always prudent to pick a candidate who’s financially secure to provide stability for your children.

Once you decide, you should discuss your decision with that person to see if they’re willing to accept the responsibility, and make sure to give them some time to think about it. Many parents are worried about giving the designated person the assigned powers right away. To avoid this, parents can leave the signed documents with their lawyer with instructions on when to turn it over. If you choose to do this, then make sure you tell the guardian whom to contact. Also, one other option you have is to make the power of attorney effective as of a certain date or event, rather than making it effective once you sign the document.

Even if you’re confused, it’s important to name a guardian now -- you can always change the designation later. That’s a better idea than postponing the decision completely, because you never know what could happen!

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