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Q&A: Healing after birth?

I gave birth four days ago and I’m still so sore down there. Is there any way I can make it heal faster, or at least deal with the discomfort?

Re: I gave birth four days ago and I’m still so sore down there. Is there any way I can make it heal faster, or at least deal with the discomfort?

The Bump Expert

We feel your pain. The days after delivery can be pretty tough, especially if you had an episiotomy or tear. To speed up healing, keep your perineum (the tissue between the vagina and rectum) clean and dry. Change sanitary pads every four to six hours, or whenever you go to the bathroom. Always move from front to back when removing pads or wiping, and wash your hands before and after. These steps prevent bacteria in your stool (yick!) from entering your vagina. If it hurts to pee or wipe, use a squirt bottle of warm water to spray the area while you go, and pat dry with gauze after.

Sitz baths (a few inches of warm water in the tub) are also helpful. Try to take one after every bowel movement. Cold water can also be soothing in the first few days -- try gradually adding ice cubes as you sit in the tub. And, don’t forget your Kegel exercises -- they’ll help tighten your muscles, improve circulation and ultimately, reduce the pain. And, donut pillows, sexy as they are, can also help your hurting hiney.

Paula Kashtan | May 07 , 2009 3:59 PM

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There is something made by the motherlove company which is a sitz bath (just herbs, etc) and I put it in a peri bottle (squirty bottle) to use after going to the bathroom. This was recommended to me by my midwives and really helped a lot!

robin_pauline | June 30 , 2007 12:44 PM

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Anybody know how long do u need to keep using the peri-bottle of warm water?

celticbride03 | December 26 , 2007 5:16 PM

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I was told to use the peri-bottle until the bleeding and discharge stops

a.l.adkins | December 17 , 2008 9:17 AM

Q&A: Healing after birth?

situ bath can help.[warm water situ bath]

chiomag | July 23 , 2009 10:37 PM

Q&A: Healing after birth?

Tucks pads worked well! I had 3rd degree tears and was so swollen nurses would bring other nurses in just to see it. They made the swelling go down and took away a lot of the pain.

JLSimon1 | August 07 , 2009 11:07 PM

Q&A: Healing after birth?

I agree with the Tucks pads and also Dermoplast spray also worked wonders for me with the pain from tearing .. and it really hurt at first to get in and out of the tub but it made a huge difference just sitting in there for a few min a couple times a day

Jeberg | August 19 , 2009 9:26 AM

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Keep taking your Tylenol or Advil every 4-6 hrs. Sitting on pillows or donuts helps lots. My doc has me use Betadine (Povodone-Iodine) in my sitz baths and in a little bottle to make sure that my incision stays bacteria-free and avoids infection, which would only prolong the healing period and max out the pain factor.

BarefootNPregnant | August 24 , 2009 9:41 AM

Q&A: Healing after birth?

I have second degree tears and am mildly swollen still. My doctor had me use the tucks pads with some dibucaine (cheap and over the counter) and that was the best relief for me. I tried a few other things and that was the best. I would put 2-3 tucks on top of my pad and then a strip of dibucaine down the center of the tucks and then apply carefully. Good luck to anyone experiencing this.

Firestar413 | September 16 , 2009 11:49 AM

Q&A: Healing after birth?

Soak a maxi pad in witch hazel, freeze it and use it as an ice pack. very nice.

1968moongirl | September 17 , 2009 4:26 PM

Q&A: Healing after birth?

Ice packs and lots of rinsing.My doctor said frequent rinsing will help things heal much faster. My husband installed a BumGenius sprayer for me, which has been incredibly helpful. http://shop.bonbonbabeez.com/product.sc?productId=87&categoryId=-1 As personal a product as it may be, I think it'll be my most gifted item to pregnant friends from here on out.

PixelMommy | September 25 , 2009 10:17 AM

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My nurse told me to avoid a donut and just use a pillow, because with a donut your pinopinting the pressure into a small whole, making it worse! I used, tucks, dermoplast a hydracortizone foam.

MGauthier | October 14 , 2009 7:49 AM

Q&A: Healing after birth?

Were 3 wks & 4 days and im finally feeling like the old me. the discomfort will go away soon,

titizoe | October 16 , 2009 9:46 AM

Q&A: Healing after birth?

I am going to re-think this whole childbirth thing.

Longhornchick | November 12 , 2009 8:17 PM

Q&A: Healing after birth?

With you it's better because it was a natural birth. I gave birth through a ceasarian section. It took me almost a month before i got healed. I had to go back to the hospital and i was told to use a salt combined with a black vinegar. after 5 days i was fine outside, still suffering from inside though due to weather conditions and mind you my baby is now 5 months old. My advice to you is get into a warm bath of water combined with groff salt only (no vinegar)because you gave birth normally and believe it or not you'll be fine within 3-4 days.

dudu | November 13 , 2009 1:12 AM

Q&A: Healing after birth?

I had a forth degree tear- the absolute worse you can have (tore through my rectum TMI-sorry). My nurses made me an icepack that I wore over my pad when I was in the hospital and that helped a lot. When I got home tuck pads and a detachable shower head were my life savers! I was so sore for about two weeks, but healed OK. My Dr recommended reconstructive surgery after my husband and I are done having children- I’m expecting my second in January and am already worrying about what deliver will be like.

charityo | November 13 , 2009 8:33 AM

Q&A: Healing after birth?

Answers on this very good question and a lot of other tips on how to take care of your own body right after delivery are in the practical manual. The First 8 Days of Being a Mom. www.thefirst8days.com Everyone looks at the baby and forgets about YOU. Please do it yourself and let your hubby read what's going on too. So you get a lot more understanding of what it is and how it feels like to be a new mom.

Gea | November 16 , 2009 11:43 PM

Q&A: Healing after birth?

Try avoiding sitting as much as possible. Breast feed laying down to start and then as you begin to feel better start sitting. Claim the couch as yours for at least the first week and lay down as much as possible when not standing,etc. Also my Dotor prescribed a numbing antibacterial spray and that really helped!

Lroachsf | December 04 , 2009 2:43 PM

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I loved the Dermoplast.... It did wonders, but hang in there it will eventually ease up. I couldn't sit on a hard surface for about 3 weeks, so your not alone!

malmal816 | December 08 , 2009 5:22 PM

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i think the epsolm salt and sitz bath was what healed me! I had an epiosotomy and didn't start feeling better until 10 days post partum. The solarcaine spray didn't really help. Only time healed me!

snowflakami76 | December 11 , 2009 12:20 PM

Q&A: Healing after birth?

About a week after delivery I was really sore too! Here is what worked for me. I used an 8oz squirt bottle (with warm water) and flushed the area. Then I blotted pre-moistened witch hazel pads over the stiches. Then I sprayed the area with dermoplast and finaly I applied Dibucaine Ointment 1% (hemorrhoidal & topical analegesic ointment) over the stiches. This was all supplied to me by the hospital and I healed quickly.

chantalboulet1 | December 31 , 2009 9:13 AM

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ARNICA!!!!!

rgbc | January 02 , 2010 5:35 PM

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i agree tucks pads works wonders! they also gave me some peri spray that helps heal!

lani.bersamin | January 04 , 2010 2:12 PM

Q&A: Healing after birth?

Ice packs really helped me .. applied for about 10 min every couple hours and rest .

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babylove1212 | January 06 , 2010 2:44 AM

Q&A: Healing after birth?

The tucks pads, peri bottle and daily warm baths helped alot. I had a small tear and was quite sore the first week at home, but with the above and trying to rest and not move around so much helped me heal and now 12 days PP I am feeling better. Also my doc sent me home with a week supply of some pain pills that took the edge off the pain., but ibprofen works just as well....Just rest and take care of yourself.

HansenMama2010 | February 06 , 2010 12:11 PM