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Q&A: Scheduling baby's naptimes?

Should my baby nap on a schedule, or just whenever he seems tired?

Re: Should my baby nap on a schedule, or just whenever he seems tired?

The Bump Expert

The answer to this question depends on the age of baby.

Before four months of age, baby needs an extraordinary amount of sleep. Some babies can only stay awake for an hour at a time. However, if you are a"schedule person," you can start to keep a sleep log of when baby is sleeping and awake. After a week or so, look back on the logs to see if he has some consistent sleep patterns that you can try to encourage from day to day.

Once baby reaches four months, he is neurologically capable of differentiating between his nights and days. At this point he can benefit from a more predictable, established sleep schedule. Plus, by this age babies are exercising their little bodies more and need several naps to help them get through their active days.

We personally feel having a napping schedule is beneficial because it takes the guess work out of parenting. You don't have to worry that baby is getting too much sleep during the day or that you'll be escorting a cranky, overtired child to a playdate. Parents who initially dislike schedules tell us that once they give them a try, they actually find set times liberating. Even fly-by-the-seat-of-their-pants parents quickly realize the value of guaranteed down time each day to eat lunch, catch up on e-mail or take a much needed shower.

Conner Herman and Kira Ryan | May 11 , 2009 2:12 PM

re: Q: Naptime Schedule?

Thank you for this! I was just wondering about naptime routines today. A friend told me not to worry about it (DD is 7 weeks)... I just have to go with her needs.

Mango2 | June 21 , 2007 8:01 PM

re: Q: Naptime Schedule?

this was wonderful because my DD is 3 months and she is starting to fight naps and then by the end of the day she is so tired, it takes a lot of consoling to calm her down.

CA2NC2VA | June 22 , 2007 12:06 PM

Q&A: Scheduling baby's naptimes?

My 15 week old seems to have somewhat of a schedule but it's not the most 'convenient' (I know, babies aren't supposed to be convenient lol). After he eats, he's awake for 2-3 hours (your baby can read video time and then lots of playtime), then gets sleepy (very cranky) for a nap. He naps for 1 hour then we start all over again. So several naps a day. Is there a way to get him into the pattern of just a late morning nap and late afternoon nap (2-3 hours)? I've heard alot of moms have this type of schedule. Is it too early to try this, or am I expecting too much and just need to go with the flow of his seemingly natural body clock?

JenneMomma | August 24 , 2009 5:01 AM

Q&A: Scheduling baby's naptimes?

How are those baby can read programs? i was thinking about getting one but want to know if theyre worth it. As far as napping goes, my 20 week old usually has a nap in the late morning and mid afternoon for as little as 30 minutes to more than a few hours. i just try not to get her asleep too late so that she'll go to bed at night when she needs to.

Sheerie | September 12 , 2009 9:55 PM

Q&A: Scheduling baby's naptimes?

This is my third child. I truly believe in having a set schedule for everything! Not only does it make your own life easier by making the day more predictable, but baby benefits too when she knows 'what comes next". It seems to make everyone happier at the end of the day! My kids have always taken a three hour nap every day up til about age two. My youngest daughter is 15 weeks and takes a morning nap, eats, plays for about 1 1/2 to 2 hrs then a three hour nap. This give me the time that I need to do what I need to do. By the time this nap is over, dinner time and evening is near. She plays for a few more hours. Bath time is at 7 and she knows when bath time is over, we settle down to nurse at 7:30 and by 8:30 she is sleeping in her crib. If she doesn't nap during the day, it makes for a very troublesome bedtime!!

CarlaShirey | October 29 , 2009 8:54 AM

Q&A: Scheduling baby's naptimes?

My b/g twins are now 14 weeks old, we were very blessed with good sleepers!! They are my first (and second) and I just followed their lead. They still eat about every 3-4 hours and nap for 30 min to an hour each time. And then a nice long nap in the afternoon, which usually lasts 2-3 hours. But like I said, I followed their lead. Good luck!

jbergstrom | November 20 , 2009 11:48 AM

Q&A: Scheduling baby's naptimes?

I do what the one with the twins does. I let my 15 week old tell me when he is tired. His actions are pretty easy to read and he kind of fell into his own little routine. I think that has been much easier then fighting him and trying to get him to sleep when he may not be tired. Have you ever tried to go to sleep when you are not tired? We do do a bedtime routine that we started early on so he could learn the difference between night and day but it was based on his natural rhythm. We would turn down all the lights around 9 o'clock and turn the sound on the tv down. Quiet ourselves as well. Give him his "last" bottle let him fall asleep, put him in his crib and then we would go to bed, which is usually around 10. He started sleeping through the night consistently at about 3 months old. Now he goes to bed between 9 and 10 and doesn't wake up until around 7 am. Sometimes I have to wake him up to get him ready for daycare. We didn't force him to do anything. We just learned what his body wanted to do naturally and used it to our advantage.

ash138 | December 16 , 2009 5:58 PM

Q&A: Scheduling baby's naptimes?

We have a 20 week old and have been going on his schedule since he was born. Like some of the others he fell into a sleep routine pretty easly and has been sleeping through the night for some time now, with the occasional restlessness. My question is about putting him in his crib for naps. Since he falls asleep when ever he is tired, which is ususally three naps a day, mid-morning, noon time and earily evening, we have been letting him him sleep where ever he is. Should we be putting him in his crib? And when should we be expecting the three naps to go to two?

ZEPF | December 28 , 2009 9:36 AM

Q&A: Scheduling baby's naptimes?

My 13 week old has started getting into his own schedule. For a while there he was pretty random but now we can expect him to take a short morning nap, possibly another short afternoon nap, and a long late afternoon nap. Sometimes he'll wake up in the middle of his nap (usually gas) but then go right back to sleep. This is my first child.... I kept on telling myself in the beginning that I needed to get him on a schedule. I laugh about that now. IMO, you have to let the baby get you on the schedule, you can't force him to sleep, like another mother mentioned.

kdw_putri | January 10 , 2010 10:58 AM