Re: I’ve been nursing for a month, and it hurts. Is this normal?
No, it’s not normal to have sore nipples. Mothers get sore nipples when the baby is not latching on properly. Many mothers are told that it is normal to have sore nipples for three weeks and that the pain then gets better, but that’s not always true (though it is sometimes). On the other hand, mothers are often told that pain means a poor latch. This is usually true, but then mothers are told that if it hurts they should take the baby off the breast and put him on again, and if it still hurts, they should repeat this. Again and again and again. This is not a good idea. Why? If the mother takes the baby off and on the breast five times and it hurts each time: that’s five times more pain, five times more damage to the nipples, the mother is frustrated, and so is the baby.You should get good hands-on help. Good "hands-on help" means someone who will help you with a good latch, not who suggests a nipple shield. See also how we suggest latching on a baby (video clips of 28-hour-old baby) and the information sheets at the website www.nbci.ca