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5 Must-Know Tips for That First Week Home

1. Baby wipes
Most docs recommend avoiding premoistened diaper wipes for the first month of baby's life since some of their chemicals can irritate a newborn's tender skin. Instead, use cotton balls dipped in warm water. When baby’s ready for regular wipes, choose ones that are alcohol-free and unscented to prevent irritation.

2. Bath time
Until baby’s umbilical cord is off and healed, baby can only take sponge baths. Start by soaking your baby a little. Make sure to always keep one hand on baby, and remember that infants are especially slippery when wet. Start with his face–one area at a time since covering the whole face with a washcloth can be scary -- and work your way down. Make sure to thoroughly wash inside all the folds (under the arms, in the neck, the genital area, etc.) and save baby’s dirtiest parts -- aka the diaper area -- for last. Then, move back up and wash baby’s hair. And note: There’s no need to bathe more than every few days.

3. Newborn skin
At birth, baby's skin will probably appear to be dry. How come? It’s in the process of peeling off an entire waterproof layer of sorts. But in general, a baby's skin doesn’t need much specialized care -- just lots of TLC. A mild cleanser is safe, though many people recommend just plain water. Your baby's face takes a lot of abuse (just think of all that spitting!), so do your best to keep it clean. But if baby's skin seems excessively dry, irritated or itchy, or if you notice a rash or breakout, consult your pediatrician ASAP.

4. The umbilical cord get sucked into registering for cute toys or outfits Umbilical cord care has changed dramatically over the last 20 years; now, many hospitals recommend doing nothing but keeping the cord dry (read: sponge baths only). But some pediatricians still recommend using alcohol on the cord with each diaper change to speed up the healing process. That way you’ll be able to give your baby real baths, as opposed to sponge baths, sooner. So find out what your doctor recommends.

5. Fingernails and toenails
The safest way to keep a newborn’s nails short is to just file them and not cut them at all. Since the skin of the fingers is usually attached to the back of the nail, cutting the nails often results in nipping the fingertip too (ouch!). Even though the bleeding is minor and can be stopped quickly with a little pressure, it's very upsetting to the parent -- and always seems like a lot more blood than it really is! Once baby is a little older (18 months), you can cut their nails while they’re asleep.

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Q&A: Weaning strategies?

I need help weaning my 6-month-old. How do you refuse when they're fighting you? I am trying to stop the day feedings and just nurse at night, but she won't take a bottle from me.

Re: I need help weaning my 6-month-old. How do you refuse when they're fighting you? I am trying to stop the day feedings and just nurse at night, but she won't take a bottle from me.

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For both you and baby, a gradual wean (and lots of patience!) is key.Though it may sound tough right now, you're saving yourself a major future headache -- studies show babies are easiest to wean before age one. Start by substituting your baby's favorite nursing time with a bottle. If she gets fussy, let your partner take over the feeding. In the coming weeks, alternate between breast and bottle feedings, gradually decreasing the frequency of nursings. Also try decreasing the length of breastfeeding sessions, and pushing back the time of nursing by distracting baby with playtime or an outing.

Remember, breastfeeding isn't all or nothing. You can continue to nurse at night even after baby takes a bottle during the day. Baby will feel very vulnerable throughout the weaning process, so try to give her lots of affection and attention. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends babies receive breast milk for at least the first year, so if you can't pump, make sure your baby gets adequate nutrients from formula.

Paula Kashtan | May 14 , 2009 11:13 AM

re: Q: Weaning strategies?

Since the AAP recommends breastmilk for the first year she could check into purchasing donor breastmilk. I did this with my oldest baby because I struggled with my milk supply. Do a google search on milk bank and ask your pediatrician about writing a letter of medical necessity; our insurance paid a big chunck of the cost of donor breastmilk and it's soo much better than formula. Good Luck

bryans4 | October 14 , 2008 12:07 PM

Q&A: Weaning strategies?

I am currently nursing 7 month-old twins. I haven't begun weaning them yet, but we did start adding solid foods to their diet around 6 months. I nurse them immediately after their "food" meal (currently they have breakfast and supper), and this seems to have naturally cut down on the amount of breast milk needed. Also, in the last 2 weeks we've been trying to drink from a tiny glass with their meals (my attempt to have them learn to drink from a glass rather than learning to be dependent on a sippy cup all of the time). Perhaps a glass would help avoid the bottle issue? I've tried 3 times to get my twins to take a bottle, and was not overly successful (although it was only with the intention of being able to be baby-free for a few hours for a special occasion so I wasn't too concerned). Also, I never breastfeed as a way to put the babies to sleep. They eat(nurse) after they wake up from a nap, then do some activity, then I put them down for a sleep (the "Baby Whisperer" E.A.S.Y. method) and so they don't associate nursing with going to bed. Good luck finding something that works for you :)

kdhudon | November 18 , 2009 12:59 AM

Q&A: Weaning strategies?

I have found that the best way to breastfeed and bottlefeed is to use breast when you are together and give a bottle with either formula or breastmilk when you are away. I used this method with 2 of my daughters and it worked beautifully. With my first I did it as the book said and dropped feedings and my milk just did not let down after too many hours of not nursing and she was completely weaned too early.

toni1967 | February 13 , 2010 4:29 PM

Q&A: Weaning strategies?

My 7 month old used to take a bottle but now refuses! I have tried everything! Several different nipples, freshly expressed breast milk, formula, having my mother attempt while I wasn't home, and having my husband attempt while I wasn't home. He is being very stubborn and I don't know what to do! I know I can't nurse forever so I need help!

emilyrosser | February 27 , 2011 8:17 AM

Q&A: Weaning strategies?

This is a horrible article. The AAP recommends BM the first year but the WHO recommends the first 2 years. Nursing is a relationship not just nutrition and to push a child to wean because " it is easier before they are 1" seems very self serving. I would do additional individual research before you take this "professional's" advice.

ehair | March 25 , 2011 1:50 PM

Q&A: Weaning strategies?

I am absolutely gobsmacked that this article advocates weaning because it's EASIER TO DO before age one. What kind of babyhating psycho wrote this?? I have been subscribed to the quasi-helpful updates from the Bump but you guys lost me for good with this one. What a giant steaming load of worthless, harmful, unscientific RUBBISH!!!!!

tassiegirl01 | April 19 , 2011 6:13 PM

Q&A: Weaning strategies?

I can not stand how people feel it necessary to judge mothers. Right from pregnancy (youre still drinking caffeine?) to birth (youre getting an epidural??) to breastfeeding (you are selfish for not breastfeeding) to when to wean (youre going to wean BEFORE THEY ARE ONE???) If you have time to judge other mothers, why dont you go make more handmade babyfood...cause Im sure store babyfood must be poison, right?

elle5218 | August 07 , 2011 1:10 PM

Q&A: Weaning strategies?

To those who are against this article, please look at it again. It is not advocating to wean before the age of one because it is easier on the life of a mother, it is saying that if you ARE planning to wean, it is easier to do before the age of one rather than say, after the age of one. This is similar to when my pediatrician told me that it would be easier to start solids around 6 months than if I started around 8-9 months. It's about when baby is best able to learn. He wasn't saying that I HAD to start at 6 months, just that there are certain times that are easier for babies to do. Also, I doubt a baby is "pushed" to wean before they are ready without good reason. Usually it is because the mother has to go back to work and has no other choice to support her children, is working and the stress from working sometimes makes the supply go way down (I'm talking from personal experience), or it is painful (again, talking from personal experience...if you have never had to deal with a yeast infection in the breasts or mastitis...feel very lucky because it makes nursing close to impossible), or any other very valid reason. To assume that a mother is weaning their child off of breastmilk for convenience is ridiculous. We never know what each situation entails, so be careful with your judgments. My guess is that each mom is just doing the best that they can and as long as their child is loved and cared for, it's none of my business how they get fed.

owensm23 | October 29 , 2011 11:12 AM

Q&A: Weaning strategies?

Considering this was on my Week 30 "To Do" list - yes, this article is advocating weaning early. And yes, 7 months is EARLY. The AAP and WHO recommends breastfeeding until at LEAST one year of age. The easiest thing to do is baby-lead weaning - baby will tell you when s/he is ready to quit nursing. If you start your kid on solids, your child will want the breast less and less. And yeah, if you want to wean your child sooner because it is inconvenient, that is selfish. Is it bad to be selfish though? Nah, not really. As for this: If you have time to judge other mothers, why dont you go make more handmade babyfood...cause Im sure store babyfood must be poison, right? Babyfood in stores is a waste of money because it's mostly water, which is why, when I start my baby on "solids," we will be making purees for her. Actually, I'll be starting her on foods that are easily mashed, such as avocado, banana, yogurt, and liver. There's really not a need for babyfood - that whole segment can be skipped. Babies need nothing more than breastmilk for the first 12 months of life. Which is why, if you're weaning at 30 weeks, you need to make sure to supplement her solids with expressed breastmilk and/or formula. I commend women that breastfeed, but please talk to a lactation consultant about weaning. Pediatricians and doctors are not certified breastfeeding consultants.

SStephan2747 | November 11 , 2011 10:54 AM

Q&A: Weaning strategies?

I agree we all have options & you should choose what works best for you but personally I'm in disbelief that this article that people read as a type of professional advice says to wean early because it's convenient- whole the truth behind that is unknown, BE ASHAMED for leading mothers on with irrelevant advice! Also I'm appalled that this was on my to do list!!!! Like I said sure it's an option but it's listed as if something terrible will happen if you don't start weaning!

megill | January 19 , 2012 1:41 PM