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Q&A: Tricks for getting pregnant?

My husband and I plan to try to get pregnant at the end of the summer. Are there any tricks to the trade that we should know? Are there any positions that increase your chances?

Re: My husband and I plan to try to get pregnant at the end of the summer. Are there any tricks to the trade that we should know? Are there any positions that increase your chances?

The Bump Expert

There are lots of things you can do to improve your chances of getting pregnant. First, I'd like you to consider your overall health by eating a nutritious diet full of leafy green vegetables and fresh fruit. You should certainly not be smoking or drinking (or at least drinking very little in the run-up to getting pregnant). Try to get proper sleep and de-stress your life wherever you can. Also, ask your health care provider about taking a folic acid supplement. Your husband should also take measures to be in good physical health as well as not letting his testicles get overheated in tight pants, exercise shorts, etc.

Since you don't mention any problems with fertility, I'd avoid getting over-concerned about taking your temperature, or using an ovulation-predictor kit when you're first trying. Instead, make love as frequently as you want, aiming for the center of your monthly cycle. Once your husband ejaculates you should roll onto your back (if you're not already in that position), tip your pelvis into the air, and lift your legs -- gravity will literally help his semen on their way. Think of the "bicycle" position where people cycle their legs in the air. Also ensure you have an orgasm so that the rhythmic contractions help the semen move up towards your cervix. Good luck!

Dr. Pam Spurr | May 05 , 2009 12:29 PM

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If women could "ensure" that they orgasm don't you think they would every time?

on_the_move | June 22 , 2007 7:39 PM

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you can help ya know ;)

AmandaHearn | June 27 , 2007 12:23 PM

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How do you ENSURE that you have an orgasm? Some women aren't biologically capable of attaining one.

mrs.wellman | June 27 , 2007 1:55 PM

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Use a "personal massager." Your daddy-hopeful can help. It's for the kids! And an orgasm for Mom really does help.

Welsh Bride | July 12 , 2007 1:54 PM

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So-that whole tipping your pelvis in the air thing to "help the semen on it's way" is so totally an old wives tale. I work for an OB/GYN and while the orgasm does help, the tipping the pelvis in the air doesn't really do anything...

mcrussell | July 13 , 2007 10:24 AM

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This whole article tickles me. When my son was concieved, I was on top, did not roll over on my back at all, and I did not have an orgasm.

jessicawalker8 | July 26 , 2007 8:26 AM

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LOL. You can totally make it happen...sounds like someone needs to spend a little more time with "herself." LOL Give yourself a "hand!" LOL

KGsky | July 30 , 2007 12:31 PM

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I have the same question as the poster. I stopped taking BC's in June and tried in July, no success. So I guess my husband and I will try again this month. We followed the advice axactly above and no success, we'll see I suppose, :)

'Chele | July 31 , 2007 11:31 AM

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I have been off the pill for a year and we have been trying for 3 months, think there is something wrong?

littlelovin2001 | August 12 , 2007 1:48 PM

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If I don't tip my pelvis, all of his "manjuice" LOL comes out. Any other suggestions mcrussell of keeping the boys in?

pmwarren | August 14 , 2007 9:35 AM

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You have to try Instead cups! They're meant for your period, which is how I practiced putting them in, but they have a TTC use. You put one in immediately after sex and then hang out in bed for about 30 min on the days right before and of ovulation. This keeps the semen near your cervix so more of the sperm actually make it towards the egg. It worked for us!

miepshell | August 16 , 2007 10:34 PM

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That's so funny! I love getting off, but I have no idea how to "ensure" that it happens from sex everytime. I wish I could make it happen every time! That's just crazy.

Monica106 | August 18 , 2007 8:07 PM

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do you like oral sex? for me, that's a sure way of having an orgasm. if i need a litte more help on a certain day, DH gives me oral and I'm on my way! also, we love to use strawberry-flavored lubricant and a little vibrating wand. you gotta do whatever it takes!

NewMrs07 | September 04 , 2007 8:57 PM

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oral sex can kill the semen, and lubricant (other than pre-seed) is not good for TTC either!

jessiecow | July 20 , 2008 12:43 AM

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The comment below says oral sex kills the semen... Is that true? We have been off BC for well over a year! And still aren't pregnant!

LPruitt | August 17 , 2008 9:33 PM

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I read somewhere that the saliva could kill the sperm, I think its something like the acidicness of it

nicshaw | October 07 , 2008 10:42 PM

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yes...i also read in alot of forums that saliva will kill the sperms.

ladi33bug | December 17 , 2008 5:25 PM

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I do the pillow thing after sex and the riding the bicycle thing.. so far none of it has helped. Even when I lay there 30+ min, I get up and it all comes out. I can't lay there all day long.

KellB916 | December 17 , 2008 5:37 PM

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It does help when you know when your cervix is opened slightly to allow sperm to enter. You can have sex on a daily, allowing ejaculate to enter, but if you're not in the stage of your body allowing you to get pregnant, the sperm will just "fall out". Your cervix is closed and covered to protect your insides, check your ovulation, etc., make sure you're "open" for conception!

wifeyepperson | December 18 , 2008 9:37 AM

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Has anybody used the microscope thing that tests your saliva? Does it actually work or is an OPK better money spent?

lvtaylr | January 06 , 2009 1:04 PM

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I bought the fertile-focus microscope 2 months ago. The first month i had text-book ferning. The second month nothing. I know i ovulated both months because i was also using ovulation predictor urine tests and i chart bbt, cervical mucus, and position (i'm a walking science project, i know). I still like the microscope because its reusable. Who knows why it didn't work last month! I bought the OP urine tests from Amazon.com, super cheap, $24 for 50 and they work great!

hgamboa | January 29 , 2009 2:47 PM

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I tried the pillow under my butt legs in the air thing for MONTHS. One night, DF wakes me up at like 2 in the morning. We do the deed, I roll over on my side and pass out. Viola - baby boy just turned two. :o)

aegrimm | April 14 , 2009 1:22 PM

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I have problems with my menstrul cycle where I really don't get it(I'm 20yrs. old) the last time I got it was almost a year ago. We have been trying lately and have no success, is that a reason why?

kevinwifey06 | June 10 , 2009 6:20 AM

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kevinwifey - have you checked with your doctor? If you aren't getting your period, you may not be ovulating at all so that would def not make things easy!!

mrskovacs | June 16 , 2009 12:46 PM

Q&A: Tricks for getting pregnant?

We have been trying for almost a year and i am getting concerned about the same thing. I bet if I was 16 and sneaking around that I would have been pregnant months ago:-) Whatever the case does anyone know what the leutal is? All of this preparing stuff is stressful.

Kevin & DeShonjla | July 22 , 2009 10:38 AM

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When I got Prego with my little boy all the man stuff always fell out. IDK why, but it did and i still got pregnant, never did any of the stuuff mentioned here, but were thinking about having another one so maybe i will try some of this stuff if we decide to try for #2 good luck girls!!!!!!

JBrandy19 | September 29 , 2009 10:30 PM

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many things i have read say that the stuff that falls out is just dead semen....the semen that are alive and can get you pregnant start swimmin right away. semen can also last in your system for 3-4 days, but the semen that are on their way get past the cervix in 10-15 minutes, and after that they dont need your help :)

Morganw22 | October 18 , 2009 5:56 PM

Q&A: Tricks for getting pregnant?

Well a drunk weekend at Countryfest sure did the trick for us!!!! Wild sex in a tent is where it's at!!!! LOL

cailiejan | November 04 , 2009 12:40 AM

Q&A: Tricks for getting pregnant?

Over the counter Mucinex can help! Although it's purpose is actually to loosen up secretions in the lungs, it also helps produce "secretions" in other areas, allowing for greater sperm mobility. When I was getting ready to ovulate, I would take it a couple hours before my husband and I would have sex. ***Be sure to get regular Mucinex, NOT Mucinex DM, which will actually DRY UP secretions.*** I also used the Clear Blue Easy Fertility Monitor-I swear by it because the regular "pee on a stick" ovulation tests never worked for me. The monitor shows you high fertility for several days before ovulation (when estrogen levels start to rise) and also shows peak fertility (lh surge, when you're likely to ovulate that day or the day after). We only actively tried for 2 months and I got prego using both the monitor and mucinex. Baby's due in August!

ispike7 | January 05 , 2010 2:07 PM

Q&A: Tricks for getting pregnant?

i had a friend tell me about the mucinex too but i didn't believe her..... had 2 paps and both have came back abnormal so i'm super stressed about that...if the doc says me and DH are a go for ttc again i'm definately going to try it

bmcclin | January 18 , 2010 8:17 PM

Q&A: Tricks for getting pregnant?

Yes, my doctor recomended the mucinex to me also.

mistyhookie | February 17 , 2010 11:42 PM

Q&A: Tricks for getting pregnant?

after having sex elevate your legs so the sperm doesn't run out, but you give it some extra help to get to the egg. I have 5 children and 1 on the way.

mistysharma | March 04 , 2010 2:00 PM

Q&A: Tricks for getting pregnant?

Elevating your legs after sex only leads to a UTI (urinary tract infection). Any sperm that come out after sex are not strong enough to make it to the egg. The ones that can are already past your cervix by the time the rest comes out of you.

Eris-Alexis | March 04 , 2010 6:53 PM

Q&A: Tricks for getting pregnant?

Our trick was to stay with eachother after making love. We just layed there and he did not take out ladies you know what I mean and it worked the first time we made love.

Lovethischild | March 07 , 2010 10:08 PM

Q&A: Tricks for getting pregnant?

One thing I nee to note is that VERY few women are biologically unable to orgasm. Most women cannot reach the big O without clitoral stimulation but many women have not been cleaning their clitoris correctly. Ever given oral sex to a man who didn't clean around his head? The same thing can happen under the woman's head and the skin can adhere to itself causing anorgasmia. If you cannot orgasm (and especially if you have never!!) PLEASE go to a reputable sex therapist in your area!!!

mston31 | March 08 , 2010 3:05 AM

Q&A: Tricks for getting pregnant?

lol after reading these posts and about to begin our first month ttc,I've decided we will just have sex every other day throughout the whole month. that way if my ovulation cycle is a little later that won't be a factor...something tells me dh is going to LOVE this idea!!

sandylou | March 09 , 2010 12:46 PM