log in | register Track your baby's growth

Your Avatar

Sign up to get FREE personalized newsletters about your baby each week.

Enter your due date or baby’s birth date:

Find baby registries & websites

Find a couple's baby registry. Enter parents' name here.

Create your own baby registry here.

Piggy Bank

$13.95 each

$6.99 each

Buy Now

Mary Jane Socks

$29.5 set

$24.99 set

Buy Now

Initial Bodysuit

$22.95 each

Buy Now

Getting Pregnant Checklist

With doctors, finances and everything else, there's so much to think about! Here's what you need to do when TTC to prepare for pregnancy and a baby.

Photo: shutterstock

Getting pregnant
[  ] Kick the pill (or any type of birth control)
[  ] Figure out when you’re ovulating
[  ] Learn to record cervicalmucus texture
[  ] Read up on conception and ovulation basics
[  ] Potential daddies -- stayout of Jacuzzis
[  ] Consider charting basal body temperature
[  ] Potential daddies -- trade in the briefs for boxers
[  ] Think about an ovulation predictor kit
[  ] Have sex!
[  ] Lose the lube
[  ] Find the right position
[  ] Spice it up in the bedroom

Diet & fitness
[  ] Work on getting any weight problems under control
[  ] If either of you smoke,quit
[  ] Get on prenatal vitamins
[  ] Balance out your diet
[  ] Get moving
[  ] Start weaning yourself off alcohol
[  ] Begin limiting the lattes
[  ] Scale back on extreme exercise
[  ] Decrease your stress
[  ] Get plenty of sleep
[  ] Potential daddies -- avoid cottonseed oils

Doctors, tests & checkups
[  ] Interview OB/GYNS
[  ] Schedule a preconception checkup
[  ] Make a list of preconception checkup questions
[  ] Discuss your (and your partner’s) medical history with the doc
[  ] Get immunized
[  ] Visit the dentist
[  ] Talk to your doc about genetic testing

Money & Home
[  ] Talk it out -- make sure you and your partner are on the same baby-making page
[  ] Check your home for harsh chemicals and asbestos
[  ] Check out your health insurance
[  ] If you’re self-employed,apply for private disability
[  ] Plan a baby budget

> Entire prenatal to-do checklist

See More: Fertility and Ovulation

Have something to say? Share your opinion and advice.
Want to participate? Log in to share your thoughts.

I want that my baby born near July 31, 2008, when is the right date to try to get pregnant.?

by lefvia

What is cottonseed oil? Where is it normally found? And why do they have to avoid it?

by H.E.A.100707

Why do women have to limit the lattes? Is it because of the caffeine or is there something else in them?

by Darinsgirl0818

what is the deal with lose the lube? is there something there that I need to know before I go try again?

by meganekstrom@gmail.com

Ditto on the lube question - obviously the spermicidals are out the window, but what is the deal with the others?

by Dorr_Evil_Twin

Thank you for this checklist! Its really helpful.

by EcoBaby

I have tried doing the Basal Body tempurature every morning, but the tempurature fluctuates so much. Today it was 98.2, and yesterday it was 96.2 and the day before that 98. Is there a chance that the 96.2 was not acurrate and I am ovulating? HELP!! Is there a website were I can type in my calculations and it helps me keep up with it all? OH by the way I havent had my period in a month but the test say I'm not pregnant!

by Little Mrs. Hayden

alright!!! I have the list!! all I have to do now is start working on it.. I have a few questions though!! There is a part that says "Get Moving" What does it mean? If Any one can answer.....thank you!!

by Itzel

Pretty sure "Get Moving" just means to exercise if you don't already, and nothing strenuous, just get off the couch and start moving around and it'll do great things for your body...and your baby!

by NewlywedNVA

Has anyone had success on the first month of trying?

by tania622

Some answers for people:Yes, cutting down on lattes is referring to the caffeine, and for those who don't know, lubes can actually hinder your ability to get pregnant, unless you are using a lube like pre-seed (which supposedly does the opposite). Pre-seed claims to act like your fertile cervical mucus would. When you are most fertile, your cervical mucus becomes stretchy like raw egg white and it gives sperm the best chance of making it to the egg.If you want a July baby, you would obviously need to conceive nine months (approximately) prior to that, BUT it's hard to just plan on that. A number of things could happen. You could not get pregnant during that month, your baby could come earlier or later than your due date, etc. You can try, but it's just too hard to plan those things and get them exact - just so you aren't too upset if it doesn't happen. Best of luck to you though! October is nine months before July, FYI...Get moving means exercise.I have been trying for about three months now, so no luck conceiving on the first month. Sorry! I do learn something new each month though, so hopefully that will help me do better next time. :) Good luck to you all!

by *abbyh*

After stopping the nuva ring, my doctor advised us to use condoms and wait at least 2 months before TTC, in order to let my uterine wall thicken. However, everyone on this site seems to start trying right after going off of the pill or ring. Do we really have to wait, or is it safe to start trying?

by Legally Nads

My husband and I have been trying since Jan. No luck yet but I pretty much have done everything on the check list. Hope it will happen soon!Good Luck to you all!

by crystalmarcellin

I want to have an April baby. When should we be TTC?

by Hdreamer97

It takes a healthy couple anywhere from 6 months to a year to get KU, so patience is key. If you are trying and no luck after a year, talk to your doctor. I urge anyone TTC to start charting, but to do that you must wake up at the same time everyday and get at least three hours of consecutive sleep. Charting will help you know when and if you are ovulating (yes, you can have a period without ovulating) and when or if your period is late. To start charting go to www.fertilityfriend.com, its free and easy.I also urge anyone TTC to pick up Taking Charge of Your Fertility. It will answer many questions you have and keep you from getting flamed on GP.

by wlknsnlrn

where can i apply for private disability? I'm a nanny in a private home and don't have short term disability to partially cover a maternity leave.

by HBaylies

My last pill of Yasmin was 5.1.09 & my last period began on 5.5.09. Today is 6.5.09 & I expected my period on 06.02.09 & it has yet to arrive. I've been testing negative with HPT's. We had sex everyday around the time I should have ovulated. This is our first month ttc. I have cramping, but no AF. Is this just my body still getting used to being off the pill or could I be pregnant?

by AIMOSLEE

I'm new to the site and going off my BCP soon and I had no idea what I should be doing. This check list looks like a great place to start! Thanks!

by JennN888

HBaylies I am going to be in the same situation. Did you get any info?

by JennN888

We have been trying since Jan. I'm really surprised seeing the 1st 2 were unplanned and was for the most part on the pill (on it just not being very faithful to it). I do use and recommed www.fertilityfriend.com when you sign up it will send you video's of how to use it, you get the 1st 30 days free, you can then continue for free with the basic's or pay (they have different plans) for all the features. I use the latter it's color coded and I feel gives you a lot more info. As far as taking your temp you need a bbt thermometer, not the regular kind (about $10 at a drugstore and it will say BBT) also you have to take temp at same time daily, before getting up, talking and so on!

by kristymr

we've been off BC since the beginning of March, but no luck yet. this check list should help us be ready for when it does happen. my husband's having fun trying, though!

by locash

We just started charting it seems a little confusing but getting the hang of things. We have not hindering the process for about a year i thought maybe it would happen without us really trying but no such luck. :( Hubby starting to get frustrated with the whole thing any suggestions to making any of it easier.

by mstevenson

have ordered the BBT thermometer, and a fertile foucs ovulation micrpscope should be coming in a couple of days. I will let y'all know my thoughts on them when I get to using them! :) I hope and pray to have a little one soon. Good luck to all you beautiful ladies TTC, i will keep you in mmy thoughts!

by lovinglife8108

I have read the articles about getting off of birth control...however the articles that I have read did not say anything about the patch. Is there any difference between that and the others?

by dobug84@yahoo.com

I am trying to gett preganant but my parents stop us from doing it

by Peterson22

You should get pregnant before or after your period, cause that's the right time to conceive a baby!

by Tina Davis

abbyh- thank you so much! i was about to answer everyones ? , and then i saw that it had already been done! remember this is NOT rocket science, you will get pregnant when and if the lord wants u to!

by goodlilcowgirl08

My co-worker didn't do any pre-planning and was pleasantly surprised to find out she was pregnant when she was already through her 1st trimester. The baby was fine. Is this much research really req?

by dquinto

I have a beautiful girl and want a boy. Anyone know of any good things to tray and sway?

by Clarktr

you can use lube, just a specific type of lube like pre-seed or pre conception plus. I use pre conception plus. you can get it at CVS but there are other people that say you can also get it at walmart even though i've never seen it there.

by jessi8690

Dear Goosesgirlforlife, the reason why you shouldnt use lube while TTC is because lube creates a barrier and do not allow or assit the sperm to move into your vagina. I recently purchase Conceive Plus lube which is made especially for those TTC. It assist the sperms in mobility and create a comfort zone and PH level neccessary for getting pregnant. I read a lot of great reviews on this lube and its not too cheap eaither. Go to www.conceiveplus.com and you can purchase a tube for about $21 with S & H. Good luck and hope this helps.

by VR

Dear Clarktr: Not sure if this is true or not, but a Cuban lady told me that if you want a boy, your partner needs to eat only red meats for a whole month prior to TTC and for a girl all white meats and seafood like fish, etc... Not sure if its try of not but worth a try right :). Good luck!

by VR

If you are self employed you can get short term disability from AFLAC that will cover maternity leave. That is what I have and it's only $80 per month, well worth it! There is a waiting period though. Once you sign up and they give you the effective date of your policy, your baby cannot be born within the first 9 months after the effective date. Anytime after 9 months and 1 day is when you can have your baby...

by ryaroberts

Cottonseed oil is an unnatural plant oil (unnatural as in our granparents didn't eat it!) that's in many friend and baked foods. Just check the list of ingredients. My husband now automatically looks for it before he eats something processed. It's in a lot of stuff too---Chex mix, some chips, some cookies etc.

by MrsB0508

I have been trying for over a year now to conceive with no luck. I have been extremely depressed as a result. Every time I hear how someone in my life has got pregnant or gave birth, of course I am happy for them...but I am jealous too!!! I have spent endless days and nights crying in fear that I may be infertile and have discovered Infertility Centers do not accept insurance. Many people tell me that it is when you stop trying that you get pregnant, has anyone found this to be true?

by ShAwTaii

The lube is not a good environment for sperm to live....try preseed...it help the sperm live even longer in the birth canal

by RebekahG

If you want a baby born near July 31 you should start trying in October and going on into November. I have a 3yr. that was born on July 26th...she was a week and half early but I'd start no later than october....it might take you a while.

by allybgarcia

H.E.A: This is what I found online: Cottonseed is handily categorized by our government as a "manufacturing" crop rather than a "food" crop. It's just for making cotton, and nobody cares about pesticides in their BVD's, right? ;-) Therefore, it does not come under the limiting regulations for pesticides and crop management applying to food plants. So it gets the full gamut of dangers, free of charge, and nobody should ingest it. They can grow it on a sewage dump or right next to a chemical plant poisoning everything with PCB's, and that's fine. It's just for clothing and tampons and baby blankets and bandages, etc. -- and there's no law that says cotton HAS to be organic for any of these uses, so there! :-(

by jdzion2000

I just recently had my IUC taken out to ttc but so far it hasn't happened yet. I haven't had a period since i got pregnant over 3yrs due to of course the pregnancy and then immediately having the IUC put in so i don't have any idea of how to track my cycle to figure out when I'll be ovulating. Anyone been through this?

by allybgarcia

Ok, the deal with the lattes is the caffeine. You need to limit the amount. With the lube, most lubes are not sperm friendly and will keep the sperm from reaching the egg.

by msjoell52385

I just stopped the nuva ring and never got a period. I found really good information on the mayoclinic website. Apparently, this is not uncommon. After discontinuing the patch, ring, or oral bc method you ovulate 2 weeks later. I plan on using the fertility chart to help me figure out my new cycle! Your period should be about 4-6weeks after discontinuing your method. They did say it is unlikely to become pregnant this first month. Also, they said this timeline varies if you were not regular prior to birth control usage. Hope this helps some people!

by nurseJK

is the age 39 to old to get pregnant ???

by kweetybird

When TTC, is it safe to get facials once per month?

by LuvinLife29

I don't smoke but my husband does - does he have to quit????

by ecuanena

lefvia, you want to try depending on your cycle or ovulation date next month or early november that should get you to where you want to be.

by LaurieLyn77

i have been so sick this first trimester...what can i do to calm the morning sickness?

by heatherm07

Has anyone experienced naseua when starting prenatal vitamins? I am definitely not pregnant and these waves of naseua that last throughout the day do not seem to being going away.

by dahlia333

I think that I am having implantaion cramps but I have never had them before and don't know what they feel like. What should I be looking for....? I am really trying to get pregnant and I am hoping this is what it is, but I don't want to get excited for nothing....any advice? Thanks!!

by mrsflint

I'm trying to figure out when I'm ovulating. I have inrregular periods and have not seen my period for 10 weeks but OTC pregnancy tests are negative. I don't even know when to try. Any sugestions or advice?

by liznyny

I went off the pill in Jan of this year so we could see what happens. After 5months of not getting pregnant I started to get paranoid, so I looked up the Ovulation chart. Even after having sex while I was ovulating nothing happened. I was starting to think something was wrong with me when I came to this site and looked up Fertility checklist, and noticed it said to "lose the lube". So last month my husband and I "lost the lube" and low and behold, I am pregnant! So you women out there who are using lubrication, and wondering why you aren't getting pregnant, "lose the lube"!

by NurseLB

I've heard lube prohibits sperms movement to the "right areas" when TTC, you can buy sperm freindly lube, and I think you are supposed to limit your caffine when TTC.... :) Just what I've heard.

by VNME

I've heard (through a friend's own fertility issues) that most lubes can kill sperm...however Im not a doctor so you might wanna check it out but that's what her's told her.

by CourtneyB25

Those with the lube question, supposedly lubrication products are known to kill sperm, decreasing the count. If you have issues getting pregnant that may be an factor. There is a product called Pre Seed that is properly PH balanced that is not supposed to have the negative affect, if you need to use something. Hope that help answer your question.

by szuniga

My husband and I are TTC. We actually just got a jacuzzi last week, and we LOVE it!! My husband goes in probably twice a day!! I was just reading over the "Getting Pregnant Checklist" and it says for potential daddies stay out of jacuzzi's!!! oh my goodness!! I had no idea! Ugh, i feel awful, now i have to ask him not to use it?

by Hopeful84

Most lube kills the sperm, so you don't want to use it if you're trying to get pregnant. I've found a sperm-friendly lube called Pre-Seed is available that imitates cervical fluid and does not kill sperm.

by sldrobena

There are two types of lubricant that don't inhibit sperm motility (or even create a barrier in some cases). One is called Preconceive and I can't remember the name of the other one. If you do a little research (try fertilityfriend.com), you'll find the actual statistics on how lubricant affects sperm motility -- even saliva can kill sperm -- so, if you've been trying for a while unsuccessfully, try one of the lubricants that's helpful for conception.

by irishdufy

Why loose the lube? Currently, if we loose the lube, there will be no baby because there will be no sex! I have dryness issues.........*blush*.....

by rachelandjon09

Can too much caffeine make it harder to conceive? I'm trying to quit coffee and diet coke, but without much luck. Any advise on how to quit? I wish there was a magic pill!

by mtblady

Visit www.pregnology.com and you can the dates.

by CRISTALE10

We have been TTC for the last 2 years. We even went to a fertility doctor and were getting ready to start Clomid. I just missed my period but I'm too scared to take a pregnancy test because I don't want to be let down. I have cramping like I am going to get my period any day now. When should I take the pregnancy test?

by monirickey

We have been TTC for the last 2 years. We even went to a fertility doctor and were getting ready to start Clomid. I just missed my period but I'm too scared to take a pregnancy test because I don't want to be let down. I have cramping like I am going to get my period any day now. When should I take the pregnancy test?

by monirickey

Lube acts as a barrier to sperm, and sometimes actually has spermacide in it. Caffine adversly affects your baby's growth and developement. You can never predict when exactly your baby will be born. My cousin tried by counting back 9 months from her desired due date and adding 2 weeks to that. Good Luck!

by GeralynR

I stopped taking the pill in the middle of the pack. about a week ago. Last time I did that I got my period right away. I didn't this time. Can I be pregnant?

by LeslieJHall

Should I go and see the gyno before I start trying to conceive?

by LaurenSpreng

Goosesgitlforlife - most lube has chemicals in it that kill sperm. Preseed is a great lube that actually helps sperm move. Darinsfirl0818 - Lattes just the caffeine - try decaf.

by annerbones

i didnt know what cottenseed oil was also so take a look at this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cottonseed_oil

by ljreese89

An answer to the Lube question... My doctor told me to lose the KY because the lube could possibly get in the way of all the sperm making it up through the cervix by trapping it along the walls of the vagina, therefore making it harder to concieve... hope that's helpful :)

by karleep09

question. my husband and i have had unprotected sex for a year and a half and trying to get pregnant for over 10 months. any ideas on what to do? or any tip to help us?

by turbostang7

To answer the question about where to log your BBT: I use www.fertilityfriend.com it's an amazing site! Also, my DH and I had an Ectopic last Sept. '08 that ended quickly with Laparoscopic surgery. However, we've been seriously TTC since after June this year. We're just trying to relax and if it happens it happens. DH's motto, lol! I've heard that if you stress a lot over your TTC, it makes it harder to get pregnant. So IMO, pray, leave it up to God, RELAX, and have fun in the bedroom! Then if babies happen, that's a big + to your family :).

by JoeErica13

Some of these questions are really silly. It's not rocket science, people having been having babies forever without having to put a check list into their blackberry. Have sex, be healthy, it's really not that hard, use common sense. And human pregnancy lasts 9 months, so if you want to know when you should conceive for a June/December/March baby, just do the math, no need to use the internet, use your brain.

by therMAL

I've read that lube actually hinders the sperms travel to the egg. So, thats probably why they want you to avoid it.

by candiexbrooke

To answer one question, 39 is not too late to get pregnant, (unless you have gone through early menopause.) I know a woman who just gave birth to a beautiful healthy baby girl at age 41. The couple was not even trying because she had been told all her life she would NEVER be able to get pregnant. There are more risks associated with pregnancies in women over age 35, but it is entirely possible to have a healthy baby anyway. You should talk to your doctor about your concerns to inform yourself and to put your mind at ease.

by Smart23

Has anyone ever been on the Nuva Ring and then got pregnant? i was wondering how long it may take for me to get pregnant, have been using the Nuva Ring for 5 years.

by steelerchic43

if you have an idea of when you want to have your baby, take the wished-for due date, and add 3 to the month and minus 7 from the day. so if you want the baby due on 7/31, shoot for conception on 10/24. (7+3=10, 31-7=24)

by gaskillk

Ok there is only about a week that you can get prego every month. It is possible to have a baby near a specific date, but you will have to work with your birth control and change your ovulation cycle.

by hsb71

@Dorr Evil Twin and meganekstrom Lube will actually prevent sperm and semen from getting to the fallopian tubes. It has a habit of making everything gush back out.

by gower2be

ditto the cottonseed oil question!

by Telly21182

same thing here with the lube... never heard that one before

by lost_brunette57

Lube makes it hard for sperm to get to where it needs to go, especially oil based lubes. There's a product called Preseed if you need lube that's safe for baby making:) You can find it online but i'm not sure of any stores that carry it. Hope this helps!

by ksunshine89

I got most of these done; I could say a little more money; but I need to do that without TTC LOL. I'm good! LOL

by BrideBritt88

Regular lube can interfere with conception. There is something out there called PreSeed that does not inhibit sperm and provides the right pH / environment to promote sperm motility whereas regular lube inhibits it.

by missymomo

I miscarried my first child on November 14, 2009. I had to have the D&C Procedure done. Emotionally I could not wait for it to happen naturally, knowing my precious child was already gone. Now, its almost 6 weeks after my surgery, and I cannot wait for my period to arrive. I have overly caught the baby fever, and am turning into psycho girl because EVERYONE else around is is having babies, under circumstances and are not good, and I am suffering by seeing and hearing them talk about the child I should be carrying. Anyone else ever felt this way? I am just so overwhelmed with wanting to be pregnant again, and that i am driving myself insane.

by PinkFairy4u2nv

My husband and I have been TTC for three months after a miscarriage at 8 weeks. I didn't find out until 10 weeks and it hurt so much. I can't pinpoint my ovulation because I haven't had the normal symptoms of ovulation. And I have had negative tests. Can someone tell me is this normal.

by kunada

I am trying to find out "the norm" for paid maternity leave among small companies. My bosses are arguing over the subject and it's stressing me out. I thought the norm was around 6 weeks...Any thoughts?

by Rotty20

I am wondering if I will have nausea through my whole pregnancy? When should it subside?

by mrsflint

I stopped using the nuva ring a few months ago, but haven't gotten my period. I am not pregnant, just confused why I haven't gotten it. Anyone?

by rreile

the lube can cause an enviroment where either the sperm can't swim and/or the actisicy of the lube can kill them.

by mrb994170

Lube kills sperm. Not all of it, but it definitely doesn't help. Same with saliva.

by Mrs.PutanoToBe

My fiance and I are getting married in April of this year. He is 41 and I am 38. We would like to start trying to get pregnant right away. How risky is it for a woman my age to carry a baby full term. We know we are starting late in life but we wanted to get established further our careers and get our home built. I have been on birth control since I was 16 how soon should I stop before we start trying?

by kj910

Your body produces its own kind of lube and the kinds used from the bottle mess with your body's natural way of carrying sperm to the egg. There is a new kind that is safe for conceiving. Its advertised in a lot of baby magazines. Google it.

by kyndrakruschel

it doesn't matter how hard we try, then we figured maybe we were trying to hard so we stopped and we are let God decide it has been nearly 3 years and we still can't conceive. I don't know what else to do????

by Latinhoney2469

Lubes (even saliva) have been proven to kill sperm.. I would suggest "Pre-Seed" its the only lube that is proven not to affect sperm and is safe for baby making.

by alynannie

When should I start taking prenatal vitamins? We are planning to start trying in May/June. Should I start taking them now, 3 months before, or should I wait a little bit?

by mcb912

My goodness, I am so ready for this pregnancy to be over with!!! Its my third and im exhausted !!!

by ASpring23

@heatherm07: you can take vitamin B6 50mg daily for morning sickness. You can take this in addition to prenatal vitamins.

by jaritah

I don't want to have kids for a few years but when we do want to conceive, how many months before we conceive should women stop taking birth control?

by Rlissow22

To answer a couple of questions: Yes, "limit the lattes" was meant to translate to "limit the caffeine". Most doctors believe that two cups of coffee a day should be fine while pregnant, but if you're drinking a whole pot a day, it's probably a good idea to start cutting down now. Lube basically acts as a barrier for the sperm to travel through. Imagine it as trying to swim through Jello VS trying to swim through water. If intercourse is too difficult without lube, try using a small amount or a little extra time in to "warm up" before intercourse. For the Nuva Ring question: it is probably a good idea that you wait like your doctor suggested. When you first get off of birth control, your natural menstrual cycle may take a month or two to get back to a more normal/consistent state. This will make it easier to both predict when your ovulation time is as well as increase the chance of contraception. Hope this helps; I'm not an expert on this stuff, but I am a medical student and TTC myself so the information should be pretty accurate. Good luck everyone!

by quirogad

It was very easy for me to conceive my daughter, who is now four. I waited to have baby number two, because I wasn't ready. Now that I am, and in my thirties, I'm having some trouble. With each passing month and another period, I feel like this is going to be a rocky road. Does anyone else have this problem? We have been trying for 5 months. Any suggestions? Please feel free to friend me so we can chat. Thanks girls!!

by artangel1313

The only thing we did was stop trying to stop pregnancy...I didn't realize there was so much work involved! 3 months later I had a postive HPT.

by rmaxim

In my opinion, you shouldnt "try to get pregnant". Just go with the flow. Humans mind is such a crazy thing and i think you'll have bigger chances getting pregnant if ur not thinking about it so much. thats what happened in my case. good luck!!

by megi0985

@heatherm07 - this is obviously a comment board for people that are trying to get pregnant, there are many other forums for questions regarding symptoms in your first trimester. Haven't you read all the comments from people saying how hard they are trying to get pregnant here? I think it's very rude of you to talk about your pregnancy issues when there are so many women here that are having a hard time getting pregnant. Please think before you post and/or post your questions in the appropriate forum. Pls k thx bye.

by rivetbabydoll

lefvia, you want your LMP to be around the 24th of October so you will ovulate by the 2nd week of November.

by bechristlike7

I would like to start trying to have a baby the end of the summer, how soon should i get off the pill and start taking prenatal vitamins?

by BVwillow

I want to get pregnant, but I really want to plane as much as possible financially first. Where do I start?

by love9land

If you want to learn more about fertility, ovulation, and conception, you could take a class on Natural Family Planning through the Couple to Couple League. Not only do you and your husband take the class together (the classes are taught by couples who practice themselves), but you also learn how to chart your temperature and see when you ovulate, but they'll help you get the hang of it and answer any questions you have. You can check out their website www.ccli.org to find a teaching couple closest to you, and also register for a class online. Classes are three sessions long, with at least a month in between sessions.

by broccoli's_girl

How do you get genetic testing? And forgive my not knowing, but what exactly is it for?

by Foxx13

Hey ladies. TheBump answers your lube questions here: http://pregnant.thebump.com/getting-pregnant/fertility-ovulation/qa/effects-of-lubricants-on-getting-pregnant.aspx

by jnsttc

So I got married March 20 and my new husband and I are ready to try to have a baby. I was on Depo for a year and got my last shot in Dec. I still haven't started my cycles back again so I am alittle frustrated. We want to be pregnant by September. Anyone else have this experience and can you give me any advice or reassurance?

by jennb26

well im new to this website. I've had 2 miscarriges.One @ 15 & one @ 18. But how can I figure out when I ovulate if my period is sometimes irregular?

by Krystal90

I have taken birth control (lo overal the 3 month pack) for about 7 years after I finished my last pack in November I had a period December, January and now nothing since Im getting worried any advice?

by Totta

Most lubricants actually kill sperm. I do believe, however, that you can find a prenatal lube at your drugstore.

by seicher3

I have only been on birth control fro one year and recently went off of it about a month ago. Is it really going to take my body a year to ovulate again even if I was only on BC for 12 months??

by cslitzker

I really think that some of the women here asking stupid questions really shouldn't be procreating.

by capri.jazz

Well, to answer some questions, I was on nuvaring for 5 years and then yaz and a few others because I moved and wasn't able to obtain yaz. After trying 3 different kinds of pills I said I'm tired of feeling crappy and also after asking my soon to be husband if he was ok with me going off bc I stopped taking bc. I never got my peroid and shortly there after we were pregnant. you can get pregnant in the first month after stopping bc. for those who have not yet won baby bingo just relax. of all the friends/family who got pregnant, they didn't conceive until they stopped all the excess worry and stressing out over getting pregnant. Stress is a major contributor to why women don't conceive. One of my friends after trying fertility drugs still couldn't get pregnant because she was too stressed out over getting pregnant. It wasn't until she gave up on getting pregnant and considered adoption that she actually conceived, aka she stopped stressing out over getting pregnant.

by wilsod1

i stopped taking my pill may 8th and my husband and i had sex untill the 19th i took a ovulation test today the 22nd and there was a faint positive what are my chances of getting pregnant?? has it been too long sine i had sex?? (im trying for a girl i have to boys)

by ambernrobert4life

I have a question: My husband and his ex-wife have two daughters (16, and 15). We are pregnant (after a lot of struggling, I might add) and this is my first. We wanted to name it Lillyana Christina Marie if it is a girl. Christina is the one daughter's middle name and Marie is the other daughter's middle name. The ex-wife got wind that we wanted to use their middle names combined as a way to connect the new baby with them and she is upset and says that she doesn't want to share those names with him and another woman. They were "special" to him and her. What should we do? Give in or tell her that it is none of her business?

by RcRc052509

the lube can block or make it more difficult for the the sperm to get were it needs to go. limit the lattes because of caffeine no other reason.

by lipstick4kisses

the lube can block or make it more difficult for the the sperm to get were it needs to go. limit the lattes because of caffeine no other reason.

by lipstick4kisses

My girls due July 12, but the docs said I wont survive to mid- June

by jessybaby02

last time i went to a doctor i was told i do not ovulate .what does that mean.

by gago

For women using basal temperature or checking cervical fluids try ovusoft.com

by nritz

if you want a child born in late july, it is best to get pregnant in early november. my daughter was conceived in December 8th and due August 28th - born Aug 8th due to ER induction (i dont condone elective induction at all), Just remember, especially first pregnancies, you tend to go past 40w - usually 41.5

by Chelsea062108

how long after the egg fertilizes does it make its way down to implant?

by dannigirl30

How soon before you know you're pregnant? I mean I know the biggest sign is missing your period...but can you tell before then?

by hll76

For those of you wondering how to chart, there's an awesome website called fertilityfriend.com If you sign up for the lessons, they send you a new one each day for, I believe, twenty days. It gives you tons of info and helps a lot!

by keitichan3

Does anyone else ever have severe cramping when you're about to ovulate? I was actually worried about this pain a few months ago since I had never experienced it, and then I started using an ov kit to try & get pregnant and I realized it happens that time of the month. A few months ago I thought I was pregnant b/c of the cramping but now I realize it coincides with ovulation. Any thoughts?

by ajane615

the lube traps the sperm which is why it is a no-no.

by blondegrl78

comment: Anyone stating that questions on this board are "silly" is very insensitive. No it is NOT easy for everyone to conceive no matter how many people have done it in the past. This is a place for us to ask questions that we would feel uncomfortable asking anywhere else and to speak ill of them is beyond rude no matter how simple you feel the answer is. Having a baby is the most exciting and sometimes nerve racking thing you can try. If you want to enter dates into a website it's your perogative. If you find these questions silly then simply close the page. That's not rocket science either.

by shainsgal

im trying to concieve.im supposed to get my period in 2 days.ive been cramping lately.is it possible that ive been having implantation cramps? can sumone help me?

by brendac92

cramping during ovulation: This is normal. I have slight and brief cramps during ovulation sometimes but not every month. Some women get them every month and some never get them at all. Hope this helps.

by shainsgal

I am 24 years old and never had a normal cycle, my gyno put me on meds to jumpstart a period and then birth control to keep it regular well since i am not on birth control i have no periods. I have had 1-2 on there own without help in the last 2 years so my question is... can i get pregnant without periods??? my doc has ran a few tests but has not really given me any answers.

by rachaelkuhn

Had a boy and now you are trying to have a girl? I have 3 friends that tried the following and all had girls. Conicidence? It's worth the try! They say male sperm are faster than female sperm, but female sperm live longer. So the idea is to have sex a few days BEFORE your ovulation day. Then don't let him come near you! The male sperm would die leaving the female sperm waiting for that egg about to be sprung! Good Luck! But remember, every baby, boy or girl is super special!

by romymohd

my partner and i have been trying to conceive for almost a year with no success. I am currently 16 DPO and still no AF (2 days late but has always been irregular) and 2 neg HPT...i have a Dr's appt this Friday for a blood PT (4 after MP)...this time around it feels different...I feel prego...don't know if its in my head because i want it so badly but I have symptoms that i've never had/felt before even when PMSing...the #1 symptom is the blue booby veins and the darkening of the area around my areola's (sorry if TMI)...So i guess my question is could i still be prego even though i have gotten 2 neg HPT's??

by babygurl1017

I have stretch marks from my previous child and I dont want anymore with this one? Has anything found anything that really works????

by HCole25

COTTONSEED OIL: http://www.ehow.com/about_6660303_cotton-seed-oil-pregnancy.html http://pregnancyandbabyinformation.com/organic-info/cotton-organic-info/cotton-in-our-food.html LUBE: http://www.pregnancy.org/question/lubricants-and-trying-conceive http://www.babycenter.com/404_does-using-a-lubricant-inhibit-conception_7098.bc

by lilGarz

I go to the OB/GYN for the first time tomorrow..what should i expect? poking? prodding? my baby's heartbeat?

by starlynn22

It's better to be prepared and more stuffs for kids here: http://children-solutions.com/cool-free-stuff

by childrensolutions

is it possible to get pregnant if you had a miscarriage when you wore 11 years old and when you hit 14 and accident happen to you and the Doctor told you that you couldn't have no kids. It been 7 years! so can you get pregnant

by bibilious13

meganekstrom and dorr evil twin....the lube actually kills of the mans sperm.... HEA100707.....cottonseed oil is the oil found in cotton seeds.....

by carrielewis

I was also wondering about the cottonseed oil and lattes.

by agentkitten75

I think it's interesting that "get immunized" is a point on this checklist. I would advise anyone thinking about becoming pregnant to really become educated on the ingredients and the risks of VACCINATIONS (so called because they do not, in fact, create immunity). I for one don't plan on inundating my body with a load of toxic substances, some of which (mercury, for example) will never leave my body and will affect both my health and therefore the health of my child, all for the financial benefit of pharmaceutical giants who help to create worldwide propaganda pressuring mothers into vaccination.

by galore5108

Please make this an Interactive checklist!

by lholden

My fiance and I have been TTC for a year and have had no success. Main problem: I didn't have a period for 7 months after coming off of the pill. My OB/GYN put me on provera for 10 days to start my period and 2000mg of metformin a day with 50mg of Clomid. August was my 1st month of Clomid and no success. I didn't ovulate. My progesterone level was .67 and it's supposed to be 15. Any suggestions? Dr appt tues to discuss next step for September.

by BabyDavis10

I have been of of BC since December. We have been trying since May and still nothing.. I have been tracking and keeping up with everything. We have cut out everything bad and brought in everything good, but still no luck.. It is a bit discouraging, but we are sticking with it. Does any one have any other suggestions besides the checklist?

by Nlove67

My spouse and I have just decided to start ttc I am reading alot in the posts that people are getting depressed and upset but in my research everything states to decrease stress but charting and everything like that makes me think that is causing more stress than anything because I would be focusing on that and getting paranoid about when I can have a baby. Has this actually helped anyone?

by lilsomethingswt

Okay I have a question.... Some people have told me that after sex you should put your legs in the air so that the seamen won't fall out. Is this true and how long do you have to keep your legs in the air??

by Pahmeyeral

to answer the lube questions.... most lubes arent good for the sperm and either slow them WAY down or kill them

by Dizzyliz212

I just started to try for a baby I have 2 awsome boys any suggestions on what do do to up my chances for a girl?

by shabooty

My period is usally every 30-37 days. How can i know when im ovulating?

by awilkerson202

I havent started my cycle but all test so negative every single time... is there something im missing??

by AlwysAND4Ever

To all the couples that's been ttc for awhile - Hang in there. It will happen! Don't listen to the "trying to hard" nonsense. I think it was the most frustrating advice anyone could give me when I was ttc - and it always seems to come from someone who never struggled with infertility! Charting BBT, using OPKs, seeing an infertility specialist, etc helps you in your pursuit and does not hurt you! Just go at your pace and try to not get too discouraged. It will happen. Just believe that, and you will be ok. I struggled with infertility and pregnancy loss for almost 3 years. Now I am the proud mom of two girls (ages 9 and 7) and my husband and I just started ttc our third! So see, it does happen and it didn't happen because I stopped trying :-)

by shannonpradhan

4 months TTC after a MC and nothing. I just ordered Preseed online and hopefully it will show up before I ovulate!

by LuvWithMyMan

I used the Nuvaring for about four months and experienced some of the more severe adverse reactions, constant migraines where I would go blind in one eye and pain after sex that lasted for an hour or more. I stopped using it or any other bc over 12 mths ago and am still not pregnant. Help.

by ElleR79

I don't believe that it is safe to get "immunized" ever let alone when trying to make a baby. However supporting your immune system with herbs and nutrition. That is something we should all be doing.

by corinneferry

Some Lubes have spermicide in them. Spermicide kills off sperm, making it so they cannot enter the egg and fertilize it.

by Inuko18

This is great, but what is cervicalmucus texture ?? And how does this affect or tell anything? Also, why is the dentist not safe during early pregnancy?

by LanaLoves

This is great, but what is cervicalmucus texture ?? And how does this affect or tell anything? Also, why is the dentist not safe during early pregnancy?

by LanaLoves

I have issues with anxiety- which causes me to vomit. Would this affect my chances to conceive?

by jcmalatesta

my husband and i started sept 7th and got pregnant around the 18th!

by mstcin07

do you have to get prenatal vitamins from your dr. or can you buy them somewhere?

by stepkinl

to the one experiencing nausea from the prenatals...take them on a full stomach. They can cause an upset stomach.

by harposgirl@gmail.com

im 7 wks prego and im never hungrey but i always want to eat and when i eat i feel full after like two bites. Anyone have or had the same thing.

by mamarayas

I am going to be travelling for Xmas and New Years. Should I wait until after the trip to try to get pregnant, or is it OK to go ahead with it now?

by Wanzastari

this month lefvia (november) Hope it's not too late!

by splein

A response to the comments to why you should wait 1-2 months before conceiving... Recently a doctor explained to me that when you have been on birth control for a long time and then stop, your first 1-2 eggs may not be viable eggs. She told me that about 30% of eggs in this situation could be "duds" that result in early miscarriage

by krispy_tin

regular over the counter lubes have something in them that inhibit sperm motility, if you really do need it try pre seed lubricant its the only one that I have found that doesn't do this

by honay81

My husband and i have been trying to conceive for a little over a year now i just turned 26 and he will be 31 soon ...help what do we do!!

by JaimieKirkpatrick08

i am self employed & is intrested in short term disabilty/ maternity leave pros & cons if anyone has any input?

by newlyweds2b

to all those who have a NUVA RING question: i have been on NV from past 3-4 years. My doc told me it will take 6 months for my body to re-adjust and come to my normal period cycle. She was right! i was bleeding 20 days each month..for 5 months..by month 6th, i am now on normal 7 day period cycle! phew! so dont worry, give it 4-6 months and then try! during this time, it is imp to take iron so you dont get Iron deficiency! once u get to normal cycle, start taking ur prenatal's + dha's and keep trying each month...until u do conceive! :) good luck!!

by spellbound18

With the basal body temperature, it's all in timing. Make sure you are taking your temperature as close to the same time each morning as possible. Also, make sure you are not getting out of bed, sitting up, or anything before taking it. Take it while still lying in bed. Also, if you get out of bed to use the restroom around 5 and you're wake up time is 6, your BBT will be altered as well. You need about 3 to 5 hours of consecutive sleep in order for it to be as accurate as possible as well as taking it around the same time every morning. :)

by cbogaards

this check list is offical thanks :>

by yudelca

I want a baby born in November 2011, when is the right date to try to get pregnant?

by stace9119@yahoo.com

Lube is hormonal stimulant and not a big stimulator for pregnancies...the amount of lube already in the female cavity may prevent the sperm from going in...like a think absorbent. Lattes have an immense amount of caffeine and too much caffeine is bad for the baby making process, with caffeine can come kidney and bladder and gastrointestinal problems. It's a health concern As for trying to have a baby born near July 31st...reverse 9 months and give yourself a 2 month lee-way

by xxmommywannabexx

Ok I know that this may sound stupid but im having issues trying to understand this whole cycle thing. I have been spotting for the last week and have not had a flow so to say but my ? is do I count the first day I started spotting as the 1st day of my cycle? I'm 34 n had a gastric bypass 3 years ago and now we are really trying for a baby. any advise and or tips will be grately appreciated.

by aidalozada1976

Lubes can inhibit sperm from being able to swim to your egg when you're "trying". Preseed is a lube made for when you're trying and won't do this.

by SherryRD

Little Mrs. Hayden...and everyone else TTC--My husband and I have been doing something called Natural Family Planning (NFP) to postpone pregnancy, however, many couples use it to TTC. If you take a class through something called 'Couple to Couple League' they will supply you with a GREAT "equipment"...charts, books, etc. They will teach you how to look at your daily temperature and other signs to show you whether or not you are fertile, less fertile, and not fertile. It is a natural way to TTC as well as postpone pregnancy, depending on your situation. And it's EASY to use!! Hope this helps! Just google "Couple to couple league" and then look up a class that is being taught near you. They are taught throughout the world! Hope this helps! May God bless you and significant other on TTC.

by msfrog2u

It's Jan2nd, we want a Oct/Halloween baby, is it too late?

by bairdc

with my first son the condom broke and with my second i wanted a may baby so we tried in august 9 months later i had a beautiful baby boy so yes its possible to get pregnant right away

by lacey_jay96

if you want an october baby its still possible, i am currently trying for 1 more baby, my ovulation date is approx. jan.7 and my due date would be oct.2,2011

by lacey_jay96

i am really confused about the lube thing? i no spermicidal lube is out of the question but what about others?

by chevy1219

I have 12 days to go before I am supposed to get my period and there is a slight chance I could be pregnant. I have no symptoms but my husband and I did it everyday during ovulation. Problem is that I am leaving to Cancun tomorrow for one month and was planning on drinking alcohol down there. Is it okay to consume alcohol during the 2ww??

by cleets7

i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years but am only 20 (he as well)..i live with him and he takes good care of me because of his job...is it normal to want to have a baby now though am so young?

by laviniastopponi

If you are TTC, you should visit Fertilityfriend.com

by pinkdragon85

We're trying to get pregnant after and ectopic pregnancy and a recent HSG which ought to boost our chances. Wish me luck!

by bechrist7

The reason experts say not to use lube is because of the consistency of it. If you are trying to conceive, lube is very sticky and thick which makes it difficult for sperm to make it up to the egg. If you don't use lube, there is nothing blocking or making it hard for sperm to make it to it's destination.

by kyleemaree

I misscarried the week of July 4th 2010. It was the most devastating thing to ever happen to me. The pregnancy was totally out of the blue, and me and my boyfriend were not trying at all. We got so excited after all 6 pregnancy test said positive because we both knew that we wanted to be parents someday, just didn't expect it to be so soon. When I went to the doctor for the final say so, she did a vaginal ultrasound to find that I was misscarrying. Ever since then every one is getting preggers and I cant wait to TTC. I know I should wait until marriage, but you don't understand that baby fever affects a woman who has misscarried, married or not.

by stephaniemalphrus

Many of the other lubes are NOT sperm friendly. Why I have not been getting a clear answer on but - Pre-Seed Lube is very sperm friendly. Many women swear by it.....

by Jerzee1974

i had a procedure called a hysteroscopy done jan 28th 2011 and was wondering if anyone knows when its the right time to ttc

by TeresaM72

in my 7 month and vomiting everything i eat and having very bad back and belly cramps........any advice???

by lilybuck

in my 7 month and vomiting everything i eat and having very bad back and belly cramps........any advice???

by lilybuck

in my 7 month and vomiting everything i eat and having very bad back and belly cramps........any advice???

by lilybuck

in my 7 month and vomiting everything i eat and having very bad back and belly cramps........any advice???

by lilybuck

i had success the first month of trying. But then again i wasn't on birthcontrol for a whole year. I was on the diaphragm. I am 31.

by jack321

My husband and I are going to talk to my OB-GYN this coming up Wednesday. We are very excited about starting our family! Though, I feel like I need to know what TTC is? Someone please tell me :) I feel silly asking but, I have never had a baby before. Someone please help!! :)

by lf2010

I have been doing the ovulation stick test for awhile now. The other day I got a smiley face finally and that was in the morning. We didnt have sex until that night and before we had sex I did the stick again and no smiley face.. should I be concerned?

by krissiepooh27

OK, so i'm new to this whole thing. I don't know if i'm pregnant yet, but i'm having a lot of odd symptoms. Help or advice from anyone would be great. For a week now i have had a terrible taste on the back of my tongue, and i want to sleep more than usual, my nipples are very tender and sore. I'm also gaining weight with no change of my diet,my period isn't due til the weekend but these symptoms have been consistent for a week. Other symptoms beginning to show up are headaches (not too often) as well as back aches. Also i have been feeling sick to my stomach; just the other day my fiance and i were in bed napping and i woke out of my sleep feeling like i was going to vomit every where but the feeling went away quickly. Someone please help me should i wait a few more days for my period or go to a doctor?

by AlmstMrsHood

Why does it say visit the dentist, what does that have to do with getting prego?

by chiaracates

lefvia: my babys due july 13 and we got pregnant oct. 19. so the best bet is to try to get pregnant the beginning of nov.

by jvillanueva

Tina Davis- before your period is not the time. You only ovulate one day out of the month and you'll have a mucus cycle right before that. after your peak ovulation day, you have a window of 2-3 days but beyond that, but once you're in post-peak phase with no ovulation biomarkers- you have to wait until the next month to try again! Check out Creighton Model Fertiilty Care System at www.creightonmodel.com Naprotechnology is really amazing!

by stephlas8

OK, seriously what is up with all the acronyms?? I am brand new to this site but can't decipher them all! :) Is there any decoder I can find?

by AMbaby

hi everyone i just turned 40 and i havetwo kids my daughter who is 20 and my son who is 3 . i have been trying now for almost 2yrs to get pregnant but have no luck . its getting very fustrating and sad because i really want to have one more . help

by annmarieludes

I moved to the Portland area recently. Any recommendations for a good OB/OBgyn?

by Emily257

I used Body Basal because i had irregular periods. It took us three months and bam we were pregnate. Its all about reading into your body temp and doing the reading everyday at the sametime in the morning before getting out of bed. It was best to do it right when your temp drops and before it goes up. when you track it for more than a month you will see your pattern! HOpe this helps !!!

by jamjones26

Thats a mighty long checklist!

by chokofox

hi i am tryin to have a baby... i got off my bc in october 2010 an still no luck any suggestions..please

by kbaby2009

Hello there, I let you to know that I am try to conceive from my boyfriend but he has problem with his penis is small size and he try to intercource with me but he doesn't know how to use intercource to reach to my pussy and we are both deaf so how to get some help with him but I do want him to use enlargement penis. ok I am wait for your reply me back very sooner. ok smile.

by TawnaloveDarryl2011

Iv been ttc for the past 4months and no luck, i have done everything on that list, dont know wut else to do. Trying to Conceive Ticker

by mendoza26

This is a great list! I will definitely check it out again once my husband and I start trying again. http://babycravings.blogspot.com/

by BabyBound

I HAVE BEEN TTC FOR ALMOST 4 YEARS NOW AND I HAVE HAD 2 DIFFERENT PROCEDURES DONE AND ALL SAID THAT IT WILL HAPPEN,I HAVE LOST ALOT OF WEIGHT.I DONT HAVE REGULAR PERIODS AND IF I DO HAVE ONE ITS WITH THE HELP FROM PROVERA WHICH I NO ISNT THE BEST WAY.SO IF ANYONE HAS ANYTHING PLEASE HELP ME WITH SOME ADVICE

by TeresaM72

First of all, read the comments before you post anyone??? I am a special education teacher, and I would say talk to your doctor before trying to get pregnant, I was shocked at how little people know about pregnancy. Alchol in any amount, even within the first weeks of conceiving can result in FAS, so if you are trying to get pregnant give it up! Also, caffiene can lead to learning disabilities such as ADHD, also give that up! The only way to determine the sex of your baby for certain is to do it the space age way, the myths are not true, and meet has nothing to do with it! Especially not your eating it, it's the sperm that determines the baby's sex not the egg. And lastly, if you are older and trying to get pregnant, have a conversation about what you will do if your child is born with a disability. Being over 35, the risks are substantially greater, and it's important to work closely with your doctor and have a plan with your significant other if it does happen. To many of my kids only have one parent because the other couldn't cope with their child having a disability. Also, all the BC questions, it take six months to a year for your body to adjust to being off birth control.

by JHart264

How do I Interview OB/GYNS? Do I google ones near me?

by prinsa121

Yes what is with the lube? Does that lower your chances of getting pregnant?

by user87

What is TTC? Also why should men change to boxers over briefs? And why stay out of the Jacuzzis?

by Miranda2527

We have been TTC since July of 2010 and still no luck. We have done the whole check list and done the chart. Every month I think maybe this month but no still no baby. i am going to the doctor this month what are some of the questions I should be asking???

by Liza Henderson

Just a word of advice to anyone trying to conceive.....STOP TRYING!! The more you stress about getting pregnant, the less likely you are to actually become pregnant. Relax, have fun with your partner, and if and when it's meant to happen, it will happen

by Robyn1017

What is considered extreme exercise?

by e_cruiz

We've been trying to get pregnant and now that i think i might be pregnant. well, the preg tests have all come out negative. okay but my lower abdomen has swollen considerably and i missed 3 cycles. Is that normal??

by elisalg1704

I had gastric bypass RNY surgery on March 2nd of 2010, so 1 year and 2 months ago. I have lost 120 pounds and counting. I think that my weightloss has leveled out since I have not lost in about 2 months. I really want to have a baby now. Another baby as I already have a 7 year old girl. My fiance and I have been really trying to conceive for the past 2 or 3 months now and I am starting to feel depressed and like its never going to happen for me : ( I already take my vitamins 3x a day every day due to the bypass but I will start taking prenatals as soon as "it" happens! I hope that will be soon because I'm so ready!

by monnyp2003

how do i get rid of my pregnancy tracker? i don't want emails either...i'm miscarrying at 7 weeks. can anyone tell me how to opt out of the whole bump tracker right now? thanks.

by genabean

my baby was born july30, and i got pregnant around november 17.

by crystalinak

TTC=Trying to Conceive...if you have other questions about abbreviations, google two week wait...there is a two week wait website that explains many of the abbreviations...it also gives a place for women who are trying to conceive to document their very early pregnancy symptoms. Hope this helps.

by kfry220101

Lose the lube. Most lubricants (including saliva) act as barriers to your man’s little swimmers. If you must have some help, the lubricant Pre-Seed claims to be "sperm friendly," or simply indulge in a little extra foreplay.

by JustTryingHope

well im glad ive done most of this stuff during this cycle

by iluvred8072

Uuugggggg!! Me & my hubby have been TTC since March 2005. We have been through 3 fertility clinics, all kinds of testing, Chlomid, Gonal-F, Follistim, 5 or 6 IUI's, Menopur, trigger shots, and now we are saving for IVF. There were 4 baby girls born into the family last year & another girl due this year. I'm having a hard time being happy for the parents to be - even though they are my brothers & cousins. When will the LORD send me my angel?

by freeman2121

We have been trying for a month now and lately the bottom of my stomach has been sensitive anyone have this issue.

by shannonmando

For those of you just starting to chart your cycles & those with irregular cycles, some tips!!! The key to a good temp reading is to take your temp at the same time every day before you do anything else! Not 7 one day, 7:30 the next. No water, no bathroom visits, no anything before taking your temp. Even on the weekends, set your regular alarm, take your temp, then go back to sleep. For irregulars, if you chart for a couple cycles you should start to see a pattern. A regular woman has about 2 weeks from period day 1 til ovulation and another 2 weeks post-ovalution until the period begins. You can see ovulation has taken place because of a "thermal shift" = 3 days of temps at least 0.4 degrees above the previous 6 (if you had a fever, obviously you have to take that into consideration). If you are irregular, one of those phases is out of whack - usually not both. If the first half of your cycle is not 2 weeks, that means something strange is up with your estrogen levels. If your second half of the cycle is not 2 weeks, something strange is up with your progesterone levels. Take your insights to your doc because these hormonal imbalances might impact your body's ability to support a pregnancy. I had very short post-ovulation phases (just 3 days!) which meant I had very low progesterone and when I conceived, I needed to be on progesterone supplements to support the pregnancy. www.myfertilitycharts.com is a helpful tool!

by cecilyandgautam

For those of you just starting to chart your cycles & those with irregular cycles, some tips!!! The key to a good temp reading is to take your temp at the same time every day before you do anything else! Not 7 one day, 7:30 the next. No water, no bathroom visits, no anything before taking your temp. Even on the weekends, set your regular alarm, take your temp, then go back to sleep. For irregulars, if you chart for a couple cycles you should start to see a pattern. A regular woman has about 2 weeks from period day 1 til ovulation and another 2 weeks post-ovalution until the period begins. You can see ovulation has taken place because of a "thermal shift" = 3 days of temps at least 0.4 degrees above the previous 6 (if you had a fever, obviously you have to take that into consideration). If you are irregular, one of those phases is out of whack - usually not both. If the first half of your cycle is not 2 weeks, that means something strange is up with your estrogen levels. If your second half of the cycle is not 2 weeks, something strange is up with your progesterone levels. Take your insights to your doc because these hormonal imbalances might impact your body's ability to support a pregnancy. I had very short post-ovulation phases (just 3 days!) which meant I had very low progesterone and when I conceived, I needed to be on progesterone supplements to support the pregnancy. www.myfertilitycharts.com is a helpful tool!

by cecilyandgautam

I don't know much about trying to get pregnant and ovulation and all that. I have 2 boys and they just kind of happened lol. I'm going to be trying to get pregnant very soon around July 5th 2011. That day because that's when I'm getting my IUD removed. I really, really want a baby girl does anyone have any advice or tips. I don't even know how to tell when I'm ovulating.

by monkeyfunbites

I have a BBT question. My last period was June 10, 2011 and I ovulated June 24, 2011 my temps have been all over the place. cd13 97.73 cd14 97.81 cd15 97.91 cd16 98.09 cd17 98.51 cd18 98.41 cd19 98.10 cd20 98.26 cd21 98.54 What does this mean? What is going on with the up and downs?

by JGASPAR

Why potential daddies have to stay out of Jacuzzis? What are the effects or the problems it may cause? Thanks for the checklist. Jonathan Berkowitz

by jasmine0317

Pretty good post. I just stumbled upon your blog and wanted to say that I have really enjoyed reading your blog posts. Any way I'll be subscribing to your feed and I hope you post again soon. Regards, Buy Dissertation

by ssupreme11

lefvia, just make sure you count 9 months backwards from that date, and thats when you should try to concieve. You should try late November. Before December

by MeganLD90

I finally got my IUD removed. I'm so excited!! But I'm not sure when I ovulate. Does anyone have any advice? I am new to actually trying to conceive we have 2 boys but they weren't planned (I still love them more than anything).

by monkeyfunbites

I have been taking the pills for ten years straight and we decided this month to try to conceive. On average how long does it take for the pills to get out my system to we can get pregnant?

by ebayou

Now that I am, and in my thirties, I'm having some trouble. With each passing month and another period, faire part naissanceI feel like this is going to be a rocky road.

by Jojo165

i am trying to concieve since five month its leading to depression as i have been recording my ovulation days but i have been regular in havin contact wid spouse widout gape please guide me

by mrs farhan

Water based lubes don't really help with trying to get pregnant. I read somewhere that it is not sperm friendly even though it has no spermicide.

by kaeleeanne

my period lasted 4days this month of July. Can you tell me what date am i ovulating?

by MrsNewton11

I'm 35, and finally trying to conceive for the first time in my life.

by SherryAE

As far as lube goes, I recommend Pre-seed. I found it at CVS. I found out yesterday that I'm 5 weeks.

by useurname

CAN YOU USE IVF IF YOU HAD A TUBLIGATION DONE?

by DMG0803

I've tried to look up why soon to be dads should avoid cottonseed oils. All i found was that it is in salad dressing & mayo. What does it have to do with getting pregnant?

by LittleMae

ASpring23-please find another forum to post about how tired you are of being pregnant and of all your happy children. Did you not read these posts? People are desperate to get pregnant and your comment is definitely not in the right place! Thx!

by level2bliss@gmail.com

American association (sequence AmericanAssociation, 1882-1891), association (UnionAssociation, 1884), players union (PlayerLeague, in 1890) and federal union (FederalLeague, 1914-1915). Regards, Custom Dissertation Writing

by ssupreme11

IF I HAD SEX ON THE 28-30 OF APRIL HOW FAR WUD I B RITE NOW

by kaditragladney

I have been off my BC for almost 3 months and I'm not pregant, I am feeling pressure that it hasn't happened yet? When should I worry?

by MOH01

HI EVERYONE I'M NEW 2 THIS, BUT I AM 24 AND I HAVE AN 6YR OLD I AM NOW MARRIED AND MY HUSBAND WANTS A BABY. BUT I HAVE BN USING THE PILL FOR A 3WEEKS AND I STOP BECAUSE HE WANTS A LITTLE GIRL. SO MY QUESTION WHAT DO I DO. HOW DO I GET STARTED?

by NICOLEBABYG24

I am announcing that I am 19 weeks and 1 day pregnant me and my partner are very excited my obgyn said my due date is 1/15/2012 and my name is Pam

by Flower child 89

When I was pregnant I had a real trouble with making sex.In the first three months everything was fine but after that I didn't feel so good.My doctor adviced me to use a pre seed lubricant.I tried it and everything was perfect!My husband was also happy because the "pause" was very short.

by crazysony

what is the private disability have to do with having a baby

by mandy1823

TTC Good luck everyone.

by Geina20

Getting pregnant isn't just about the actual act of conception. The well planned pregnancy has many things that go into planning way before conception. It was the great gift from God. Getting pregnant isn't just about the actual act of conception. The well planned pregnancy has many things that go into planning way before conception.

by jeanniemiller

Hello. Very cool blog!! Guy.. Excellent.. Amazing.. I will bookmark your blog and take the feeds also...I am satisfied to locate numerous useful information here in the post. Thank you for sharing. Pool Service Vermont

by yashika123

I want my baby to start school on time in August, what is the best month to start getting pregnat?

by veronicadiaz14

We are asked to limit lattes cuz of the caffiene it can contribute to miscarriage. Using regular lube actually harms sperm and lowers your chances of getting pregnant. There are 2 sperm friendly lubes on the market. Preseed (I love it btw! I would use it if I wasn't ttc) And conceive plus (Have not tried this one yet but it has nutrients in it that nurish the sperm)

by forever1281

My husband & I have been trying to get pregnant for the past 3 weeks. My period is late by at least a week but the pregnancy test I took is negative (First Response). Could I still be pregnant? I just got off birth control a little over a month ago.

by olsonlundberg

This was really interesting to read, thanks very much for your help with this checklist I appreciate it. Woking Locksmiths

by establishd

General question from a new member: How do I view and access my TTC timeline that I created? I try to access it, and it asks me to create it again, but seems like it doesn't save it anywhere...HELP!?!

by alekkie

@ Lefvia in Nov I got pregnant in late Oct and Gracie was born in mid July

by tinaselix

So i'm 3 days late w/my period. Took a test on day 2. Negative. Still no period tho. When should i test again??

by kbpink7

I'm so glad to have found your web page. My pal mentioned it to me before, yet never got around to checking it out until now. I must express, I'm floored. I really enjoyed reading through your posts and will absolutely be back to get more.
Dave @ cheap motor trade insurance

by lynxfri12

We cannot sacrifice this opportunity "The concentration chess readers put into looking at a diagram makes them particularly susceptible to subliminal impression" Regards, Cheap Power Tools

by Toolman11

This is really debatable issue "Drug is the another name of poison.It is not only bad for our health but also for our our family and friends. You have many responsibilities on them.So you need to lead a happy life.For that you have not to be drug addicted." Regards, Makita Repair Parts

by Toolman11

Has anyone TTC after removing an IUD? Is there a waiting period that needs to take place? I will be getting mine taken out within a few months and I just wanted to know if I could possibly get pregnant soon thereafter.

by LadyHope

I will share this to my friend who is now pregnant. I am sure it will be happy that I care of her. Horse Medicine

by jeanymeets

Something that has helped a lot of women I know including myself is the pink pad app on a smart phone. It helps you keep track of periods, ovulation, and times you have sex. It will even send you a notification when you are ovulating.

by brooklynoe

What does shingles look like? what is shingles and how it happen? Find out at random-matters.com Is Organic Food Better for You? Is it really healthy than conventional food? Find out the answer at random-matters.com Learn how to stop diarrhea. We will tell you what you must do when you have diarrhea, such as prevent dehydration and foods to avoid. How to Fix Blue Screen of Death, list of BSOD error codes and why Blue Screen of Death can happen. Biceps Tenodesis Definition. A Biceps tenodesis is a procedure that cuts the attachment of the biceps tendon on the and reattaches it to the humerus.

by randomma

Planning to get pregnant is one of the best gifts you can give to yourself and your baby. By actively pursuing good health, proper nutrition and removing potential harm from your life before conceiving you can increase your chances of a health pregnancy and a healthy baby.... cell phone spy software

by johanmalingo

Beautiful information You are very nice to explain the things like this. Namenda is used to treat dementia associated with Alzheimer's disease.

by sammy2tigone

I think proper family planning is necessary for your better life.Children really provide you a different type of comfort which is really nice... cell phone listening

by hofsmanalberto

OK AFTER OUR LOST ON 1-16-11 WE R BACK IN THE HORSE. PLEASE WISH US ALOT LUCK AND MAYBE WE WILL HAVE A BABY IN THE SUMMER. ANY ADVISE WILL BE NICE TO SPEED IT UP. THANKS.

by adapc

Has anyone with pre-cervical cancer had more trouble getting KU?

by tea1989

I have already tried pretty much all of that and still no luck... I need help!

by Casrus0838

What is private disability? I just found out I'm pregnant this past Sunday and I have my 1st appt this Friday!

by AlexAndBiancasWedding

I was on depo after i had my son, for almost 2 years. I got off and my husband and me are wanting to have another baby. I dont remember when my last period was but need to know when im ovulating. can anyone help me?

by justinapeak

Lube can cause the sperm to swim slower, making it harder to get pregnant

by faith_bowie

É difícil criar uma idéia original. Mais bem sucedidas empresas de web baseado em conceitos que foram lá e também foi testado. A diferença vista, ou abordagem. Você pode escolher uma empresa que tem centenas de concorrentes. waterbed mattress

by agustoangelo

I noticed that the check list said I should be eating healthy and decreasing my extreme exercising. I am on Weight Watchers and have been dieting for the last 6 months. As well as going to the gym every night. Can I continue this? what should I be eating and doing at the gym? We've been trying for two months.

by Lisamichelle789

well this is something new for me.... i am 37 weeks and have little time left till my baby girl is born!

by alevaz10

I want my miracle baby to be born in September, I know God keeps his promises and I am standing on his word.

by HighlyFavored11

As I just started posting comments for blog and facing problem of lots of rejections. I think your suggestion would be helpful for me. I will let you know if its work for me too. jocuri online

by diyajee

Check this out "Good teachers love their subject and love being in the classroom,'' Yagodzinski said. Regards, Cheap Power Tools

by Toolman11

i just started working out because i am overweight and need to lose about 100lbs i am trying to lose weight to have a baby by early/mid 2013

by nikieianicole

Lube generally isn't sperm safe. You can buy sperm safe lube, I just don't know where. Try googling it.

by casslynntomjay61711